Started By
Message

re: Random, out of left field, breakup stories

Posted on 5/17/20 at 9:40 am to
Posted by Tempratt
WRMS Girls Soccer Team Kicks arse
Member since Oct 2013
13345 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 9:40 am to
quote:

Positively, absolutely, 100% there's another dude.


Absolutely. Also when she comes back wanting to get back together, tell her out of her mind.
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20443 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 9:52 am to
quote:

Years ago I dated a girl that broke up with me because I was too nice and not a challenge.

This is yet another one of those things that girls (girls, not women) came up with over the years, where it's like, "what the frick are you talking about?" At some point, it's time to grow the frick up and have an adult relationship. Especially if you're fricking. That's something a middle schooler would say. The girls who go by that mantra are probably the professional divorcees who make a living off of 2 or 3 different alimonies and child support from 3 different exes.
Posted by DCtiger1
Panama City Beach
Member since Jul 2009
8778 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:02 am to
I dated a girl all throughout highschool. She was a year behind me. I decided to go to college closer to home in order to keep the relationship going. Went back home many weekends to see her. She graduates and decides she’s going to come to the same college as me. The day classes started, I get a message from her asking me to meet her in front of the student union. She proceeds to tell me that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore and wants to enjoy being a freshman in college.

Couple days later a few of us go out to this shithole bar close to campus and there she is dancing with another dude. Can’t believe I wasted so much time with that dumb bitch
Posted by sabes que
Member since Jan 2010
10156 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:11 am to
quote:

I tried to do everything in my power to treat her like a million bucks. Would drive to her house (lived in a small community about 30 minutes or so out) at the drop of a dime
. This is where it went wrong, whether you were or not, she perceived you as desperate because of this. Desperation is the cardinal sin in these type of “courting” scenarios. IMO it’s the only thing that can’t be overcome, it’s an automatic out, you can overcome nervousness, and just about anything else, but if the woman feels you are desperate to be with her, it’s over. It’s great to be a good man and treat a woman great if we are talking about someone you are married to or have been with for a very long time, but trying to win a woman’s affection by running around trying to do every little thing for her and “treat her like a queen” is never going to be a good idea.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38782 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:13 am to
quote:

Delacroix22


A lot of words for she is fricking another dude
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
68212 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:15 am to
quote:

Things were great outside of the two days before the break up as well. There was genuine chemistry there and she was (seemingly) every bit as into it as I was
You probably missed the signs and lack insight.
Posted by VictoryHill
Alabama
Member since Nov 2013
3210 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:22 am to
r/whereareallthegoodmen

Chances are pretty high she'll text you out of the blue in a couple of months when Chad is done with her.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108296 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:24 am to
quote:

Positively, absolutely, 100% there's another dude.


Especially during a quarantine, I bet there are several people in “relationships” with multiple people right now just deciding which one they want at the end of the quarantine.
Posted by Tonio
Member since Dec 2019
1023 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:34 am to
quote:

Was engaged to a French girl


Paint me like one of your French girls
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
26752 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:44 am to
quote:

I decided to go to college closer to home in order to keep the relationship going.


Stupid move. You wasted your freshman year on a high school chick.
Posted by NoShow
Member since Feb 2013
2339 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:50 am to
Maybe she wants to explore her lesbian feelings.
Posted by TT9
Global warming
Member since Sep 2008
82952 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 10:52 am to
quote:

Women usually already have a backup qb in place when they yank the starter


Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
18805 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 12:01 pm to
quote:

don’t know I’m sure this is just one of those “women do stupid shite” things.



Oh no, there’s a reason. There’s always a reason. It’s just a matter of whether or not you care enough to find that out.
Posted by DCtiger1
Panama City Beach
Member since Jul 2009
8778 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 12:02 pm to
quote:

Stupid move. You wasted your freshman year on a high school chick.


No shite Sherlock
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
18805 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 12:08 pm to
quote:

I’ve told this story on here a couple times so ill keep it short but she found porn on my computer 2 days before we were going to go sign the papers


If you can’t look at porn, granted you don’t have an addiction, without your girl flipping out there’s something wrong. Hell, we’ve watched stuff together before. But as long as it doesn’t negatively affect our sex life it’s don’t ask don’t tell.
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19227 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 2:30 pm to
quote:

This is yet another one of those things that girls (girls, not women) came up with over the years, where it's like, "what the frick are you talking about?"


If a girl is too eager, does it put you off?

We’re all trying to get the best match possible, and I think girls want someone they feel is better than them. They’re also competitive.

I don’t show a lot of emotion, and one girl I knew told me it drove her insane. She wanted to figure out what I was thinking, what I was feeling.

It made her feel competitive.
This post was edited on 5/17/20 at 2:32 pm
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

Chances are pretty high she'll text you out of the blue in a couple of months when Chad is done with her.


At that point, OP, you should tell her to meet you at Arby's, order a Reuben, and use it as a prop in the subsequent conversation.
Posted by ellesssuuu
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2016
2775 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 2:58 pm to
Definitely banging someone else.
As someone older and wiser women are a different breed. Hell they bleed once a month
Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
7823 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 3:12 pm to
Yeah, had a girl do what the one in OP did, except it was a 2+ year relationship and I was so confident that I purchased a ring days before.

My lesson: If you start thinking your "friend" is getting too close, he is.
This post was edited on 5/17/20 at 3:16 pm
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 5/17/20 at 3:20 pm to
Damn. That’s fricking brutal.
first pageprev pagePage 6 of 9Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookTwitterInstagram