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re: Marriage over or salvageable?
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:11 pm to DeSantis_2024
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:11 pm to DeSantis_2024
Dawg, I’m not reading 7 pages of stupid arse responses.
Are you really complaining about having sex once a gatdam week????
Kids suck sometimes. Life is hard, marriage is harder. Sack the frick up and figure out what makes her tick. And then sit her down and tell her what makes you feel appreciated. My wife and I couldn’t be more different when it comes to what makes us fe loved but once we talked about it and we each knew each others love languages our lives improved tremendously.
Im sorry you’re where your at, I hope you and your bride find the spark you each need soon.
Are you really complaining about having sex once a gatdam week????
Kids suck sometimes. Life is hard, marriage is harder. Sack the frick up and figure out what makes her tick. And then sit her down and tell her what makes you feel appreciated. My wife and I couldn’t be more different when it comes to what makes us fe loved but once we talked about it and we each knew each others love languages our lives improved tremendously.
Im sorry you’re where your at, I hope you and your bride find the spark you each need soon.
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Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:13 pm to DeSantis_2024
Be an adult and ride it out until your kids are adults. Who knows, maybe y’all will rekindle the spark in the meantime.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:14 pm to LootieandtheBlowfish
To be fair, the responses are mostly serious and well thought out.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:15 pm to LootieandtheBlowfish
The love languages exercise is valuable
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:16 pm to DeSantis_2024
It takes work
You don’t have to be married forever… just one day at a time
Women become moms when the kids come along. You become less important.
I suggest a talk with an emphasis on how you feel and what you want but with an open mind as to where she’s at.
Divorce is a horrible thing to do to kids.
Try to work it out
You don’t have to be married forever… just one day at a time
Women become moms when the kids come along. You become less important.
I suggest a talk with an emphasis on how you feel and what you want but with an open mind as to where she’s at.
Divorce is a horrible thing to do to kids.
Try to work it out
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:16 pm to DeSantis_2024
If you are on a pipeline job 2 on 2 off you have bigger problems than you think.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:18 pm to DeSantis_2024
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Sex has gone from 2-3 times/week when we first got married to maybe once a week now
You’re getting laid once a week and wanting to divorce over that!?
You know you can romance her still too, right? Get the fire flashing between you. Get her motor running hot and you might find some of that missing passion
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:19 pm to DeSantis_2024
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Sex has gone from 2-3 times/week when we first got married to maybe once a week now.
You'll never be happy if this is your standard
ETA: not saying this in a boomer "oh lolz you'll never get any" way, but a relationship, and especially a marriage is SO much more than that. If you can't understand that at a bare fricking minimum, you never should've gotten married
This post was edited on 11/27/22 at 7:21 pm
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:24 pm to DeSantis_2024
I have absolutely no good advice for this, but I'm just in for the replies.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:25 pm to DeSantis_2024
quote:
Sex has gone from 2-3 times/week when we first got married to maybe once a week now.
And you’re complaining?
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:26 pm to Bama Bird
ITT I learn that sex once a week 10 years into marriage isn't a lot 
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:26 pm to DeSantis_2024
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three young kids
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Sex to maybe once a week
Hahaha. Lies. Try once a month. Be honest.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:30 pm to DeSantis_2024
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Sex has gone from 2-3 times/week when we first got married to maybe once a week now.
That’s about right baw, you’re doing good (from a guy whose been married 26 yrs)Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:30 pm to DeSantis_2024
If your wife tells you that a divorce means that you get the kids and she'll get them on weekends would you still want it?
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:35 pm to elsu
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Stick it out. Kids make it hard, but it will get better.
This. Look for love where you last had it.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:36 pm to LSUEnvy
Easily the most surprising part of the replies is the apparent result that I’m on the more frequent end of sex at 1/week 10 years into marriage. What are you guys doing at having sex once each month, jacking off three weeks a month?
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:40 pm to DeSantis_2024
Do you work offshore? Does your wife have SnapChat? AFAF.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:41 pm to DeSantis_2024
I have two small kids and it’s been very difficult. This is a trying season but stick it out man. The long term destruction a divorce does to kids on its own makes it not worth it.
Dig in, get to work, make sacrifices, open up communication, help her more around the house and with the kids, make time to spend together away from the kids, have date nights, be kind and thoughtful.
It will get better just stick through it and it will be worth it.
Dig in, get to work, make sacrifices, open up communication, help her more around the house and with the kids, make time to spend together away from the kids, have date nights, be kind and thoughtful.
It will get better just stick through it and it will be worth it.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:44 pm to DeSantis_2024
Remember that you still have to be a couple. Find time for each other. Do something fresh. Do NOT divorce because you're a little tired.
Posted on 11/27/22 at 7:47 pm to DeSantis_2024
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Easily the most surprising part of the replies is the apparent result that I’m on the more frequent end of sex at 1/week 10 years into marriage. What are you guys doing at having sex once each month, jacking off three weeks a month?
I mean things change, more on their end than ours. If you need to jerk it twice a week then sex with her once a week so be it. Pro tip; jerk it twice the day before your “ day with her” and make her earn it.
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