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re: My Brother In Law caught his 16 y/o daughter parking with her boyfriend

Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:03 pm to
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:03 pm to
quote:

I'm just going off of the OP which states that he had a gun in his waistband. There's no mention of him intimidating/threatening him with it.




Yea, he always casually puts a gun in his waistband whenever he goes outside to talk to people hanging with his daughter.

He didn't put that there and then tell the kid to get off his daughter to scare the shite out of him at all!
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 5:06 pm
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:05 pm to
quote:

Yea, he always casually puts a gun in his waistband whenever he goes outside to talk to people hanging with his daughter. 

He didn't put that there and then tell the kid to get off his daughter to scare him at all!

Also impossible to prove
Posted by Champagne
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Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:06 pm to
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I'm not trying to he a dick, but if you don't see the difference and how different situations are judged differently then you just aren't going to understand.


We are discussing theory here. Any crime must be proven beyond a reasonable doubt. As such, "eye gestures" are going to be very tough to prove.

Prosecutor: So it is your testimony that Mr. BIL looked at the pistol that was stuck in his belt while he said to you, "You try that agin' an' you ain't gonna like it, son." ?

Boyfriend: Yes, Sir.

Prosecutor: How do you know he was looking at the pistol and not at the ground?

Boyfriend: I don't.
Posted by Champagne
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Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:08 pm to
And it must be proven beyond a reasonable doubt.

The criminal threat is very tough for me to see here without a lot more info.

Plus we have a police officer's learned opinion on the situation where he states that he would not bother to make an arrest in this situation.

This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 5:09 pm
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:11 pm to
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He didn't put that there and then tell the kid to get off his daughter to scare the shite out of him at all!


I assume the kid got the message

Good job, dad
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61734 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:23 pm to
quote:

Boyfriend: Yes, Sir.

Prosecutor: How do you know he was looking at the pistol and not at the ground?

Boyfriend: I don't.
because he was discussing the fact that there would be hell to pay for me later


And it would be the defensecasking that question.

The prosecutor would be busy discovering that he didn’t routinely Carry in his waistband.

Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:26 pm to
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The prosecutor would be busy discovering that he didn’t routinely Carry in his waistband

I'd just say that I carry at my house all the time. I'd have my wife confirm
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 5:26 pm
Posted by tigerfoot
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:28 pm to
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I'd just say that I carry at my house all the time. I'd have my wife confirm
if you threaten a 16 yo you also lie under oath I suppose.

And given that an a-hole like that probably has zero friends I doubt there is anyone else to question
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:28 pm to

Until the boy is cross-examined saying he's been at the house a number of times and have never seen a gun at all.
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:31 pm to
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Until the boy is cross-examined saying he's been at the house a number of times and have never seen a gun at all.

I was cleaning it when I saw the car down the street. I decided to investigate it since we've had a few thefts in the area lately. This is so easy that I could be his defense attorney
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:32 pm to

If you have to lie that many times under oath, you know what you've done is bad. Really bad. You're troubles have just begun.
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18704 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:35 pm to
quote:

I was cleaning it when I saw the car down the street. I decided to investigate it since we've had a few thefts in the area lately. This is so easy that I could be his defense attorney





With all of these lies upon lies, the defense would easily find evidence to introduce doubt about the father's testimony.

That's why you aren't a defense attorney.
Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
27002 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:39 pm to
That’s rediculous.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:45 pm to
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And it must be proven beyond a reasonable doubt.


To be convicted


Not to spend a night in jail
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:53 pm to
Screw all y'all for down voting what the BIL did. Till you have a daughter, y'all don't know shite.

My self, at that age my daughter had a date on New Years eve at my house. The young man dating my daughter, I did take the time with him for a walk down the road. Flat out told him if he frick up with my daughter, I would plant his arse were no man ever walked before.

5 years later, they got married. The rehearsal dinner, that is when I found out that he went home that New Years night and told his Dad and Grandpaw what I told him. Guess what? They agreed on what I told my SIL.

They been married 11 years now.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37565 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:55 pm to
quote:

Screw all y'all for down voting what the BIL did. Till you have a daughter, y'all don't know shite.

My self, at that age my daughter had a date on New Years eve at my house. The young man dating my daughter, I did take the time with him for a walk down the road. Flat out told him if he frick up with my daughter, I would plant his arse were no man ever walked before.

5 years later, they got married. The rehearsal dinner, that is when I found out that he went home that New Years night and told his Dad and Grandpaw what I told him. Guess what? They agreed on what I told my SIL.

They been married 11 years now


I argue that intimidating a 16 year old with a gun is Abit different than you just described.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 6:00 pm to
Used to date a girl in HS, first time i picked her up her pop came to meet me with an axe in his hand. Said he was renovating (which he was but didnt need to carry the axe)

He stressed the importance of having his daughter home on time, message recieved, we were always on time.

Except once when i had a flat and he came outside with a .22. Saod he thought we were already home and was investigating a noise outside.

Message recieved.

Married her a few years later
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 6:03 pm
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 6:03 pm to
Well, I pack a gun about 75% of the time. Didn't have one with me that night. Still, I think it hit home.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37565 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 6:04 pm to
quote:

Used to date a girl in HS, first time i picked her up her pop came to meet me with an axe in his hand. Said he was renovating (which he was but didnt need to carry the axe)

He stressed the importance of having his daughter home on time, message recieved, we were always on time.

Except once when i had a flat and he came outside with a .22. Saod he thought we were already home and was investigating a noise outside.

Message recieved.

Married her a few years later



I would always look at my FIL like a blowhard dumbass if he did that to me. What was he going to do axe murder you?
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 6:06 pm to
quote:

would always look at my FIL like a blowhard dumbass if he did that to me.


Thats probably because your socially inept. Men protected their daughters.

It was fairly common in the 70s and 80s.
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