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employers are aware of these rankings.


I've never once given two shits about whether a fresh grad came from LSU, UGA, Auburn, or McNeese when interviewing them. You're a shitty interviewer if you rely on shite like that.


Generally agree... But

IMO Things have fallen off badly at LSU especially in the last two years. It's like they decided to double down on non-SAT score type admissions following the supreme court's recent decisions on admissions. Can't say for certain.. just a feeling from interacting with current students.

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Julie Andrews is my best guess.


The combo of Andrews with Dick Van Dyke is by far the closest thing there is to Dolly and Betty White. After them... I have no idea.

To the people saying Shaq is too highly rated due to the LSU connection, I disagree. He's almost more appreciated on sites like Reddit due to his random acts of kindness. However, he's probably not old enough for one of these discussions.
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Can't be universally loved if nobody can see you.


Or you cower to China...
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in a stew on a campout


Anything in a stew tastes okay/the same. That's kind of what a stew is.

I've had horse a couple of times, including on a pizza. It was not good. At all. Not awful if I need it to live etc., but almost no one would choose it over beef, chicken, or pork.
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many people seem to have an issue on here...not with travel ball, but with anything that takes a lot of effort and they tend to put those that participate down. Its the fact they do not want to sacrifice the time and effort doing those things take.....but also the fear of them or their kid getting left behind so they bash things


Yes, because you see this site raging on parents sending their kids to chess tournaments or math competitions?

No, dude, it's not the skill or effort that is in question-- it's immediately clear when you go to a travel tournament why this energy and money is being spent - for the parents.

While I'm sure chess, golf, track, all have parents that are doing something similar to travel ball, the scale and apparentness of the problems isn't even close to the current state of travel baseball.

I saw a parent/coach absolutely yelling at his 8U player one weekend at a "travel" tournament and I wondered if the dad treats schooling the same -- because that's more likely to affect him long term than any 0.1% chance he has of making a D1 college team.



Your entire post seems like you're trying to convince yourself rather than state what's actually going on.

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I miss the days when children's sports wasn't all about mom and dad.

95% of it still is, its only the 5% you see being blasted on social media that isnt.


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The only people going half way across the country to play


"Travel ball" isn't about going across the country at this age. It's about leaving the park system to go on a fake "travel league" where they enter tournaments for entire weekends in the same city or state they live in. The only justification is the "better competition", which I don't buy at 7 because your son can still practice all the fundamentals against a crappy team. This is big business for local sport organizations.

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but dont get it twisted, in 95% of cases, its the kids driving the travel movement


In a post on 7U (and even up to 10U) travel baseball, you think that it's the kids driving this?! The kids just want to play with their friends and have fun. They don't know the community's public v private sporting options.

I always wonder how many kids miss their true, passionate sport callings because they were forced fed only one sport. The early selection and obsession in one sport to the exclusion of all others is not in the best interest of the child. The only exceptions would be sports where the pros are super young like rhythmic gymnastics. A study on this

"Some degree of sports specialization is necessary to develop elite-level skill development. However, for most sports, such intense training in a single sport to the exclusion of others should be delayed until late adolescence to optimize success while minimizing injury, psychological stress, and burnout."

"Swimmers who began specializing before 11 years of age spent less time on a national team and retired earlier than later specializers."

"Elite [Tennis] players began intense training and specialized later (after age 13-15 years) than near-elites (age 11 years)."

re: Best Drinking Games

Posted by SECretariat on 8/16/26 at 12:01 am to
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How old are you? One you hit 25 or so drinking quits being a game and becomes a problem.


None of yall like throwback nights with your ole college friends? We played a ton of drinking games in college and I'll def replay at guys trips/bachelor parties.

Presidents and assholes; frick your shite; circle of death; bombed; and beer quarters bring me back to some of my favorites memories. I'll 100% break them out more often when I'm not surrounded by the "I'm too old" crowd like yourself

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You’re gay if you still wouldn’t breed that



Funny, I think her face looks like a dude here. It's like you asked AI to put big tits on a guy as a joke
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Nobody complained about chip fabs in Arizona, which actually use a ton more water than DCs, but that's because it's an important swing state.


I mean... chip production is also a massive hole in national security and badly needed to there may be more of an appetite for appeasing them.


The closed loops isn't as wonderful as they say too:
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While I would love to have a thriving beer garden or concert venue in conjunction with the golf course, I have no doubt in my mind that the city is not capable of executing this. The only thing they are capable of doing is spending money.


