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re: Married OTers...If you were suddenly single, how would you re-enter the "game"?

Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:19 pm to
Posted by KLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2003
10717 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:19 pm to
After 13 years of marriage I am now separated(My wife pulled the old I love you but not in love with you line) and asking myself the same thing. It's like part of me wants to start dating again but the other part of me doesn't feel like dealing with all the crap involved. I know sooner or later I will and I figure it will be a mixture of all of the above. As of right now I am pretty satisfied just doing things for me. Woman are starting to find out that I am single and it really seems pretty easy to meet middle age women looking for a good man .
This post was edited on 10/14/14 at 2:21 pm
Posted by Aux Arc
SW Missouri
Member since Oct 2011
2184 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:20 pm to
Professional social events and organizations.

But I would not be looking to get completely back in.
Posted by illuminatic
Manipulating politicans&rappers
Member since Sep 2012
7009 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:21 pm to
I was never in the "game". I'm not even sure how I got married.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48584 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:21 pm to
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Still, my inquiry was not just about sex (despite that being one of the main goals), but re-entering the dating scene generally.


The dating sites are legit if you have ANY kind of wit and sense of humor and can convey that via keyboard. TONS of professional chicks out there (Teachers, nurses, accountants, hr, typical chick shite) who are divorced with a kid(s) that simply don't have time to waste their kid-free nights or pay baby sitters to go sit at bars looking for a new boyfriend. They are often HORNY as frick.


eta: avoid the bitches who want to meet the FIRST night at some fancy restaurant bar. Make them bitches meet you at a dive bar, daq shop to make sure they ain't the 'free ride' sluts
This post was edited on 10/14/14 at 2:23 pm
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
14754 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:21 pm to
Don't always agree with you fr33, but THIS is solid.
Posted by The Sad Banana
The gate is narrow.
Member since Jul 2008
89507 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:21 pm to
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130040 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:25 pm to



The school of hard knocks gave me a crash course.

Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
107737 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:26 pm to
quote:

was never in the "game". I'm not even sure how I got married


Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13071 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:27 pm to
I am fairly certain that there are a number of ladies waiting with crossed fingers for me to become available.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84290 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:28 pm to
Tinder

POF jk

Posted by Gulf Coast Tiger
Ms Gulf Coast
Member since Jan 2004
19244 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:32 pm to
I have been with my wife for over half my life. I really have no idea how I would do it.
Posted by Prosecuted Collins
The Farm
Member since Sep 2003
6836 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:35 pm to
+1 Tinder

I travel for work, it kinda sucks in BR, but in major cities it is too easy.

Seperated about 5 months ago, been making rounds for the last 3.

Met an amazing Norweigan and some nice chicks to pass the time.

Tried match, everyone is looking for love, not my bag baby.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130040 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:35 pm to
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I have been with my wife for over half my life. I really have no idea how I would do it.




Been so long you've forgotten how?


Just put the round peg in the hole
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:36 pm to
I know you want to leave the "how" out, but that would probably affect the answer by what the end goal was, eg, strange vs nice to date with future potential.
Posted by LSUZombie
A Cemetery Near You
Member since Apr 2008
29368 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:36 pm to
Go to a dog park on a Sunday afternoon.

My buddies and I were playing basketball at the park on Upperline St. and it was unreal how many attractive females came to the park over the course of a couple of hours.

Also, bring your dog so you aren't the weirdo hanging around a dog park.
Posted by 91TIGER
Lafayette
Member since Aug 2006
18841 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:36 pm to
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Been so long you've forgotten how?


Just put the round peg in the hole



After the kids get older they get better. Mine is actually better now than she was in college.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
123612 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:37 pm to
Tinder + Bars + SeekingArraingments.com
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
130040 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:39 pm to
I know. It's all jokes. I know I come off as bitter and distrusting...but I'm really only distrusting.

I'm happy for any married couple that has made it and especially those that have a great sex life.

I feel bad for people that don't. I know I'll never do that to myself again.
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
38300 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:39 pm to
It's honestly easier as you get older. Women get more comfortable in their own skin and are down for whatever. Any guy that is a 6 or above, good job and funny, can get whatever he wants.
Posted by 91TIGER
Lafayette
Member since Aug 2006
18841 posts
Posted on 10/14/14 at 2:40 pm to
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SeekingArraingments.com


Child Porn if you're seekingarraignment

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