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Posted on 5/16/20 at 9:23 pm to Pedro
quote:and more farm animals
hey dude there’s some cuties here if you know where to look
My advice: self-improvement
Posted on 5/16/20 at 9:27 pm to Delacroix22
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Anything short of 2 months you are still in the "ghostable" period
If you are two months of being in an exclusive relationship, I have to disagree.
Be an adult and communicate your issue(s).
Quite honestly, even if you've been going out on dates and aren't considering each other your significant other, I would still think it's the mature thing to do to communicate that you are no longer interested.
Simply not talking to someone and leaving them hanging with no explanation after two months is weak.
This post was edited on 5/16/20 at 9:28 pm
Posted on 5/16/20 at 9:45 pm to Pedro
My last ex girlfriend probably felt like it was out of left field. She had some issues that were getting harder and harder to deal with. On our one year “anniversary,” she was on the way to my house and was starting her usual shite via phone/text. Decided right then and there I’d had enough, called her and told her to turn around and go home, I was done.
Best fricking decision I ever made.
Best fricking decision I ever made.
Posted on 5/16/20 at 9:59 pm to Pedro
Sorry to hear man. That feeling of heartbreak is the absolute worst. You’re left hurt, confused, and frustrated.
I had a similar thing happen to me last week that I posted about as well. We had been dating for a shirt period of time. Besides a small hiccup one night, everything was going swimmingly. We had plans to see each other last Thursday. On the couple of days prior, she was a little distant, but I just attributed that to her being busy. She calls me right before she’s supposed to come over and ends it, telling me that “it’s just gotten too serious, and I don’t feel it anymore.” I don’t think there’s another guy involved but I could be wrong, and I honestly don’t care to know.
The short term ones hurt worse than the long term ones, because you don’t discover that person’s flaws. This girl I thought might have been the love of my life. Now I will never get the chance to feel that out. I’m still kinda down about it a week later, but life goes on.
I keep telling myself to a) work on self-improvement, because that’s what ultimately will matter as opposed to some stupid girl I dated, and b) there are thousands of other girls out there. shite, in Atlanta finding a girl willing to have sex with you is like shooting fish in a barrel.
Chin up, baw. It will get better for both of us.
I had a similar thing happen to me last week that I posted about as well. We had been dating for a shirt period of time. Besides a small hiccup one night, everything was going swimmingly. We had plans to see each other last Thursday. On the couple of days prior, she was a little distant, but I just attributed that to her being busy. She calls me right before she’s supposed to come over and ends it, telling me that “it’s just gotten too serious, and I don’t feel it anymore.” I don’t think there’s another guy involved but I could be wrong, and I honestly don’t care to know.
The short term ones hurt worse than the long term ones, because you don’t discover that person’s flaws. This girl I thought might have been the love of my life. Now I will never get the chance to feel that out. I’m still kinda down about it a week later, but life goes on.
I keep telling myself to a) work on self-improvement, because that’s what ultimately will matter as opposed to some stupid girl I dated, and b) there are thousands of other girls out there. shite, in Atlanta finding a girl willing to have sex with you is like shooting fish in a barrel.
Chin up, baw. It will get better for both of us.
Posted on 5/16/20 at 10:01 pm to Pedro
Remember the day she FaceTime dropped you and celebrate every year when it comes around again.
She did you a favor.
The best way to get over losing a woman is to get underneath another one.
PS: Communication skills amongst folks in general have eroded over the past couple of decades. I’d hate to be shopping for a replacement woman for Mrs Füt in this present market.
She did you a favor.
The best way to get over losing a woman is to get underneath another one.
PS: Communication skills amongst folks in general have eroded over the past couple of decades. I’d hate to be shopping for a replacement woman for Mrs Füt in this present market.
Posted on 5/16/20 at 10:02 pm to Pedro
Left field aka rando dick
Posted on 5/16/20 at 10:10 pm to Pedro
There’s a good chance she’ll randomly contact you again in a couple of months
Posted on 5/16/20 at 10:13 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
She’s one in a million girls.
Posted on 5/16/20 at 10:35 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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VolsOut4Harambe
We’ll rebound my dude. I’m just glad this happened kinda at the end of all this rona stuff. Get to get back with my athletes I coach to train them again next week and then gonna take some time to go back down to the boot and visit family.
I’ve gotten better as the days gone on today. I’ll probably wade in and out of it through the next couple weeks.
I’m starting to feel like it was just not being ready to commit to a serious relationship honestly. I’ve managed to have contact with a couple mutual friends I trust and there’s no chance it’s a new dude. Oddly enough I’d almost rather that that way I could at least make sense of it.
