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re: OT parents: How long does it take for your family to pack and load the car for a vacation?

Posted on 7/13/25 at 12:53 pm to
Posted by lepdagod
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
5351 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 12:53 pm to
A week
Posted by Chef Curry
Member since Mar 2019
2820 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:14 pm to
quote:

Travel is vastly overrated.


Facts. I don’t mind taking trips but the incessant travel culture is out of control.
Posted by Pepperoni
Mar-a-Lago
Member since Aug 2013
4123 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:22 pm to
Make a check list by categories, you can find examples on web. Then allocate who's doing what. Set take off time.
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
15849 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:27 pm to
My ex-wife wasn’t too bad with the packing aspect. What used to kill me was we’d hit the road and about ten minutes into the drive, she’d announce she was hungry and wanted to drive through somewhere for breakfast.
Posted by Skeeterzx190
Ponchatoula
Member since Sep 2019
336 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:29 pm to
This. Wife and kids get their crap
Together the night before. We wake up and I load the bags. Doesn’t take long. Maybe 30 minutes after we wake we are out.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
23039 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:42 pm to
Went to Grand Isle for the weekend. It took me about 58 minutes to pack. Had to go get ice, pack and ice chest with beer and water, get my trot line for the crabs, chairs, umbrella, fishing poles, tackle box, clothes and overnight bag together. My wife had to pck clothes and makeup and somw food, took her 2 1/2 hours.
Posted by foj1981
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2013
4160 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:44 pm to
Never fails, no matter the woman in any of my relationships it is inevitable that after we’ve left the house a couple of miles away she always forgets something we have to go back for.
Sunglasses, cell phone, purse, make up….
Posted by TDTOM
Member since Jan 2021
24256 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:45 pm to
Took us about 30 minutes, but everyone packs the night before, and we're on the road by 6:35.
This post was edited on 7/13/25 at 1:48 pm
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
85803 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:48 pm to
My wife packs her stuff and the kids stuff days ahead.
I pack my shite thirty minutes before leaving.
This post was edited on 7/13/25 at 1:53 pm
Posted by Pikes Peak Tiger
Colorado Springs
Member since Jun 2023
9141 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:48 pm to
quote:

How long does it take for your family to pack and load the car for a vacation?


Me: 10 minutes
Son: 10 minutes
Wife and daughters: start a week ahead of time and we still leave an hour later than planned.
Posted by profdillweed
Gulf of America
Member since Apr 2025
2190 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:49 pm to
4 days for a beach trip
8 pair of underwear
8 shirts
2 bathing suits
4 pair of shorts
As long as the condo has a w/d that’s all I need

One pair of shoes
Loaded shaving kit

Ice chest and groceries can be dealt with once we get there

I can be out the door in 20 mins

This post was edited on 7/13/25 at 1:52 pm
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
85803 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:53 pm to
quote:

As long as the condo has a w/d that’s all I need

One pair of shoes
Loaded shaving kit
Yeah I can choose what I will wear at home. My wife has to take everything because she doesn't "know what I'll feel like wearing"
Posted by Mariner
Mandeville, LA
Member since Jul 2009
2507 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 1:55 pm to
We take a lot of stuff. I plan it over the span of several days….assort clothes, items, etc. and stage everything. During that process I realize that we are forgetting xyz and address the issue. Then on departure day it is plug and play with only toiletry bags left to pack. Takes about 90 minutes managing both packing the car and getting kids ready.

I laugh when people (especially women) say with anxiety “OMG I have to go home and pack the family for our Europe vacation tomorrow morning, and we have not even started!”

I’m thinking yes your family definitely lives a chaotic life, and either it drives your husband crazy or he flat out does not give a shite which put you in this position.

Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
57767 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 2:01 pm to
quote:

This is a “why are women like this” thread BTW.


We are a family of 8, takes us with packing and loading about 30 minutes.

I don’t mind doing laundry on a trip. So we pack light. Anything we forget, we can buy when we get there. Kids are responsible for their stuffies/electronics.

Looking out the window is good for you.
If it took us 3 hours, I’d leave without everyone.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
24717 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 2:01 pm to
Usually my wife packs up the car the night before so all we have to do is wake up and go. Then we wake up, get ready, pack up the few things we still need. We wait in the driveway in the car for about 30 minutes while my wife goes through the house and checks everything, then off we go until she realizes she forgot something. What it is and how far we've made is determines whether or not we turn around.

Just a side note, my wife is an OCD control freak when it comes to preparing for travel, which is why she loads the car, but she usually does so with my help.
This post was edited on 7/13/25 at 2:02 pm
Posted by tigergal918
Member since Feb 2022
360 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 2:05 pm to
My kids are old enough to pack for themselves now, so we pack our bags & bring them to kitchen & hubby is in charge of actually packing the car. I do all snacks & make sure everything is charged. We’ve been doing travel ball for years now, we travel pretty light at this point lol…we could all be completely ready to go in under an hour.
Posted by Lou Loomis
A pond. Ponds good for you.
Member since Mar 2025
902 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 2:10 pm to
Me-15 minutes
My son- 2 minutes
My wife and 3 daughters- until 2 hours after we were supposed to leave
Posted by CenlaLowell
Alexandria, la
Member since Apr 2016
1213 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 2:17 pm to
We started 30 days before vacation. We mainly travel international
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
72611 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 2:24 pm to
The load is quick. The pack takes days with women involved.
Posted by concrete_tiger
Member since May 2020
7477 posts
Posted on 7/13/25 at 2:25 pm to
I gave up caring. I pack my bag and leave my stuff by the van and she can pack it.

Used to be huge arguments where I couldn’t conceive why we needed to pack the van so full that the kids had to climb over shite for a short trip.

But the answer is hours.

When I take the kids by myself… we take 4 little duffles and a cooler. I can walk in an announce that we are going to a rocket launch and need to leave in 20 minutes, and we do.

We can know for a YEAR about a trip, and my wife will wait til the day before to fret about it and stay up all night.
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