Corey Wilson, BREC's former, extremely underqualified superintendent LINK scoffed at the idea of an outdoor venue in Baton Rouge when they put in the Knock Knock. They could have saved a crap ton of money doing both of those at the same time on top of the large hill.
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You mean the golf course?


$100M to ruin the golf course. No one wants this. We don't need to cram more shite into every inch of a park. Just fix up the clubhouse/art museum enough that it can host events/weddings with the parking to be at Knock Knock and call it a day.


The people in charge of BREC and NOLA city park would ruin Central Park in NYC. Not enough fences, street parking, and random amenities taking up every inch.

If Varsity Sports wants their coffee shop so badly, put one in front of Lod Cook since they already have the kitchen right there -- not on the golf course.

This is awful -- going to make it far more compressed than it already is and remove the water tee shots... for what?!? The layout on the right looks almost unsafe.


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Except Catholic Church. If then, you're screwed.


Yea, catholic church doesn't offer many places to meet someone. It's just go to church and leave. Also, it seems full of families.

I have had people tell me that Catholic singles app is like old school tinder with hookups but I have never tried it.
Ohhhh as others have said, these girls are inundated with other possible options so:
1. try to schedule a date sooner rather than later after matching (which is harder than you think if you have kids/house/job/other plans).. Sometimes the timing just doesn't work out. Having opposite custody weekends is probably the worst luck.

2. Don't get too upset/down when someone you were really into ghosts you. You will be ghosted. Just accept it. Everyone gets ghosted. it's just what it is. They probably liked another one of the guys talking to them or got back with their ex or who knows. It happens a lot these days - esp if you haven't met.
There's some seriously good advice in this chat. I'd like to add some of my lessons as well:

1. Let someone, usually single women, look at your profile and get their honest input. No point in wasting time fishing with shitty bait. You'll eventually learn the pros/cons of making a decent profile. I can't tell you how many dudes that bitch about not getting any good matches have the worst profiles that may not show their face or hair (if they have any) or only have selfies inside their car. Decent pics of different styles - for example, one after a 5k; one in a suit before a wedding; one on a boat (don't include the fish in the pic... it's a turnoff to girls for some reason); and one out with a group of friends -- work best.

2. FB dating is free and trying undercut the others. It's okay. Hinge is the best across the board in Louisiana probably. I haven't used Bumble in a while. Tinder can be more fun in bigger cities/tourist towns. As other posters have said, mix them up from time to time -- paying for the apps let's you see who liked you but there's no use paying for all of them at the same time.

3. Also, as other posters have said, I avoid full dinners for the first date -- drinks with appetizers usually works great and cuts the cost down (even that isn't cheap.) That said - if the chick is hot enough or I'm in the mood for a decent dinner, I'll break that rule.

4. Every date's first question will be: "So how long have you been single?" or "When did you get divorced?" .. and as you heal you'll likely start asking them that. It's the easiest indicator someone is going to have a lot of baggage or maybe drama with the ex or need help with the emotions of the process. It's not a big deal but have an answer ready. After a few drinks, they'll ask why you are getting divorced.

5. Try to enjoy the process. Enjoy a new first date experience. Some will go great. Some you'll kick yourself for screwing up by talking about your ex too much etc. Don't focus too much on the bad ones.

6. You can be honest about what you want. I know many women that have hooked up with dudes that just said I'm too fresh to be dating serious and want something more fun right now.

7. Don't sit at home and message on them all the time. It will feel like a 2nd full time job. The best approach is a combo approach where you join clubs/volunteering and add some online dates. You'll get back into it with the dates so you're ready when/if you meet someone in person.

re: I missed BR traffic.

Posted by SECretariat on 8/3/26 at 9:10 am to
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The traffic really isn't bad if you've planned your living and working situation out well. Obviously people living in Plaquemine and working on Siegen Lane are going to have traffic problems.


I agree but the hard part to accept is that it's so damn avoidable for it's small size.

Many of the city's street lights need to be better timed and programmed to only flip when a car is waiting and to prioritize the main lane of traffic. Rarely used side streets don't need to flip unless there's a car present. I can't tell you how many times I've sat at Perkins and Pollard or Quail Drive (for several minutes each; because, I mean, timing them is a step too far).

in 2024, Baton Rouge installed 176 miles of fiber-optic cable to connect essentially all (~470) parish-managed signals to a central Advanced Traffic Management Center (ATMC). But clearly no one is monitoring them to keep them on task.

