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re: Marking yourself safe on Facebook... the height of narcissism

Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:34 pm to
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:34 pm to
Narcissistic maybe, but I tend to think it’s people grabbing for attention. They will post that they are safe hoping 100 “friends” will “like” it !
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 12:54 pm to
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Narcissistic maybe, but I tend to think it’s people grabbing for attention. They will post that they are safe hoping 100 “friends” will “like” it !
Bush league stuff. You are shooting for “Thoughts and prayers” baw.
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
29168 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 1:44 pm to
Agreed 100%. It’s attention seeking as one poster had said and a good example of how pathetic social media makes us all. We post the most ridiculous shite on there thinking that anyone cares and when somebody hits like it’s creates a dopamine hit.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 1:46 pm to
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We post the most ridiculous shite on there
speak for yourself Bozo
Posted by indytiger
baton rouge/indy
Member since Oct 2004
9834 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 1:56 pm to
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Facebook in general is the height of narcissism.

The “happy birthday to my kids” post and pic collage, when your kid is a child and isn’t even on FB. Really examine that - what is the root reason people do that? It’s a “look at me and my kid and how great they are and how great my life is”

The “happy anniversary to the best husband in the world!” Post. Why don’t you walk over to your husband 10 feet away and tell him to his face how much you love him? Because the post isn’t about him or your love. The post is “look at how perfect our life is”

And we’re all susceptible to it. We’ve all made posts on social media to bring attention to ourself. It’s human nature to want to feel important. But it’s toxic. If you really examine the motivations to why people post on FB, and the validation they’re seeking from it - to me it has become a platform that has evolved to feed the narcissist in all of us and ultimately will slowly and slowly make us a more self-centered population. Think we’re already seeing that to some degree.



Very well put.
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
16006 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 1:58 pm to
man you guys will literally bitch about everything - my god you all need a Hobby.....or a blowjob, possibly both
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
12516 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 2:03 pm to
I particularly enjoy it when someone in Slidell marks themself safe from a storm that hit lake Charles. I have a couple attention whore friends who do it every chance they get.
Posted by Arthur Bach
Member since Jul 2016
2002 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 2:50 pm to
OP, this could be a George Carlin bit. Totally agree.
Posted by southdowns84
Member since Dec 2009
1454 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 3:02 pm to
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Almost as bad as posting a passive aggressive post on Tiger Droppings, instead of posting it on Facebook for Mike to see himself. Here's your attention though.


Whatever you say, Mike.
Posted by BCH1965
Tampa, Fl
Member since Sep 2020
96 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 3:04 pm to
I’m safe.
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
25670 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 4:08 pm to
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WaydownSouth


quote:

Hate attention seeking behavior




Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
25670 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 4:08 pm to
Dupe
This post was edited on 10/11/20 at 4:09 pm
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
25670 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 4:08 pm to
So good I apparently said it three times... FML
This post was edited on 10/11/20 at 4:09 pm
Posted by gthog61
Irving, TX
Member since Nov 2009
71001 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 4:21 pm to
Psssst, if you don't draw attention to yourself hardly any of the other attention whores will ever know you are there.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113964 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 4:37 pm to
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Facebook is the height of narcissism


Check out Joe Rogan's episode with W. Keith Campbell. It was 3 or 4 episodes ago. Campbell is a social psychologist and just wrote a book on narcissist. Its pretty interesting.
Posted by cyarrr
Prairieville
Member since Jun 2017
3363 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 5:05 pm to
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I mean, if like say another 9/11 or worse were to happen, I think that’s fine, but I can’t think of a moment since Facebook was invented that has called for marking safe.


As the poster mentioned earlier, the Vegas mass shooting is a good example of when it would be useful, I'm sure there are others.

In general it does seem narcissistic and unnecessary, but I'm not Karen so it doesn't bother me. If somebody feels the need to mark himself as being safe, more power to him.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
38820 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 5:10 pm to
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Is marking yourself safe on Facebook the height of narcissism?

no
Facebook itself is the height of narcissism
think about it...do I or anyone else really need to know anything about you that I don’t already know or that you could easily communicate to me via non public means?

you are on Facebook because you want attention
Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
30263 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 5:19 pm to
I always wonder about the person that’s not safe. If I’m stuck in the attic of a flooding house, marking myself unsafe on a FB is pretty low on my priorities. Even if I did, it’s not like someone would call 911.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76340 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 5:23 pm to
We should have a thread just for posters to check in as safe
Posted by LSURoss
SWLAish
Member since Dec 2007
15329 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 6:07 pm to
Hah, "Mike" was probably also 150 miles away. Those are the best.
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