Posted on 5/16/20 at 10:36 pm to Mr Personality
quote:I’ve thought of that too. I’m honestly not sure how I’d handle that. She’s a sweet kind hearted girl and everything but she effed this up bad.
There’s a good chance she’ll randomly contact you again in a couple of months
Posted on 5/16/20 at 11:08 pm to Pedro
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shite that sounds like my last ex. I’ve told this story on here a couple times so ill keep it short but she found porn on my computer 2 days before we were going to go sign the papers. Had been there for a while had a mental slip and left stuff open which now I’m thankful for. Anyway she blows up decides she doesn’t want to get married and everything. Through the course of that she blows up on my parents for sending her a birthday gift they had bought her before all this happened but not apologizing to her (for what I don’t know). She told me to kill myself, broke my nose, all that Jazz. She was Uber controlling before than and I was just an idiot. Put me in the spot of where I am now of not dealing with shite from them.
What her situation now?
And how weird was this porn and how did you tell your mom about why y’all aren’t getting married
Posted on 5/16/20 at 11:16 pm to Pedro
My guess is she did some research on your arse and didn't like what she saw
Posted on 5/16/20 at 11:23 pm to Pedro
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I tried to do everything in my power to treat her like a million bucks. Would drive up to her house (lived in a small community about 30 minutes or so out) at the drop of a dime, would do all the little things right like open doors and such, never argued.
This is why. Because of this.
quote:
Had a couple guys she was close to being there with that treated her like trash after the last one she said eff it for a while. Hasn’t had great experiences with guys outside of me. Was adopted at birth because dad didn’t want her, adoptive dad wasn’t really involved with her for some reason or another, among other relative men issues.
Women that get treated like shite love to be treated like shite.
Posted on 5/16/20 at 11:29 pm to illuminatic
Yep. The thing with my ex was her dad was a piece of crap to her as well. Also some bad stuff happened to her in the past from what she told me. I always tried to treat her right. She thought I was cheating on her at one point. But she almost seemed calm and ok with it like she expected to happen because of what she saw her dad do to her mom. I’m pretty certain she needed instability in her life because that’s really all she’s ever known. It sucks but you can’t fix girls who are wired like that. I believe my ex truly loved me but the long term stability is what scared her in the end.
This post was edited on 5/16/20 at 11:31 pm
Posted on 5/16/20 at 11:35 pm to Pedro
Nothing is random, something is going on, but there's no point in driving yourself crazy.
If there was someone else and you had only dated for 6wks, she probably would have just ghosted you. If it makes you feel any better, it's something on her end.
Don't ask questions or hang on, take your time, and when you're ready, move on. 90%+ that she comes back to you in about 6 mos.
If there was someone else and you had only dated for 6wks, she probably would have just ghosted you. If it makes you feel any better, it's something on her end.
Don't ask questions or hang on, take your time, and when you're ready, move on. 90%+ that she comes back to you in about 6 mos.
This post was edited on 5/16/20 at 11:45 pm
Posted on 5/16/20 at 11:40 pm to fallguy_1978
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Women usually already have a backup qb in place when they yank the starter
Monkeys and branches, my friends. Monkeys and branches.
Posted on 5/16/20 at 11:44 pm to illuminatic
quote:
This is why. Because of this.
Absolutely true.
When you treat a woman that way, you end up reversing gender roles, and she'll hate it. It will also make her wonder if she's too good for you.
You should still hold door opens for her, don't abandon your manners, but do not worship her.
This post was edited on 5/16/20 at 11:48 pm
Posted on 5/17/20 at 12:01 am to Pedro
Probably another guy whom she may feel has higher income potential. Or, it could simply be a girlfriend's opinion to end the relationship. Southern girls, especially, are heavily influenced by what their girlfriends say/think. They aren't independent thinkers in general.
But it's all good, you'll live and learn and one day while you're crawling up some broad's sundress, she will likely be raising someone else's kids by herself.
But it's all good, you'll live and learn and one day while you're crawling up some broad's sundress, she will likely be raising someone else's kids by herself.
Posted on 5/17/20 at 12:03 am to boosiebadazz
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And how weird was this porn
I have asked this question multiple times, and I have never received a response.
I have never seen where he has gone into the depths of his alleged porn problem. I can only think of two types of porn problems: one where you are spending too much money on it and another where the practice is interfering with your sex life
This post was edited on 5/17/20 at 12:06 am
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