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re: OT Parenting Question: How would you respond to this situation with a 10 year old boy?

Posted on 2/27/24 at 4:23 pm to
Posted by DVinBR
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 4:23 pm to
Posted by fricket
Member since Aug 2019
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 4:23 pm to
quote:

Make him smoke an entire carton of cigarettes in one sitting

Posted by THE Muc Bond
Member since Dec 2023
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 4:45 pm to
Pretty sure each generation has done something similar.

Our candy was made specifically to pretend these things. It used to be candy cigarettes and big league chew.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 4:56 pm to
I’d be more pissed at the school for over reacting.
Posted by Koach K
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 5:22 pm to
Posted by SeaBass23
VA
Member since Jul 2019
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 5:26 pm to
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When I was a kid, you could point your finger like a gun and go "BLAM" and not get in trouble


A couple of years ago my 10 year old brought the used bullet casing from the bullet he used to shoot his first deer with him to school. Luckily the teacher was reasonable and held it for him the rest of the day and told him not to bring it back. Thank God that there are still some people that don’t make mountains out of mole hills.
Posted by pelicanpride
Houston
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 5:34 pm to
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Tell him to knock it off, then wonder why school admins are wasting school time and resources on such nonsense.


Same. My 8-year-old got in trouble for making a gun sign at another kid. They got me on the phone to tell me how serious it was. I could understand if he were old enough for a gun sign to be seen as an actual threat, but he’s 8 and goes to a safe school. Stop wasting time on stuff like this.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64590 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 5:40 pm to
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My son (10) got in trouble for pretending to vape with a lemonade flavoring packet today at school. He and his buddies were being dumbasses at the lunch table.


When I was your son’s age we were at the lunch table enjoying lighting up one of these after finishing our school pizza, tatter tots, and chocolate milk.



But that was before the pussification of Amercia took hold.
Posted by Shamoan
Member since Feb 2019
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 5:43 pm to
Put a boot in his arse, it’s the American way!!!!
Posted by Monty Brewster
Member since Feb 2024
232 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 5:46 pm to
Tell him pretending to vape with a lemonade flavoring packet is just as deadly as smoking cigarettes.

Kid was just screwing around. No big deal.
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28184 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 6:10 pm to
Good grief...

Not that big a deal...


Tell him not to that again...

Move on.
Posted by WhiteRussianDude
Member since Feb 2023
206 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 6:12 pm to
Send him to school with a couple of packs of candy cigs
Posted by Tempratt
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Member since Oct 2013
13358 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 6:15 pm to
quote:

Make him smoke an entire carton of cigarettes in one sitting


None of sissy filter stuff. Lucky Strike, pall mall or Camels.

It’ll help build up that character index.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
39348 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 6:18 pm to
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Right...I should have included this. It's an issue with him wanting to fit in. The only time he ever gets in trouble is when he does something to impress others. It's rare he has issues at school or anywhere really.

Sounds like a good, normal kid. I’d cuff him in the head and tell him to quit being a meathead.
Posted by Sput
Member since Mar 2020
7946 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 6:27 pm to
shite my buddies were already on Marlboro Reds at 10
Posted by SuperOcean
Member since Jun 2022
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 6:31 pm to
Take him to an arport that still has those glass walls for smokers... And tell him not to be a dumbas like those people
Posted by Porpus
Covington, LA
Member since Aug 2022
1638 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 7:02 pm to
I would be sympathetic. Educators are so poor at their jobs now that they seek out any excuse to distract themselves from that which they are failing at: academics. I would explain that, and encourage him to be more serious about whatever profession or vocation he might ultimately choose.

This explanation is bound to disappoint a 10-year-old, who probably expected more from his teachers, so I would deliver it gently. I would follow it with an admonition to learn to work effectively with such cowardly mental midgets. Depending on my son's intelligence and maturity, I might even put a Machiavellian spin on things: these people suck, but that's just the human condition, and you can use it to your advantage.

I might even go on to explain how my son's experience was a microcosm of some of America' most profound failures. Think about it: we have a government that can never hope to cover its debts, and yet it wastes its time and energy on frivolities: Ukraine, anti-vaping campaigns, etc.

These are righteous frivolities, but they are frivolous nonetheless- just like the things teachers have distracted themselves with, ever since we allowed women and their precious Yankee government to take over education. This is the sad reality in which we must live, but, again: there is power in recognizing it exactly.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
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Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 2/27/24 at 7:10 pm to
I’m in my early 40s and when I was 10 or so we all brought candy cigarettes to school and would pretend to smoke them at the lunch table.

Teachers would laugh at us.

I really don’t know what to tell you. I would not punish him that’s for sure.
This post was edited on 2/27/24 at 7:16 pm
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 7:15 pm to
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I’m in my early 40s and when I was 10 or so we all brought candy cigarettes to school and would pretend to smoke them at the lunch table. Teachers would laugh at us.


Bc it wasn’t that very long ago when it was legal to smoke on airplanes

Posted by Rust Cohle
Baton rouge
Member since Mar 2014
1944 posts
Posted on 2/27/24 at 7:22 pm to
What kind of trouble?
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