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re: Men who get married and let themselves go

Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:08 am to
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
3414 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:08 am to
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The thing is - the only thing women bring to a table in a male-female relationship is their looks. That's the only thing that determines the sexual market value of a woman, and therefore the only thing that determines what a woman is worth to a man.


dude.

What about other qualities you look for in a spouse? Loyal, good caretaker, intelligent. Hell if you want to go the misogynistic route then how about how good she is at cooking, cleaning and sucking dick.

To say "the only qualities a woman brings to a relationship is her sex appeal" is just immature. That's something my 18 year old little brother would say.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86483 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:10 am to
I hope you approach middle age with humility. Because it will strip you of things you previously took for granted.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
15281 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:10 am to
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I'm not worried about your appearance. I'm trying to fat shame you into not being disgusting so your wife won't cheat on you.


You come off as a sensitive fat person.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:11 am to
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he thing is - the only thing women bring to a table in a male-female relationship is their looks. That's the only thing that determines the sexual market value of a woman, and therefore the only thing that determines what a woman is worth to a man.


Not true. This is where you took too much of the redpill.
This isn't 1940. Women make money today. That was one of the criteria I was looking for. Attractive, good personality, self-sufficient financially. My fiance makes good money as an attorney. I wanted her to bring more to the table than her looks.
Posted by knight_ryder
XTC cabaret
Member since Jan 2015
3356 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:12 am to
Marriage is dead, for American women. Nobody wants to marry a narcissistic, insecure, ignorant, materialistic, domineering bitch. There is a French billionaire and he refuses to date American women. All they do is suck the life out of you.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:12 am to
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I hope you approach middle age with humility. Because it will strip you of things you previously took for granted.




It strips you of nothing. You just have more excuses.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20260 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:12 am to
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so long as the wife stays hot, who cares


Hopefully you'll care when she's fricking some dude she met at the gym.


Yep. We've already agreed that if we get married, and one of us doesn't stay attractive to the other physically, then divorce or infidelity is on the table
Posted by bigrob385series
B. Aura
Member since May 2014
2636 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:12 am to
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Why do you think this is ok? Do you have no shame?
exactly what i ask when you start a thread
Posted by Seldom Seen
Member since Feb 2016
48737 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:13 am to
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Men who get married and let themselves go




In fairness I know plenty of single men and women who let themselves go. I think its more an age thing than anything else.
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
71698 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:15 am to
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Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86483 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:22 am to
It strips you if your loved ones- they grow old and die. Weddings are replaced by funerals. you no longer have adrenaline rushes. Your hair thins. You lose muscle mass. You get sick. You go to the dr and he tells you you have prostate cancer . Chemo then lays you low and you are throwing up instead of eating. Your balls hang low. Hair starts growing in your ear. You smell different . Your vision gets worse your hearing gets worse. You start forgetting names . That's your future whether you know it or not. Keep thinking that you'll always be fit healthy and young though- with youth comes hubris and entitlement and with age comes humility and gratitude for what you have.
Posted by mpar98
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2006
8041 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:24 am to
I care about me and my family...do not care about what other people do...that's a sign of insecurity.
Posted by shotcaller1
Member since Oct 2014
7501 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:25 am to
Eh if my future wife lets herself go AND explicitly gives no shits, that'll be a problem
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
30411 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:25 am to
When you become content it gets away from you , I'm working to lose my baby fat now. Gained about 45 lbs after marriage 11 years ago, down 30 in the past 12 months
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26376 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:28 am to
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To say "the only qualities a woman brings to a relationship is her sex appeal" is just immature. That's something my 18 year old little brother would say.



Yeah I was wrong. I was referring to the sexual marketplace. Obviously women who are candidates to be LTRs/wives can have additional qualities, like the ability to cook, clean, and keep a household. However, her appearance is still the biggest slice of the pie that determines her value. A 400 pound land whale can be the best cook/cleaner/housekeeper/loyal/not trashy/etc. in the world but I wouldn't care.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:34 am to
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You come off as a sensitive fat person.



the logic here

I start a thread telling dudes to keep themselves in shape and take care of their bodies. Then a fatty comes in here and tells me not to care. Then fatty tells me I'M the one who's fat.

wew lad
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:39 am to
I'm not sure who or what you're arguing against or why any of what you stated is relevant. You usually have really solid opinions, and I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just saying it's not pertinent.

I'm not sure how loved ones dying or other sad things that happen in life are reasons to not eat healthy and work on your body every once in awhile.

When I said old age strips you of nothing but gives you more excuses, I was obviously saying that as it relates to eating healthy and taking care of yourself. There are obviously diseases that prevent some people from going to the gym or eating the way they would like. I'm not talking about those people. The VAST majority of people, irrespective of age, can and should always eat healthy and take care of their bodies.
Posted by EveryonesACoach
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2012
898 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:39 am to
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Having kids and working full time is pretty much the death nail for being in shape.


I see this excuse a lot, and I just don't buy it. Work, marriage and kids sure do limit your free time, but it doesn't make you fat. It's how you prioritize that limited free time that matters. If you want to kick your feet up drink a beer instead, that's perfectly fine, but it's simply a lack of motivation that keeps many from staying in decent shape.
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36799 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:42 am to
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And she started smoking after we got married.



She pokes


Also, change in behavior is usually a sign that she's getting strange
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61504 posts
Posted on 2/8/17 at 9:44 am to
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