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re: Marking yourself safe on Facebook... the height of narcissism

Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:19 am to
Posted by DarkDrifter
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2011
4057 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:19 am to
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These parodies do amuse me.


The only one I'll actually post is the parody ones
Posted by cooLStorybreaUx
Member since Aug 2014
600 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:23 am to
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A fellow internet tough guy. Nice to meet you. Maybe we can meet up at sonic and throw hands. Loser buys the other a cherry limeaide slush.


Tough guy, no. I was just pointing out the irony. Make it a green apple slush and a footlong coney and you've got a deal. I'll be hungry afterwards.
Posted by TexasTiger1185
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2011
13129 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:28 am to
The folks I know who have don’t it said the reason they did was because they got tired of people texting them.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21049 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:46 am to
Oh, that reminds me to tell all of the OT that I am safe from everything except possibly an STD or crabs....
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
83310 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:48 am to
obviously it's not universal

but i've never seen a dude mark himself safe on facebook

which is pretty telling
Posted by The Eric
Member since Sep 2008
22677 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:49 am to
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Tough guy, no. I was just pointing out the irony. Make it a green apple slush and a footlong coney and you've got a deal. I'll be hungry afterwards.


Well then. You can add my cherry limeaide slush and an order of onion rings to your order. Since you’ll be buying.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
23346 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:57 am to
Facebook... the height of narcissism

Here I fixed it for you, ever wonder why they have picture filters ?

So these old arse 50 yr old women can get a glamour shot for free, post it, then wait around for all their friends to tell them how beautiful they are.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
62905 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 11:00 am to
Facebook is a product of anti-social weirdos trying to find a loophole to being social.
Posted by LSU Delirium
Member since Aug 2013
477 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 11:21 am to
Facebook doesn’t care what you are looking at, just as long as you have the app open and they can push ads on you.

Did you stop and read these attention seeking posts? Their algorithm will tell them to show you more to keep your attention, even if that attention is in the form of scorn.

Congratulations, you are a product marketed to advertisers. Getting off social media is the answer.
Posted by 62Tigerfan
Member since Sep 2015
5092 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 11:32 am to
I’ll bet if you mark yourself unsafe, you’ll probably get lots of platitudes and praying hands and no actual help.
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
30643 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 11:37 am to
I love the people nowhere near being impacted that do this.

Glad to see Cheryl in Mandeville is safe from Hurricane Delta.
Posted by Privateer 2007
Member since Jan 2020
7238 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 11:46 am to
I could understand for something insane.

9/11
Las Vegas mass shooting

Etc

A hurricane?
GTFO
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3855 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:05 pm to
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This post was edited on 1/6/21 at 8:26 pm
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
121138 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:08 pm to
I marked myself safe for this thread.
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
9617 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:09 pm to
Yes.

I see that realizing its mostly people being stupid as they weren’t even close to path of the Hurricane, but for the ones being serious, who cares? Did anyone even ask? Hate attention seeking behavior
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
125408 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:13 pm to
Wish i could mark myself unsafe
Posted by Tigerfan56
Member since May 2010
10526 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:29 pm to
Facebook in general is the height of narcissism.

The “happy birthday to my kids” post and pic collage, when your kid is a child and isn’t even on FB. Really examine that - what is the root reason people do that? It’s a “look at me and my kid and how great they are and how great my life is”

The “happy anniversary to the best husband in the world!” Post. Why don’t you walk over to your husband 10 feet away and tell him to his face how much you love him? Because the post isn’t about him or your love. The post is “look at how perfect our life is”

And we’re all susceptible to it. We’ve all made posts on social media to bring attention to ourself. It’s human nature to want to feel important. But it’s toxic. If you really examine the motivations to why people post on FB, and the validation they’re seeking from it - to me it has become a platform that has evolved to feed the narcissist in all of us and ultimately will slowly and slowly make us a more self-centered population. Think we’re already seeing that to some degree.

ETA: to address the actual OP. My wife’s best friend lived in Florida when the Parkland school shooting occurred. She lived like 20-30 minutes from the school. She wasn’t a teacher, has no kids at the school, no affiliation to the school that would lead anyone to think she would ever be at the school for any reason. And yet she felt the need to check herself in as “safe” on Facebook

Not making light of the shooting tragedy, but I had to roll my eyes when she did that
This post was edited on 10/11/20 at 12:33 pm
Posted by Wolfhound45
Member since Nov 2009
121138 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:32 pm to
quote:

Wish i could mark myself unsafe
Your unsafeness is safe with us.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33833 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:33 pm to
The entire social media platform self-selects for narcissism.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
117998 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:33 pm to
I mean, if like say another 9/11 or worse were to happen, I think that’s fine, but I can’t think of a moment since Facebook was invented that has called for marking safe.
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