re: Mom of 3 who vanished 24 years ago while Christmas shopping found ‘alive and well’

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Do people not know that the tax assessor’s websites contain 99% of all homeowners names along with addresses?

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Fake name? I guess that's the only way she could hide.

That’s a prime time straight up mid 90’s mall Glamour Shot. I’m sure she looked at herself and thought she was just too pretty to stay tied down.

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She broke no laws.

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Cmon man, people in here are dead set on making up laws. Don’t rain on their idiot parade.

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This honestly sounds like she might be homeless or similarly destitute.

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What one thing known about the current situation points to that? Are you stupid?

Not to make light of a bad situation.

But if she was knocked up and left with the other man.... it'd solve a lot of these questions about how she could stay hidden.

And yes it seems there's was considerable expense to just look the other way.

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She broke no laws.

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Nor is there any law requiring authorities to honor her request to stay anonymous from the children she abandoned. She did something terrible and wrong, whether or not she broke any laws, and doesn't deserve any special consideration or nice treatment like "please let me continue being a piece of shite in peace."

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Even if you only look up stats on Caucasians, there are 3X as many families without fathers vs families without mothers.

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Now contextualize the stats to back up the 3×. How many due the mother being a piece of shite and denying the father their role? How many of the fathers were deceased, as men die earlier than women? How many were single mothers who didnt know the father? How many of those men were in prison, as men are jailed at a much higher rate than women? Finally How many of that number are proven to be runaway dad's?

Point is, that stat is useless without context. Not to say its not a true assessment overall as I agree it likely is.

Personal experience, my dad was a drunk, philandering bar whore all throughout my childhood. My mother a church going model mother. In 1985, im 8, want to know who ran off in the middle of the night, ironically also on December 31? My mother. With the preacher, a father of 4 himself. My dad? Continued as an alcoholic, bar whore but he didnt abandon his children or the one who wasnt his by blood. He was always present.
My mother was located and eventually all 3 children moved about to eventually end up back with her in a different state due to other circumstances. But not without lots of harbored ill will for years following that. As I aged, my feelings about what she did changed but that lost trust of knowing even a mother can abandon her children never truly goes away. It sticks with you even in forgiveness. Its sad but enlightening at the same time. Gives insight into the human psyche. Everyone is selfish at their core. Once you know that people are much easier to navigate. Even yourself.

Im thinking she hooked up with a rich guy and he took care of her so she didnt need a job. Used all his credit/debit cards. Now he dies and she has to report it to the funeral home and the gig is up.

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Cmon man, people in here are dead set on making up laws. Don’t rain on their idiot parade.

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This is great right here

There are child abandonment laws

according to what i read about a podcast entitled "Vanished," the dad didnt report her missing for 20+ days. She had a history of alcoholism. The couple didnt get along very well.

Crappy thing to do, regardless, but found the asserted facts above interesting.