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Responding to Your Superiors as Sir and/or Ma’am

Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:53 am
Posted by OleWarSkuleAlum
Huntsville, AL
Member since Dec 2013
10293 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:53 am
Is there any excuse to not respond to your superior/boss’ questions, etc with Yes Sir or No Sir? When a subordinate responds with Okay, Mike or something along those lines that’s blatant disrespect. Is this informalism a function of Boomers not wanting to feel old?
Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
23559 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:54 am to
Okay Mike.
Posted by DWaginHTown
Houston, TX
Member since Jan 2006
10216 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:55 am to
No ma'am.
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
4193 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:56 am to
The most alpha move is to respond to your subordinates with yes/no sir
Posted by cave canem
pullarius dominus
Member since Oct 2012
12186 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:56 am to
quote:

When a subordinate responds with Okay, Mike or something along those lines that’s blatant disrespect.



I bet you are fun at parties.

Though I have had a few employees do it I would consider it an asinine request for me to make.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
67007 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:57 am to
quote:

Is there any excuse

If you don't know their gender
Posted by YNWA
Member since Nov 2015
7245 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:58 am to
Saying "Sir" or "M'am" is a Beta move. Alphas don't use that terminology.
Posted by Centinel
Idaho
Member since Sep 2016
46721 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:58 am to
quote:

Is there any excuse to not respond to your superior/boss’ questions, etc with Yes Sir or No Sir?


Ya, I don't wear a uniform anymore. That shite stopped the moment I stopped wearing one.

This post was edited on 2/27/20 at 6:59 am
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
34797 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:58 am to
Someone at work called you by your first name...?

What are you like 5-2/5-3?
This post was edited on 2/27/20 at 7:05 am
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8699 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:58 am to
After I got out of the Marines I still did this, but after a lot of weird looks I stopped for the most part.
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
139229 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:59 am to
As a straight white male, I have no superiors
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
21870 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:59 am to
According if they are a dick or not. That’s the determining factor
Posted by TRUERockyTop
Appalachia
Member since Sep 2011
16883 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:59 am to
I would never mandate my subordinates refer to me as yes sir/no sir as long as they were respectful and understand that there's a time and a place for everything.

Short of being my commanding officer, I'm certainly not addressing you as yes sir/no sir after every comment.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
175703 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 6:59 am to
You're just their boss, not their damn grandparents.

F off with that shite
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
6314 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 7:00 am to
Still on the crusade, huh? Let it go man/ma'am.

Posted by OleWarSkuleAlum
Huntsville, AL
Member since Dec 2013
10293 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 7:00 am to
quote:

Ya, I don't wear a uniform anymore. That shite stopped the moment I stopped wearing one.


Got it so the discipline the Army taught you didn’t carry over into your civilian life.
Posted by OleWarSkuleAlum
Huntsville, AL
Member since Dec 2013
10293 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 7:01 am to
quote:

Short of being my commanding officer, I'm certainly not addressing you as yes sir/no sir after every comment.



If I’m your boss I am your commander.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
175703 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 7:02 am to
quote:


Got it so the discipline the Army taught you didn’t carry over into your civilian life.



The problem here is you seem to think that you deserve respect that you aren't getting

Maybe you don't actually deserve it and need to look in the mirror. How do you treat your employees? I'm guessing if you're that obsessed about them calling you sir probably not as well as you think.
Posted by GatorReb
Dallas GA
Member since Feb 2009
9426 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 7:03 am to
I was raised to say Sir and Ma'am.

I'm 32. Simply put, I say it to anyone that is my parents generation or older.

No i'm not going to say it to my direct boss that's 5 years older than me. I speak to him with respect but not sir.

My kids are being raised to say it as well.
This post was edited on 2/27/20 at 7:06 am
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41910 posts
Posted on 2/27/20 at 7:05 am to
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