re: Men who get married and let themselves go

My wife and I both weigh the same now as when we got married ten years ago. We have three children.

My best friend and his wife have gained almost 75lbs each since getting married ten years ago, they have no children.

We chose to eat well and be active. They did not.

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so long as the wife stays hot, who cares

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Hopefully you'll care when she's fricking some dude she met at the gym.

Most women will want BBC regardless of whether one will let oneself go.

So, that's kind of the main benefit of being a guy. You don't need to be in peak physical condition. Just make a lot of money.

And I'm saying that as someone who is in better shape than they were when they got married. Money trumps abs.

I feel bad for extremely self centered people

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Hopefully you'll care when she's fricking some dude she met at the gym.

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The relationships subreddit on reddit is perfect for reading stories like this. They are dime a dozen.

"I am 28 years old, married to a wonderful guy who is 30. He is perfect, he basically worships the ground I walk on, is a good provider, and is sooo nice to me. However its just that I have found myself not attracted to him anymore and I don't know why. Because he has all the qualities you could want in a man - nice, caring, sweet, loving, good provider... so I just can't understand why I don't "love" him anymore. I mean I love him, but I don't love him. The attraction is gone... I always make up excuses not to have sex, and only give in once a month or so and its just starfish sex... anyway I feel terrible because I was at the gym and there is this guy there who is just... perfect. I find myself extremely attracted to him... Great body, hot, tattoos, 6 pack, muscles, very masculine. I don't know what he does for a living but he just gets me wet. Anyway one day after I worked out he asked me if I wanted to get coffee... one thing led to another and we ended up fricking on my own bed. It just... happened. Why I don't know. I had to frantically wash the sheets after so my husband wouldn't see the cum stains. I feel awful for cheating on my husband, but at the same time, it was the best sex I have had since getting married. If my husband can't satisfy me sexually, should I leave him?"

And of course all the replies are basically saying YOU GO GIRL and saying that its the husbands fault, blah blah blah. When if the genders were reversed, all the replies would shame the man "HOW DARE YOU CHEAT"

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And I'm saying that as someone who is in better shape than they were when they got married. Money trumps abs.

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Maybe in terms of getting a ring on her finger, but just because a woman is married to a man doesn't mean she is attracted to the man. Plenty of women marry/date men for their resources and provision, but are not attracted to the man. So she will not give her best in the bedroom, if she gives any sex at all. Any sex she does give will be rare and starfish sex.

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On the next Maury:

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Its funny because at my church there are clear examples of a post wall former party girl/drug using woman who got wifed up by some desperate beta chump who obviously has good provider qualities, thinking he got a catch.

Anyway one of these couples at my church is some blonde who you can tell used to be hot in her prime, but hit the wall full speed. And her husband literally looks like pajama boy. Obvious example of a woman marrying a dude for his money. They have 3 kids....two of which are white like the parents are. But their most recent kid is black like the photo. I haven't asked but I really really hope the kid is adopted, for the sake of the husband.