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re: Previous kid child support?

Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:14 pm to
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33050 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:14 pm to
God damn that is a trashy situation. Being friends with the dude makes you trashy by association.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:14 pm to
quote:

Well damn how are they going to punish a guy for wanting to do the right thing? She said they needed to change the daughters last name so that in school she won’t be picked on for having diff last name than him


I don’t think you and you’re buddy are understanding what adoption means.

It means “this is my child”. It doesn’t mean “this is my child on the condition that I continue to have a relationship with his/her biological parent(s).
Posted by SouthernImmigrant
NELA
Member since Jul 2018
624 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:14 pm to
quote:

yeah they wanted to change her last name

This bitch had this divorce and free money planned looong before the name change.
I’m sure many subtle hints about the poor step child feeling different were said and eventually the name was changed.
I’ll guess it wasn’t long later she bounced?
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quote:

Your friend got played. quote: She said they needed to change the daughters last name so that in school she won’t be picked on for having diff last name than him Your friend is a moron. That's an absolutely full retard level reason. My step son has never once been teased for having a different last name than his mothers. Kids don't even know about that shite.

100% convinced your friend, is you, and you’re a grade A dumbass.
This post was edited on 8/13/18 at 2:31 pm
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
36972 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:15 pm to
quote:

Yeah they wanted to change her last name


Lol....she did, for a reason!

The pussy strikes again.
Posted by bbvdd
Memphis, TN
Member since Jun 2009
28646 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:15 pm to
"your friend" may have the worst lawyer in the history of lawyers.
Posted by tylercsbn9
Cypress, TX
Member since Feb 2004
66973 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:15 pm to
quote:

Translated: They wanted to claim that dependent.


Not necessarily. My wife and I claim her son (my step son) every year.

I'm sure it can differ based on agreements (ie they can rotate between the father and mother) but seeing as my stepson spends 99.99% of his time in my home it makes sense.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
77226 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:16 pm to
Your friend is a moron for marrying someone with a child.

Never do that.
Posted by ColonelTiger88
Nicholls State Fan
Member since Apr 2014
699 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:32 pm to
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Well damn how are they going to punish a guy for wanting to do the right thing?

Because the child is legally his, so he's not being punished. I adopted my wife's daughter and the Judge even said in court that if my wife and I got divorced that I could owe child support.
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6584 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:33 pm to
So she isn’t double dipping then? Real dad doesn’t need to spend the weekend with her anymore I guess
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:35 pm to
he fricked up
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18046 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:36 pm to
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I bet the real dad is happy as frick right now.


BTW, where is the real dad?
Posted by TigerAxeOK
Where I lay my head is home.
Member since Dec 2016
37924 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:37 pm to
I adopted my daughter who is my ex wife's, biologically. And then the bitch got stupid and started doing stupid things. I filed for divorce and won custody. Her mom is supposed to pay me child support which she never has. I only get pissed about the child support because I would legitimately use it for my daughter. A mere $150/mo.

But yeah, I won't get started on that.
Posted by ColonelTiger88
Nicholls State Fan
Member since Apr 2014
699 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:38 pm to
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Real dad doesn’t need to spend the weekend with her anymore I guess


If the birth certificate was changed and your friend is listed as the dad then nope. My daughter's was changed with my name as the father and the pos biological father has no parental rights.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:40 pm to
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So she isn’t double dipping then? Real dad doesn’t need to spend the weekend with her anymore I guess


Hmm. Someone with more experience with this should chime in but I don’t think bio-dad would be obligated to pay any support for a child someone else adopted. I wouldn’t think he’d have any custodial rights or obligations at this point.

EDIT: I suppose I guessed correctly according to the guy above me.
This post was edited on 8/13/18 at 2:43 pm
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70001 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:40 pm to
Why spousal? Is she a fat lazy dependa that doesn’t work
Posted by madmaxvol
Infinity + 1 Posts
Member since Oct 2011
22171 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:40 pm to
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Yeah they wanted to change her last name




So...they thought the only way to change the kid's name was for him to adopt her?
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
6584 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:41 pm to
Hard to work when 3 young kids
This post was edited on 8/13/18 at 2:41 pm
Posted by AA77
Member since Jan 2016
3853 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:41 pm to
quote:

Yeah they wanted to change her last name



Legally the kid is his, so he has to pay child support.
Posted by Stexas
SWLA
Member since May 2013
7017 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:43 pm to
quote:

to punish a guy for wanting to do the right thing


Dude doesn't want to support his kids and you call that the right thing?
Posted by SPEEDY
2005 Tiger Smack Poster of the Year
Member since Dec 2003
88174 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:44 pm to
quote:

Yeah they wanted to change her last name



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