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re: Previous kid child support?

Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:49 pm to
Posted by TigerCoon
Member since Nov 2005
22468 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:49 pm to
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Well damn how are they going to punish a guy for wanting to do the right thing?


He's still doing the "right thing". He's supporting the kid he adopted.
Posted by TigerCoon
Member since Nov 2005
22468 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:50 pm to
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Being friends with the dude makes you trashy by association.


I always get confused if it is trashy by association or trashy once removed.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
25817 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 2:55 pm to
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Hard to work when 3 young kids


So not only did your buddy's ex get him on the hook for child support for a child from her previous relationship, she also convinced him she couldn't get a job because of having kids and now has him for spousal support too.







Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
59148 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 3:12 pm to
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That's an absolutely full retard level reason. My step son has never once been teased for having a different last name than his mothers. Kids don't even know about that shite.

It’s ironic that you’re making fun of this guy when you’re raising somebody else’s kid too
Posted by pensacola
pensacola
Member since Sep 2005
4821 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 3:23 pm to
Someone has to pay for the travel ball and World Series rings.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64348 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 3:26 pm to
Lol, this chick just wanted the financial support.


Your friend is going to get cucked real good before too long and he'll still be on the hook financially.
Posted by FourcadeBrigade
Member since Oct 2003
224 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 3:29 pm to
Your friend needs to get a paternity test on the twins... stat.
Posted by Rep520
Member since Mar 2018
10476 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 3:40 pm to
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Wait, you knew he adopted her, and you still asked why he is responsible for her? 


It is a stunner that after filing legal paperwork to get the government to recognize the child as his, the government now has the chutzpah to act like the child is somehow his.

Sounds like he got exactly what he asked for.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 3:42 pm to
I'm sure there has to be some laws covering such a situation, but what if the following would happen:

Woman divorces and takes kids. New husband adopts kids. Wife now divorces new husband so he now has child support to pay. A year or so later, slut wife decides to get back with husband No. 1 and they re-marry.

Is Husband No 2 still on the hook for child support?

Bonus question: Can the couple use the child support monies legally to upgrade to a doublewide?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134598 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 3:47 pm to
This is why i’m Not interested in raising anyone else’s brood. I’ve got enough with my own. I don’t want my resources going to anyone but them.
This post was edited on 8/13/18 at 3:48 pm
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 6:01 pm to
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I'm sure there has to be some laws covering such a situation, but what if the following would happen:

Woman divorces and takes kids. New husband adopts kids. Wife now divorces new husband so he now has child support to pay. A year or so later, slut wife decides to get back with husband No. 1 and they re-marry.

Is Husband No 2 still on the hook for child support?


If Husband No 2 adopted the kids, the kids are his. Yes he pays child support.

I mean, it’s pretty straight forward I think. The decision to adopt a child should not be contingent on one’s relationship with their mother. Imagine the mother passes away, are you going to be like, “Welp, your mom’s gone. I wish you the best”
This post was edited on 8/13/18 at 6:02 pm
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16725 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 6:23 pm to
Ha ha your friend got played.

Adoption is kind of a serious deal, don't adopt something you don't want responsibility for.... Also means he has rights to custody over all 3 though. He should try to step up to the plate and demand more custody of all 3 to ease some of that child support.
This post was edited on 8/13/18 at 6:24 pm
Posted by Mordecai225
Member since Mar 2017
146 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 6:25 pm to
If he adopted the child then he named himself as the parent. So even though he’s not biologically the father legally he is. That court system a big ol’ B word.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79904 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 6:32 pm to
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She said they needed to change the daughters last name so that in school she won’t be picked on for having diff last name than him
What? He believed that bullshite? He's a step-dad, nobody gets teased for having a different name than their step-dad. Hell, a shitton of kids have a different last name from their biological father. He got suckered and she got him to pay child support. What a rube.
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 6:41 pm to
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This is why i’m Not interested in raising anyone else’s brood. I’ve got enough with my own. I don’t want my resources going to anyone but them.


Same, when I was divorced and dating woman with young kids were a no go for me, complicates your life with your own kids and typically involves too much interaction and issues with their ex.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 6:54 pm to
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Yeah they wanted to change her last name


Well, duh....

Adoption is not merely a name change. The child became his in every way exactly like the biological children.
Posted by SouthernImmigrant
NELA
Member since Jul 2018
624 posts
Posted on 8/13/18 at 11:51 pm to
So OP I gotta be the one to ask , is this “best friend” , you??
And if so, don’t take all the comments too personal. I understand the power the the pussy my man. Some strong shite.
Edit: but you sure did think with the wrong head on this one..
This post was edited on 8/13/18 at 11:52 pm
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