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Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:26 am to Warmouth
I'm 37 and married but trying to have a conversation with the average 26 year old female these days sounds like torture.
There is a lot that goes into a relationship, common life experiences, similar maturity level. That goes for dating older or younger.
There is a lot that goes into a relationship, common life experiences, similar maturity level. That goes for dating older or younger.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:26 am to Ace Midnight
Every car is fast if you know how to go deep in the corners.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:28 am to N2cars
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Every car is fast if you know how to go deep in the corners.
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VetteGuy
Checks out
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:29 am to Warmouth
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the age for the most beautiful woman is 23 years old
This is total bullshite.
For Anglos the optimum age of their beauty is more like 30
(assuming of course kids haven't destroyed them)
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:29 am to kciDAtaE
As an older person, I just can't figure out how people like this, and their allies are now in control of the political scene in the United States. It's almost like some incredible nightmare that came true. The fact that these people are not being called out and shamed versus being normalized by a big portion of the country is criminal
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:30 am to tiggerthetooth
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Reducing relationships to money and looks is why the west is rotting
What specifically do you believe marriages were about historically? Romantic marriage is a uniquely western thing only really seen from the early 1900s to now and even then looks and money played massive roles in selecting partners.
quote:Much like a teenager from a good family with drug problems the issue is that people have free will.
Jordan Petersons daughter is exhibit A) of Jordan not having a "clean room".
Her situation doesn’t in anyway mitigate the value of what he is advocating for now.
Much like Elon Musk I think he’d tell you that he would focus on pushing more traditional conservative values during her upbringing if he had it to do again as a parent, they were both extremely liberal during their early days as parents.
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She's absorbed all the most toxic cultural traits of modern western pop culture.
She definitely presents herself as a THOT chasing followers online, no question.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:31 am to Warmouth
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Your welcome unmarried baws.
*you’re
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:31 am to LSUGrrrl
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The woman hate on this board used to be mostly joking. Now it’s an almost daily rant. Lot of miserable men on here.
There's no magic formula to this. You might work well with a woman that's 5 years older than you or 8 years younger. I'm happily married, but if I wasn't, I wouldn't want any more kids and would have next to nothing in common with a woman in her 20s
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:33 am to tide06
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Why some of them ruin marriages by not putting it on their husbands but then act like it’s college spring break as soon as they divorce is one of the true mysteries of womanhood. Must have something to do with validation.
It is a little odd, but what I’ve come to believe is that it’s about expectations. Women want to have sex, but the preferred path to get there is through emotional connection. A married woman expects the emotional connect and when that’s not there, sex dries up.
A divorced woman does not have emotional connection as a reasonable expectation (at least not on the same level as having an engaged husband), so she settles for random, casual sex. But that’s not what most of them actually want.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:34 am to Warmouth
When I was 23 and fooling around with a 41 year old, the thought of dating her never crossed my mind. I was having too much fun.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:35 am to prplhze2000
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Even when I was in my teens, I thought women were prettiest in their early 30's.
Yes. Beginning to mature in the face and still have most of her looks from the 20's. Good combo
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:37 am to Warmouth
I dint like to date under 30. I briefly dated a Gen Z'er and we had nothing in common. She liked mumble rap. It was fun but not long term material.
Current gf is 4 months older than me, first time I dated an actual older woman.
Current gf is 4 months older than me, first time I dated an actual older woman.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:37 am to jose
When you're talking dating and not marriage my nephew tells me there is nothing wrong with it. He said " they won't tell, yell, or swell and they're grateful as hell."
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:38 am to BoogaBear
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I'm 37 and married but trying to have a conversation with the average 26 year old female these days sounds like torture.
There is a lot that goes into a relationship, common life experiences, similar maturity level. That goes for dating older or younger.
Divorce rates are a good bit higher the larger the age gap, particularly 10+ years
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:38 am to fallguy_1978
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There's no magic formula to this. You might work well with a woman that's 5 years older than you or 8 years younger. I'm happily married, but if I wasn't, I wouldn't want any more kids and would have next to nothing in common with a woman in her 20s
Same
Looking at 20 something year old men would be like looking at my son. I’ve been happily married for 20 years and don’t plan on going anywhere. But, God forbid, if anything ever happened to my husband I would much prefer to spend time with a man who was already proven capable of being in a long term, committed marriage and understood what it takes to work.
I’m not interested in training some young new stud how to be an adult. I would need a man by my side.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:38 am to Warmouth
quote:The large majority of people with experience will say the exact opposite of this.
Never date older womenby WarmouthIt is ok if you want to just have fun but don’t ever let it get
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:40 am to Warmouth
Look up what Benjamin Franklin thought about this subject. Pretty sure he's a little smarter than you.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:42 am to kciDAtaE
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Clever. So bc I just want to bang a 30 year old and not have kids with her, I’m a democrat?
Y’all met at the women’s march?
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:43 am to tide06
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What specifically do you believe marriages were about historically? Romantic marriage is a uniquely western thing only really seen from the early 1900s to now and even then looks and money played massive roles in selecting partners.
Values? Historically marriages were about upper class political alliances...in societies under a monarchy/dictator/emperor etc. That was ruling by blood.
Americans generally used to be modest about their partners/marriages. You can see how relationships are no longer a societal building block but more or less an extension of presenting ones status like an expensive set of jewelry or am expensive vacation.
Romance is certainly an aspect but it's always been temporary. Even people married for a short period understand the folly of romantic involvement.
I think it's absurd to mimick more primitive eras when it comes to the foundation of what makes marriage successful.
Generally speaking, Americans don't share the same value system, so they turn to the one thing people do share in common, a love of money/looks/status. It's not leading to more marriages, or societal stability, or even family stability.
There's a minimum threshold for that and many folks are blowing right by it and still refusing to take the road of humility towards a deeper marriage.
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