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re: My Brother In Law caught his 16 y/o daughter parking with her boyfriend

Posted on 1/7/18 at 3:55 pm to
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 3:55 pm to
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At best that would be extremely difficult to prove intent



You don't need intent. Negligence is acting without intent but still recklessly.
Posted by crtodd
Member since Nov 2005
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 3:56 pm to
Daddy Dearest's best bet now is to drop the tough guy act and sincerely apologize to his daughter. She might understand if he explained that he's not ready to realize that she's growing up, but that he admits he was wrong.

Only then, he should reinforce(hopefully) that he raised her to use good judgement and that he TRUSTS HER.

He really screwed up, and if he won't admit it, he deserves whatever he gets between now and the time she picks a husband. He has to pluck his head out of his arse and see that he's alienating her.

He can't or won't do that, he's a prick, and it'll be a wild ride from now until she's out from under his roof.


Posted by Rebel
Graceland
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 3:57 pm to
You can’t reason with trailer park folks.
Posted by crtodd
Member since Nov 2005
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 3:57 pm to
Point well taken.
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:01 pm to
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You don't need intent. Negligence is acting without intent but still recklessly

So confronting someone while in possession of a firearm without implying that you would use said firearm on them is a crime? I fail to see where that would hold up.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:04 pm to
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So confronting someone while in possession of a firearm without implying that you would use said firearm on them is a crime? I fail to see where that would hold up.


If he goes to the kid, pulls his shirt up and says if I catch you with my daughter again things won't be good. Is that a crime? Probably as there's an implied threat. Would it be pursued by law enforcement? Doubtful.

ETA: Add the fact that it's a 16 year old kid and like I said before, it at least gets looked at.
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 4:05 pm
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:07 pm to
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So confronting someone while in possession of a firearm without implying that you would use said firearm on them is a crime? I fail to see where that would hold up.



If you tell someone while a gun is on your person in plain sight that if they don't comply with your wishes to stop engaging in a lawful activity that you might have to pursue another option, many people will take that as an implication that you are referencing the gun.

And it's not that farfetched to argue in court, esp. since we do know that's what he was doing.
Posted by HeadSlash
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:11 pm to
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There will be no pics of my Niece.. so dont ask...


There will be
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Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:12 pm to
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So confronting someone while in possession of a firearm without implying that you would use said firearm on them is a crime? I fail to see where that would hold up.


I go up to a bank teller raise my shite and show them I have a gun, are they wrong to assume it is a robbery?

LINK


"Letting someone know you are armed – whether it’s resting a hand on your pistol grip or sweeping back your shirt to let the other person know you’re armed – can and will be construed as a threat. And once it’s safely in that arena, you can be prosecuted in both civil and criminal court.

A few years ago, noted firearms expert Ben Findley wrote a very comprehensive article on the definitions of brandishing as they apply to some of the states. In that article, he gives a rough overview of the various definitions that exist out there as a means of educating concealed carriers to the facts about brandishing.

Brandishing can be called a lot of different things.
•“Improper Exhibition of a Weapon”
•“Defensive Display”
•“Unlawful Display”

(In Louisiana it is called "negligent display"

But it all reduces down to one key concept: threatening. And while in your mind, at the time, you may think along the lines of “that’s not a threat – that’s a promise”, the prosecuting attorney will tend to agree with you."
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 4:16 pm
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:16 pm to
I'm just going off of the OP which states that he had a gun in his waistband. There's no mention of him intimidating/threatening him with it. If I answer my door with a glock on my side the person on the other side may feel threatened through no fault of my own. I didn't read through this entire thread though so maybe I missed some additional details.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37565 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:19 pm to
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I'm just going off of the OP which states that he had a gun in his waistband. There's no mention of him intimidating/threatening him with it. If I answer my door with a glock on my side the person on the other side may feel threatened through no fault of my own. I didn't read through this entire thread though so maybe I missed some additional details.



You did, and even if you hadn't the BIL was"bragging" about having the gun in the OP. we can infer that means he showed it to the kid. There's a lot of judgement in the law and we can infer that he was using the gun to make a point, as would the courts in most cases.
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:20 pm to
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I'm just going off of the OP which states that he had a gun in his waistband. There's no mention of him intimidating/threatening him with it. If I answer my door with a glock on my side the person on the other side may feel threatened through no fault of my own. I didn't read through this entire thread though so maybe I missed some additional details.