Google has something called Google Project Green Light LINK that uses Waze data to better time the lights. They just entered into agreements Boston, Vancouver, Quebec City for free assistance in timing their red lights.

IT IS FREE.

Always skeptical of tech companies, I asked a non-google AI to look at the agreements:
The only potential internal costs are staff time for

Sharing basic intersection location data (and sometimes reviewing recommendations).
Having traffic engineers evaluate and implement the suggested timing changes on the existing controllers (usually quick once the ATMC is connected).
Optional independent evaluation (Boston used a third-party analytics firm, but that was their choice).

No hardware, software licenses, sensors, or ongoing subscription fees from Google are required. Recommendations are based on aggregated Google Maps driving data and implemented through the city’s own signal system.

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I can take her back to court on that in due time. I don’t think I have the time available to successfully have 50-50. Work keeps me busy.

The longer this goes on, the less of an argument you're gonna have for more custody


I agree with this post. Now is the time to act. Cut back on work some if you can or rearrange your schedule.

As a bonus, the child custody payments will be reworked to account for a more equitable time arrangement.
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onderful wives and lives then some postpartum depression

Mentally fragile? PPD exists, but is a great excuse, like it was for Andrea Yates.


Hmmm... I don't know. I've seen women come out the other side of pregnancy basically different people. The flood of hormones during and the withdrawal after seems to flip a switch in some women. Friends and coworkers struggle to understand wtf happened to their wives and try to work with them to figure it out. It's not always cheating but maybe they are just miserable to be around by being mean or depressive.

I have seen no pattern in the women on which ones will be affected so you can't blame the man for "picking wrong". It seems like it's winning some shitty lottery.


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There's no reason you can't do 50/50. Get to work on being a dad.

You are a retarded POS. There are plenty of reasons why a dad that wants to try, can't.


i'll give you this.. I should have said "try" to do 50/50. I can't speak for Texas, but Louisiana has defaulted on the side of 50/50 for a while now... assuming the father requests it and has a job that allows for it (not military abroad etc).

He needs to do the best he can to get the most time he can with his child. It's not easy taking on that role solo for 50% of your life. It'll make work, dating, and exercise harder, but it's the best thing you'll ever do. Before you know it they'll be 15 and wanting to hang with their friends instead of their dad... put in the work now (as best as OP can).

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You sound like a poor dumb bastard that hasn't been through a divorce yet, and doesn't know how this works. Kindly excuse yourself


I've been through a divorce. These are just some of my takeaways. You don't have to believe them or care, but blaming him for "picking wrong" is mean and absolutely adds nothing as that ship as sailed.
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Motorcycles because the latest gen doesn’t know what a clutch is.


And everyone is playing on their phone and the roads are shite. I couldn't image trying to ride one around the streets of baton rouge
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Call this “projecting” or whatever lingo you feel best describes my comment and salves your wounds, but I call it reality.

You made a bad decision. Own up to it and make damn sure your child doesn’t suffer because of it. It’s on you. Not your ex or her current husband (and there will be others, I’m willing to bet).



God, you fricking suck dude.

I know people that have had wonderful wives and lives then some postpartum depression hormones turn the wife's personality upside down. What is he supposed to do... predict that? frick you and get out your bubble before placing the blame on the husband. I sure hope all is truly perfect in your life because you're throwing some serious stones from your glass house.

OP, life can be tough. It will give you enough things to stress about.. don't make dumb decisions that will create more stress for yourself. Try hard to focus on those things that you can actually do something about. Finally, do the best you can to be the moral compass the child will need. Good luck


Edit -- also I agree with the post above me. There's no reason you can't do 50/50. Get to work on being a dad.
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None of that is evidence. All of the evidence points to Lee Harvey Oswald being the lone assassin.


The Allen Dulles theory doesn't rule this out as an option. As you know, Oswald had connections to the agency and Dulles had discussed using easily manipulated people to conduct similar missions in the past.
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The interesting thing about the mafia when Carlos Macello was in his heyday was that no one was above him.


He's talking about Allen Dulles and, perhaps, LBJ -- much bigger than any mafia boss. If you're Dulles, you would work with the mafia to either conduct the action or clean up the mess afterwards.

IMO: Dulles was definitely the one that conducted operation. He had the clear motive, know how, and ability. He spent that weekend at a CIA operations facility and found a way onto the Warren commission to steer them away. Whether he relied solely on CIA assets or used some mafia assets is a minor part of the story.

I encourage everyone to read/listen to the book: The Devil's Chessboard: Allen Dulles, the CIA, and the Rise of America's Secret Government LINK