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re: Mother from Connecticut is shocked after her Son was given the "ADD award" by Teacher

Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:10 am to
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
178333 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:10 am to
Who the frick is in school at the end of June?
Posted by nvasil1
Hellinois
Member since Oct 2009
17894 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:15 am to
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Or it was an attempt at showing this kid he can be proud of who he is. ADD doesn't have to be something to be ashamed of.

Definitely could be.

Makes me think of Jason Benetti who does play by play for the White Sox. He also does college football for ESPN. The dude has cerebral palsy and owns it. He makes fun of the way he walks and the way his eyes look. But he likes who he is, so he doesn't get triggered when others do the same.
Posted by dagrippa
Saigon
Member since Nov 2004
12171 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:18 am to
there is no such thing as humor now
Posted by jmarto1
Houma, LA/ Las Vegas, NV
Member since Mar 2008
39245 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:20 am to
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
62150 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:21 am to
quote:

there is no such thing as humor now


Not without serious consequences.
Posted by LeMarteau
Hoover, AL (B.R. native)
Member since Mar 2008
2275 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:27 am to
quote:

This was a deliberate attempt to "cut" the kid and assault his feelings.


This kid is old enough to understand that actions have consequences.

The award may well be the impetus for change this kid needs.
Posted by starsandstripes
Georgia
Member since Nov 2017
11897 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:30 am to
This is why no one respects teachers.
Posted by TigerintheNO
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2004
45422 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:34 am to
quote:

Cooper said the unnamed teacher


I'm going to go with Mrs. Kern

quote:

his teacher really gave this to him since her name was on it


Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
66994 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:41 am to
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
42503 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 11:45 am to
quote:

Shouldn’t be an issue, but dumb of the school to do it knowing what the world is like


This. I have a son who has AD/HD, and we have a really good relationship with his school. It's a private school, so they generally handle these types of things better. We get constant communications from our son's teachers, and everything is taken care of in an adult manner.

Teachers who do this, probably don't do it to make fun of the kid personally, it's just meant to be in jest, or a funny jab. People are just hyper protective of their kids and their own feelings these days. It's stupid that the teacher did that.
Posted by Witecoco
Metairie
Member since Jan 2009
1296 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:09 pm to
I would laugh if either of my sons brought something like this home. At the same time teach them to be able to take a silly joke in stride.

Then again I'm not offended by every little thing.
This post was edited on 6/29/18 at 4:44 pm
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
62150 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:12 pm to
quote:

Then again I'm not offended by every little thing.


You better get with the program, buddy.
Posted by Perrydawg
Middle Ga Area
Member since Jan 2014
5159 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:14 pm to
Well she is rocking a version of "can I speak to the manager" haircut so this is to be expected
This post was edited on 6/29/18 at 12:17 pm
Posted by HDAU
Member since Nov 2014
1701 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:28 pm to
Same mommy would be on the news complaining about her kid not getting an award if he didn't get one. Cannot win!
Posted by Witecoco
Metairie
Member since Jan 2009
1296 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:29 pm to
Don't tell me how to feel you (insert political affliation)(insert offensive term for said political affiliation).

Am I doing it right?

Also this is the kinda stuff that happens when you just send your kids to school and not get to know the teachers beyond that.
Posted by CajunTiger_225
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
9233 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:30 pm to
Less than 20 years ago this wouldn't have been a big deal
Posted by Kentucker
Rabbit Hash, KY
Member since Apr 2013
20055 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:35 pm to
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That stupid look on her face seems permanent.


You just know she's been feeding that kid lots of sugar all his life, too. No womder he can't focus.
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
12217 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:43 pm to
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“He had tears in his eyes. He’s embarrassed because he had to accept it in front of his entire class,” Cooper told NBC Connecticut. Maybe he really is embarrassed, but something makes me think the teacher believed this would be taken in good humor. He's not a little kid, he's 13 years old. My homeroom teacher in middle school used to make fun of me and my friends all the time and we'd give it back to him. It wasn't ever personal.


13 years old! That means that the other students have known this kid for around seven years. Maybe they happen to have stumbled onto his being different by now? Or maybe they know that he misbehaves because he chooses to? Or that he gets away with stuff that they can't?

She put her hand over his mouth when he wouldn't stop talking in class. "But Momma, everybody was doing it" or words to that effect. Except everybody else could expect punishment and he knew from the way he was treated that he'd get none...oh, wait, the teacher quieted him the only way she could. That he told his Mother that way indicates he knew he was doing wrong.

(From a special needs person in our extended family, we are accustomed to the phrase "Good Job.")
Posted by pensacola
pensacola
Member since Sep 2005
4832 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:44 pm to
Perhaps she should have thought of this before naming her spawn “Derek.” Wonder what his BA was in this year’s little league World Series?
Posted by Hu_Flung_Pu
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2013
22546 posts
Posted on 6/29/18 at 12:54 pm to
At first I thought it was a misunderstood sign and the parent was stupid. I thought it meant addition for a math award. Nope, teacher is that dumb.
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