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re: My kids still live at home

Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:01 pm to
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60618 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:01 pm to
I see why some of my peers might prefer to live at home, but it's not for me.

I lived at home for a few months after being on my own for five years. I hated every minute of it.
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
59311 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:03 pm to
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They have no student loan debt (thanks mom/dad) and college degrees. I think this is a fair shot at life imo.


I know I'm a few pages late, but as soon as I graduated I was off the "payroll" at home. I thought you ruled with an iron fist?
Posted by bigrob385series
B. Aura
Member since May 2014
2636 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:05 pm to
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I just keep my mouth shut at family functions and preserve the peace.
this really is solid advice that i wish more would adhere to.
Posted by SECretariat
Member since Jun 2015
362 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:11 pm to
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A couple of years at home will allow her to put some significant money away that will help her long into the future.

I've encouraged her to do this.


Yup, I'm not sure why this is looked down upon so much. Financial advisors like Dave Ramsey encourage young adults do do this.

However, the one thing I wish I had done was pay myself "rent" into a bank account to ensure that money wasn't used for drinking/trips etc. Another poster mentioned that the parents could collect "rent" and give it back to them. It's something that a parent should encourage to make sure that progress is being made towards the goal of buying a place. It's WAYYY too easy to plan to save money and look up and a year has gone by with no real money saved.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
77228 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:12 pm to
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the way boomers ruined the economy


I forget, how did the Boomers do that?
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19406 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:16 pm to
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So if I said, hey. TheIndulger, here's a paid off house. You can live there for free and save money for other shite.

You'd say, "nah BeerJeep. I'm good. Id rather spend my paycheck on rent."

Yeah. I'm absolutely calling bullshite.


So what are you gonna do? Live there forever?
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
75327 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:17 pm to
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Gurantee this turns into a millennial bashing thread.


Waaaah real estate is too expensive... only if you want to live in a luxury highrise condo in the hip trendy area of town.

You're supposed to have room mates and accept a certain level of shittiness in your home when you are young. It took your parents several decades to work their way up to what they have, and it's going to be the same for you little snot nosed brats.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
75327 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:18 pm to
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. Financial advisors like Dave Ramsey


Dave Ramsey advise for real estate is ok, everything else he preaches is garbage, fyi.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
75327 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:22 pm to
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Waaaah real estate is too expensive... only if you want to live in a luxury highrise condo in the hip trendy area of town.

You're supposed to have room mates and accept a certain level of shittiness in your home when you are young. It took your parents several decades to work their way up to what they have, and it's going to be the same for you little snot nosed brats.




Waaah wages are stagnant.... if your job doesn't pay enough, get a second job.
Posted by rockchlkjayhku11
Cincinnati, OH
Member since Aug 2006
36744 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:23 pm to
I lived at home for a bit after college graduation. $650 a month including food. Nobody saved it for me. Had to live there a bit longer than expected at that price because I couldn’t save as much.

My parents are rich and I’m not entirely sure what lessons I learned but I did feel better about myself and felt like I wasn’t freeloading, which was cool.
Posted by biggsc
Member since Mar 2009
34777 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:25 pm to
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Grown people (20ish) and seem to love living at home with the parents. I was ready to go. Is life outside the parents home more difficult today than yesteryear?

Did they go to college?
Posted by Muthsera
Member since Jun 2017
7319 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:25 pm to
90% of the people in my peer group (late 20s, early 30s) that lived at home gave me the "I don't want roommates" excuse when we were in college. Never had a roommate that bothered me more than my parents; they usually want to be left alone just as much as you do.

Some of the ones who did it to "save money" still haven't moved out 10 years later. What the frick are you saving money for?

I would have moved out at 15 or 16 if I could have. Left for college at 17, crashed on my parents' couch for 2 summers, got my first place at 19. Would never go back in a million years.
This post was edited on 12/18/17 at 12:27 pm
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
59148 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:26 pm to
The boomers are slow to come in and millenial bash today

Hey boomers! You'd type faster if you used more than 2 fingers!
Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
38439 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:27 pm to
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So what are you gonna do? Live there forever?


Forever? Nah. It's a small 2 bed 2 bath. Maybe another year or so. But what's the big deal? It would be an empty house if I didn't live there. At least it's being used.

It saves me thousands a year.

So are you telling me right after college, if your family said hey, instead of spending money why don't you stay in our extra house and save money for other things, that you would say "nah fam. I don't want your help" and you'd go find something else?
Posted by Bham Bammer
Member since Nov 2014
16680 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:28 pm to
Parents are softer than they used to be.
Posted by thatoneguy
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2014
603 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:57 pm to
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They have no student loan debt and college degrees.


Then get them out of there. Assuming they have jobs they got with their degrees they should be able to pay rent somewhere at the very least.
Posted by Broke
AKA Buttercup
Member since Sep 2006
65445 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 12:59 pm to
It's a starting job but we are hoping it leads to something bigger
Posted by thatoneguy
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2014
603 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 1:04 pm to
I gotcha. I've got a "starting job" and I'm moved out, married, paying for rent and all other living expenses. Not saying it'll be easy for them, but it'll get them started on life and teach them how to budget.

I wouldn't kick them to the curb out of nowhere, but give them a few months to get set up with roommates and other stuff.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70001 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 1:06 pm to
I don't know about difficult but different
This post was edited on 12/18/17 at 1:14 pm
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37038 posts
Posted on 12/18/17 at 1:40 pm to
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They have no student loan debt (thanks mom/dad) and college degrees. I think this is a fair shot at life imo.

I agree. I have a sister-in-law who is in the same situation. She is 22 years old, has a degree, and has no student debt. She works a part time job and can't afford to leave her parent's house. I say that she can't afford it. She could afford it, if she were to secure a second job but she has no want/need to because she can just stay home and let her parents pay for her life

It's pretty sad. I graduated and moved out immediately. I did not have a high paying job, but I was okay with living with friends until I could land a job that paid more and allowed me to live alone.
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