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re: Return to small town Louisiana vs staying in the big city rat race

Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:45 pm to
Posted by lepdagod
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
6531 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:45 pm to
I made my mind up last week … I'm moving back to Monroe at 50… I’m 44(45 in Dec) would have 20 years at current job when I leave… left Monroe in 2000 for the Army, moved to Baton Rouge when I got out to attend Southern …stayed in New Orleans 2 years… came back to Baton Rouge in 2010 been here ever since… I told my grandma who passed in 2021 I was eventually coming back home … just took 32 years
This post was edited on 11/9/26 at 8:19 pm
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:47 pm to
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moved to Baton Rouge when I got out to attend Southern …

Posted by Shorts Guy
BR
Member since Dec 2023
1229 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:49 pm to
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it’s funny that Houston is seen by some here as some sort of ultra competitive striver place


May have something to do with it being the 4th largest Metro in the country with more Fortune 500’s than everywhere but NYC and Chicago (tied).
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
107232 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:52 pm to
What town we talking about? There's a big difference between say Ruston and Ferriday
Posted by lgtiger
LA
Member since May 2005
1578 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 7:58 pm to
I live an hr from NO, 90 min from DR and Laffy. Close enough to big city, far enough to not have a neighbor. I like it. Close enough to airport, Ocshners's, restaurants, and LSU sports. Education good enough to send both kids to Ivy league schools full ride and still have shooting out the back door and beautiful sunsets over the cane fields
This post was edited on 11/9/26 at 8:10 pm
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38555 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 8:03 pm to
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Sure the economic opportunities are plentiful in the metro Houston rat race


Didn’t the mayor just announce the city would no longer cooperate with ICE on immigration issues? Seems the blue wave is going to try and turn Htown into Chicago. That would outweigh exonomic opportunities.

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Personal goal was to always own land. Actual property
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My advice to you if you really want to
Own some acreage is not to wait. We committed early on to having acreage and horses. It’s been very rewarding. And a lot of work. I’m glad we did it while we were relatively young as the labor required isn’t something I’d want to expend in my 50s. If you really want land, don’t wait. Do it while you’re young enough so the work required doesn’t ruin the experience.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
82388 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 8:08 pm to
First, stop using "rat race" paw paw.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
133854 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 8:12 pm to
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I’d leave Houston and live in the country too if I could still make $400k.


Subtle brag
Posted by tigerfan84
Member since Dec 2003
27329 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 8:25 pm to
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What town we talking about? There's a big difference between say Ruston and Ferriday


He said on page 2 it’s DeRidder.
This post was edited on 11/9/26 at 8:26 pm
Posted by Everyday Is Saturday
Member since Dec 2025
2914 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 8:31 pm to
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the metro Houston rat race. But it comes with very shallow phony people, very expensive COL, major cultural differences and most notably absent family and friends.


You don’t know me. But I faced this nearly exact scenario year 15 of my 30yr big oil career. We were with young kids at the time in Houston suburb, in a lethal to life commute most days, a corporate bland culture left, right and center — a vapid place. Downtown Houston, in particular, felt like the baby made if an LLC mated with concrete.

Found a role in same company that allowed WFH well before it was ever cool (commercial / customer facing). Made it work via many global roles and promotions that also enabled WFH. Was not always easy. Went back to school for 2nd masters to earn one role along that journey. But….

Essentially, I dodged much of the corporate destruction of my soul via WFH while living in New Orleans that fed our souls…family, kids knowing their grandparents deeply, etc. Best of both worlds. Looking back, it was perfect for us.

Is this possible for you?

If not, my mantra is life is short. Be happy wins the day. Always!

Good luck.

This post was edited on 11/9/26 at 8:34 pm
Posted by ThroughThickAndThin
In The Zone
Member since May 2026
210 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 9:03 pm to
Haven't read the entire thread. If you have the financial means to retire, West Carrol parish is a hidden gem. Great demographics, low cost of living and neighbors that have your back
Posted by clarencegreenthumb
Member since Aug 2014
144 posts
Posted on 11/9/26 at 9:06 pm to
Kingwood was pretty chill in the 90s. Consistent 50 min drive to W HTX. Lots of concrete though.
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