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re: Return to small town Louisiana vs staying in the big city rat race

Posted on 11/9/26 at 6:37 pm to
Posted by turnpiketiger
Member since May 2020
12875 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 6:37 pm to
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You’re going to move to rural Louisiana and find out you have to deal with way more meth and crack heads on a daily basis shopping at Doller General than you ever had to in a week before


Well it’s rural but not that damn rural. The town I’m referring to is DeRidder
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
160604 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 6:38 pm to
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
86487 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 6:47 pm to
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What other costs am I not factoring?


The ammo you will go through

Ah gotcha
Posted by Tarps99
Lafourche Parish
Member since Apr 2017
13958 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 6:53 pm to
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I think the lack of character and authenticity is what is getting to me. We can all mock Louisiana all we want but it damn sure doesn’t lack character and authenticity.


I can agree there. There is a poster on Facebook that posts about the happenings on a small isolated island paradise known as Grand Isle. I know he supposedly posting as satire, but are there a few grains of truth between lines? Definitely a lot of character in this state and some of it starts with our politicians whether it is the governor or the mayor of a one horse town.
Posted by duckblind56
South of Ellick
Member since Sep 2023
6429 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 6:55 pm to
Not sure the Baton Rouge/Prairieville/Gonzales combo area qualifies as 'big city' but here we go.

Moved from rural cenla in 1980 to the BR/PV/GZ area in 1980, worked, married, had children and drove home one day in July 2019 and put the house up for sale. Moved back to cenla and now live in a very rural area on a lake surrounded by mostly state/national forest and timber company land.

For me and Ms duckblind, it was move or go insane due to the crazy growth in the Pvile/Gtown area. Huge development with absolutely no infrastructure in place to support it and a great place to live turned into one huge traffic queue.

Now that I'm retired I take morning walks, set on the back porch and watch a huge gray crane snag fish along the lake and just thank God for all my blessings.
Posted by Herschal
USA
Member since Sep 2011
2584 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:03 pm to
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So the question is, is it worth it to say screw the rat race


I have turned down jobs in Houston to stay in Louisiana.

Third kid on the way now. We shall wait and see if it was worth it. I am fine with my choices though, for reasons you mentioned.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
126912 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:03 pm to
Anywhere in Houston to DeRidder is a massive downgrade
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:09 pm to
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The town I’m referring to is DeRidder
point stands on the amount of meth heads you have to encounter on a daily
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
2284 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:11 pm to
The cost of living in Louisiana is much less than most states
Posted by pickle311
Liberty Hill TX
Member since Sep 2008
1410 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:12 pm to
BR isn’t far at all from Houston, very easy weekend drive. Go live the rat race and make money, then when you’re ready to slow down go back to small town living and enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37557 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:12 pm to
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True but having to worry about money is also a miserable existence

True but living somewhere just because the pay is “better” sounds awful, too.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:18 pm to
I’m raising my 3 young kids in a small town that affords them the education and opportunities infinitely better than I remember having in Louisiana. I’d probably deserve to go to hell if I were to haul off and move us to Louisiana.
Posted by vidtiger23
Member since Feb 2012
10843 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:22 pm to
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point stands on the amount of meth heads you have to encounter on a daily

You see plenty of scum in big cities. Much more in fact.
Posted by F1y0n7h3W4LL
Below I-10
Member since Jul 2019
4800 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:23 pm to
I spend a few days way up in the piney hills every month.

We have a deer feeder in the back yard and it is not unusual to see a dozen does and fawns come up daily and you can set your watch on when the 7:05 AM school bus rumbles by.

Often I hear a gun go off on the next farm over and I don't grab my own. No one complains.

The mere satisfaction of not having an HOA is cathartic.

Walmart is 8 miles in one direction and Dollar General is 7 in the other but Amazon delivers.

Here in the burbs, we have HOAs, trashy Family Dollar stores, Mexican restaurants, Starbucks, 5 fast food joints, 6 convenience stores, and loads of traffic...all within 2 miles of me.

The problem is talking the wife into the country lifestyle. No shopping centers.
Posted by Violent Hip Swivel
Member since Aug 2023
11250 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:26 pm to
If you have a wife and kids in the house, living on land in the country would be the move if you think there's even a 5 percent chance that AI creates occasional social upheaval and occasional chaos at some point in the future.
This post was edited on 11/9/26 at 7:27 pm
Posted by Shorts Guy
BR
Member since Dec 2023
1229 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:29 pm to
Not exactly “small town Louisiana” but I moved back to BR ~5 years ago. Grew up outside of town so I guess it qualifies as going back to my roots. Luckily it worked out on the job front and I didn’t take a pay cut with the move. Would’ve preferred to live out in the country, but living in BR was an easy compromise to appease the wife.

What I’ll say is this…if you’re the type of person who would even consider doing this, it’s worth a shot. You can always move if it doesn’t work out the way you envisioned.

The types who think they are better…who can’t stand breaking away from their corporate circle jerk and vapid friends…they’ll want to stay in Houston. No question.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37557 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:34 pm to
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I’m raising my 3 young kids in a small town that affords them the education and opportunities infinitely better than I remember having in Louisiana. I’d probably deserve to go to hell if I were to haul off and move us to Louisiana.

Oh, don’t get me wrong I don’t think raising kids in Louisiana is the best for everyone, but I couldn’t imagine moving to the hellscape of Texas just because they pay a little more. There are definitely other places that I would be open to moving to, but it would have to be because I wanted to move there, regardless of pay.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:37 pm to
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If you have a wife and kids in the house, living on land in the country would be the move if you think there's even a 5 percent chance that AI creates occasional social upheaval and occasional chaos at some point in the future.
so moving your young kids off to a poverty stricken welfare heavy area with poor education and opportunities is a good idea on a 5% chance AI could disrupt things?

Gen X is turning out to be terrible at parenting
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
62606 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:44 pm to
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The types who think they are better…who can’t stand breaking away from their corporate circle jerk and vapid friends…they’ll want to stay in Houston. No question.
it’s funny that Houston is seen by some here as some sort of ultra competitive striver place
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
14921 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:45 pm to
Natchitoches
Or hill country Texas. I wish I could move to Gruene.
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