re: My Brother In Law caught his 16 y/o daughter parking with her boyfriend

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I had a long chat with one of my daughters boyfriends, a guy she ended up marrying.

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What was your chat about, if you don’t mind me asking?

What we’re you hoping to accomplish? Do you think it worked?

Could this same conversation have happened with your daughter instead?

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I'm not saying the cops would pursue this specific situation though. But it should be clear to anyone reading this story that the point of the gun being in his waistband was to make a clear statement to the boy.

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Looks like I can read just fine.

My little sister in tenth grade and her friend came to my Mom's house one night thinking no one was home. I had just gotten in town for my visit and was in my old room upstairs packing stuff I didn't have room for in the dorm at the time.

HEard the door open and them talking. I grabbed my shotgun, made sure no shells were in it. Then stood at the top of the stairs facing the door. Was dark enough that they couldn't see me while talking by the door.

I cocked it, and walked into the front door light slowly and said "you've got five seconds"

Needless to say after that, no guys came over to the house. My sister confirmed it years later.

I feel I did my job as a brother. Wasn't going to hurt the kids, but damn sure wanted to put the fear of God in them

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Roger, this is why our country is going to shite because so called men are NOT being Dads.

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Im not sure they have identified their gender yet.

Moms more likely to cuss out the little league coach than dads likely to have a talk with the boyfriend

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What's wrong is everyone meddles in everyone else's life.

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Its your duty as a parent to "meddle" in your teens life.

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And it must be proven beyond a reasonable doubt.

To be convicted

Not to spend a night in jail

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And whether convicted or not will still cost tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees. Even if found not guilty, or not even charged criminally could still face civil suit and lose which bankrupts a lot of people.

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Its your duty as a parent to "meddle" in your teens life.

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I'll have 2 teenaged girls in 6 months

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I'll have 2 teenaged girls in 6 months 

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I have much respect for the man that can survive one, much less two.

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Guess what we all turned out alright.

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Some kids are adventurous, some arent. I had two daughters, both very different. I was stricter on one than the other

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It seems this douche likes to use them as props

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Would have been something had the teenager had gun training, took it from the fool and put a cap in his arse.