You really can't see the difference between you having a firearm on your side while being approached by someone, versus having a visible firearm on your side to have a talk with someone in which you request he comply with your wishes or else?
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:24 pm to
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You really can't see the difference between you having a firearm on your side while being approached by someone, versus having a visible firearm on your side to have a talk with someone in which you request he comply with your wishes or else?

I don't see how it's a crime. Louisiana is an open carry state. If I confront someone because their dog is taking a shite on my lawn while having a firearm on me I fail to see how it really changes the situation from a legal standpoint. If I tell the dog owner I'm going to shoot their dog that's a different situation.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37565 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:29 pm to
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I don't see how it's a crime. Louisiana is an open carry state. If I confront someone because their dog is taking a shite on my lawn while having a firearm on me I fail to see how it really changes the situation from a legal standpoint. If I tell the dog owner I'm going to shoot their dog that's a different situation.


You just don't understand the law then. There is judgement and implidd intent involved. Depending on how you act and what you say to the dog owner could produce different results. If you say "hey man get your dog and his shite off my yard!" You're probably fine. If you say "get your dog and his shite my yard or else" and make reference to the gun by pointing or drawing attention to it, you've probably committed a crime.

Minute details can make all the difference in the application of law. That's why it's all so confusing. I know it's a different subject, but that's why contracts and such are all lawyered up in their language. Just not to long ago a comma cost a company a couple hundred grand in I think one of the Dakota's (I may be wrong on the state).
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 4:31 pm
Posted by efrad
Member since Nov 2007
18704 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:33 pm to
quote:

I don't see how it's a crime. Louisiana is an open carry state. If I confront someone because their dog is taking a shite on my lawn while having a firearm on me I fail to see how it really changes the situation from a legal standpoint. If I tell the dog owner I'm going to shoot their dog that's a different situation.



The law doesn't say you have to explicitly make a threat. The courts simply would rule on whether or not a normal person would take this person's behavior as a threat.

Just like telling someone you would like to have 10,000 dollars given to you is not a crime. And having a gun visible on your person is not a crime. But if I walk into a bank with a gun visible on me and tell the teller I would like to have 10,000 dollars given to me I'd bet you I'm not walking away.
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:34 pm to
I'm an IT consultant. Definitely not a lawyer
My argument is simply that merely possessing a gun on your property while confronting someone isn't a crime whether they feel intimidated or not.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
37565 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:39 pm to
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My argument is simply that merely possessing a gun on your property while confronting someone isn't a crime whether they feel intimidated or not.



To be clear, being on your property has nothing to do with anything. That's a often used and almost always incorrect and misguided arguement. Being on your property doesn't change the laws and allow you to committ a crime. Anyway, you're right, merely possessing a firearm while confronting someone is not a crime. "using" the firearm to imply something is. Like efrad said, the standard is a reasonable person. If someone walked up to you and said if you do this again you won't like the result and looked down at their holstered gun would you reasonably believe that means if you do it again they'll shoot you? The asnwer is probably yes, so that would be against the law.

I'm not trying to he a dick, but if you don't see the difference and how different situations are judged differently then you just aren't going to understand.
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 4:40 pm
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 4:47 pm to
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Like efrad said, the standard is a reasonable person. If someone walked up to you and said if you do this again you won't like the result and looked down at their holstered gun would you reasonably believe that means if you do it again they'll shoot you? The asnwer is probably yes, so that would be against the law

Fair enough. I just read a few posts on this thread that seemed to imply that having the gun and confronting the kid was a crime which is mostly what I was arguing against

ETA - and I have 2 daughters and would never do this. I remember being 16 and this isn't exactly unusual for kids that age. The dad definitely freaked out.
This post was edited on 1/7/18 at 4:53 pm
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
56225 posts
Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:02 pm to
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Depends of law enforcements opinion of what the intent of displaying the firearm was.


Louisiana is an OPEN CARRY state! The BIL was on his own property!

The statute you cite is not applicable to the situation because it was not a concealed weapon.

Why is this so difficult to understand? No matter how triggered the boyfriend's father might be, the BIL committed no crime if he simply said, "You'd better watch it, son" while having an open carry pistol stuck into his belt.

Posted by Dead End
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2013
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Posted on 1/7/18 at 5:03 pm to
Thank you.
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