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Marking yourself safe on Facebook... the height of narcissism

Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:12 am
Posted by The Eric
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
20989 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:12 am
Is marking yourself safe on Facebook the height of narcissism? I just feel like the people who need to know you are safe are usually much easier to contact than through Facebook.

During a storm my parents will call, text, or drive by. Even if I were states away I feel like the last thing my parents or any loved ones are going to do is check my Facebook to see if I marked myself safe.
Thought?
Posted by A Menace to Sobriety
Member since Jun 2018
29072 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:12 am to
Reason 1 of a billion why Facebook/social media sucks.
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
11294 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:13 am to
Sad attention seeking
Posted by The Eric
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
20989 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:14 am to
I just find it absurd that people feel the need to let everyone know they are safe.


Thanks, Mike... I was really stressed out about you being safe. My roof has caved in from a tree and my water main has busted but I just couldn’t function if I didn’t know that you were marked safe.
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12449 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:17 am to
Typically it’s the type of people that I would prefer were not safe.
Posted by Johnny Roastbeef
Somewhere in Bartow County
Member since Sep 2018
1961 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:19 am to
I really don’t give 2 shites if someone is safe or not
Posted by The Eric
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
20989 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:19 am to
One was my cousin. She marked herself safe at 8pm Friday. The storm hadn’t even really hit our area hard yet. Made no sense. But she’s also not the brightest.
Posted by cooLStorybreaUx
Member since Aug 2014
598 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:19 am to
Almost as bad as posting a passive aggressive post on Tiger Droppings, instead of posting it on Facebook for Mike to see himself. Here's your attention though.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97640 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:21 am to
I haven’t marked myself safe to see if someone is going to show up to check on me.



Nothing yet
Posted by jaytothen
Member since Jan 2020
6407 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:22 am to
The ones that don't even live in the area are the worst.

Like I was really worried for you Dave in Biloxi during Delta.
Posted by The Eric
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
20989 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:23 am to
quote:

Almost as bad as posting a passive aggressive post on Tiger Droppings, instead of posting it on Facebook for Mike to see himself. Here's your attention though



A fellow internet tough guy. Nice to meet you. Maybe we can meet up at sonic and throw hands. Loser buys the other a cherry limeaide slush.
Posted by lowspark12
nashville, tn
Member since Aug 2009
22368 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:27 am to
Facebook is the height of narcissism
Posted by Neauxla_Tiger
Member since Feb 2015
1877 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:39 am to
quote:

The ones that don't even live in the area are the worst.

Like I was really worried for you Dave in Biloxi during Delta.


Yes, this big time. You weren't even in danger, you don't need to mark yourself safe.

And as another poster said, I saw some people marking themselves safe before the hurricane even made landfall. I couldn't roll my eyes any harder
Posted by UncleSlick
PA
Member since Mar 2019
125 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:42 am to
If you haven’t seen it yet, check out “The Social Dilemma” on Netflix. Interviews with a bunch of former tech industry insiders talking about how much it is destroying our society.

Most of them said they don’t allow their kids on social media at all now
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
11458 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 9:58 am to
Marking yourself "safe" has the same goal as all the idiots who post endless selfies everyday. They are people with low self esteem and are fishing for compliments, so that they can feel better about themselves.

Bill Engvall had a whole routine about "Here's your sign", implying stupid people should carry a sign letting everyone know up front. This is just an extension of that.
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
3815 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:02 am to
These parodies do amuse me.

Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62790 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:02 am to
Safe from what?
Posted by memphis tiger
Memphis, TN
Member since Feb 2006
20720 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:04 am to
Social media is a blight on civilization.

95% of the bullshite, turmoil and division in this country is a result of social media.
Posted by Demshoes
Up in here
Member since Aug 2015
10195 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:06 am to
I would just keep mine as DGAF about you or your friends, family, political views, or anything else.

If I was FB.
Posted by NoSaint
Member since Jun 2011
11281 posts
Posted on 10/11/20 at 10:16 am to
quote:

Is marking yourself safe on Facebook the height of narcissism?


On the narcissist scale It is right up there with assuming that anything that isn’t designed for your own specific wants is the height of narcissism

Plenty of situations I could see it’s a nice quick reference for folks you may not be super close with or if you have a fair number of folks curious and limited time/focus/charge. If there was a sudden event that hit your area it might be nice to check 30 people off the list for needing check ins

I’ve never personally used it but see how it could help someone else in or in a situation I’ve not yet been in since it started
This post was edited on 10/11/20 at 10:18 am
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