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re: Keeping my son from finding porn online
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:04 pm to NolaLovingClemsonFan
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:04 pm to NolaLovingClemsonFan
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girls booties -girls boobies -best one handed catches -girls private parts -dude perfect Lololololol. You can’t stop em, they’re boys.
It’s all fun and games until you hear a loud voice in your son’s bedroom saying, “Hey, ever heard of jerkmate?”
This post was edited on 1/26/24 at 2:12 pm
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Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:09 pm to Capital Cajun
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I once walked 5 miles and traversed a patch of woods on a rumor that there was a half a Playboy in a hollowed out tree. The boy is gonna find porn.
You wouldn't believe how many wrecks I almost got into while driving down a road at night and seeing a discarded magazine on the side of the road back in my day
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:10 pm to pelicanpride
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Keeping my son from finding porn online
You would have to lock him in a padded room baw... sorry... that's literally the only way.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:10 pm to pelicanpride
I've seen that stuff screw up some of my students. Full on addiction. If it becomes a problem, get him into counseling, pronto. People here will laugh it off. That shite causes psychological and physiological damage that can take years to overcome.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:12 pm to HarveyBanger
quote:the days of a rolled up nudie mag stuffed in a pipe in the woods... all the neighborhood kids knew about.
He will still find a way to watch porn if he wants to
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:13 pm to DeafJam73
quote:why is it bad? i need to know what to tell my 5yo in a few years
Parents need to make sure they talk to their kids about why it’s bad,
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:14 pm to pelicanpride
Bring him to a donkey show in Tijuana. That should scare him away from it for a while.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:22 pm to BPTiger
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Bring him to a donkey show in Tijuana
The thing about the donkey show is...it's actually a woman fricking a donkey.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:23 pm to pelicanpride
I am not aware of Texas having a law that requires true age verification yet (versus just asking and accepting response).
You have to activate screen time type restrictions on devices (or lock them down in whatever way they offer) and also use a service on your Wi-Fi to limit home network like AguardDNS or NextDNS that can be set to block porn sites and attempts to override them like with a VPN. You can usually add other sites to block. They can also be set to force safe searches with google or DuckDuckGo, but you have to block the search sites that don’t comply.
These are usually paid services, but having more granular control over settings is better than relying on a big tech or media company’s definition of adult content.
Wi-Fi dns setting on phones, tablets, and computers can be set to use restricted settings on home network, but they also usually aren’t able to be locked down. So main wifi has to be restricted. You can set up a bypass for yourself and wife. Specific streaming devices can be set to use an allowed bypass, but if you don’t monitor the bypass a kid will see settings and use them on his or her phone as long as that setting can’t be locked down.
Some can have profiles added to phones to apply DNS restrictions on a device level for cell networks and other wifi networks you don’t control, but I know for sure Apple doesn’t lock this down in regular set up. There may be ways to set up phones from the start like a company controlled phone that will locked them down better.
You have to review logs to see if something is getting thru that service hasn’t marked as porn or a by-pass method and manually block. You also check to see if anything on device like screen time restrictions hasn’t been hacked by kids which happens all the time. You then have to find fix online or wait for Apple or google or whoever to fix it.
It’s an ongoing process, and It’s never going to be 100% or even close. You can maybe just hope to contain it a little which sadly doesn’t happen at all with some kids. There is more weird crap out there every day, and big tech and porn seem to want to push gay stuff, trans chicks, scat, and cuckold stuff now, so trying to limit it is better than ignoring.
You have to activate screen time type restrictions on devices (or lock them down in whatever way they offer) and also use a service on your Wi-Fi to limit home network like AguardDNS or NextDNS that can be set to block porn sites and attempts to override them like with a VPN. You can usually add other sites to block. They can also be set to force safe searches with google or DuckDuckGo, but you have to block the search sites that don’t comply.
These are usually paid services, but having more granular control over settings is better than relying on a big tech or media company’s definition of adult content.
Wi-Fi dns setting on phones, tablets, and computers can be set to use restricted settings on home network, but they also usually aren’t able to be locked down. So main wifi has to be restricted. You can set up a bypass for yourself and wife. Specific streaming devices can be set to use an allowed bypass, but if you don’t monitor the bypass a kid will see settings and use them on his or her phone as long as that setting can’t be locked down.
Some can have profiles added to phones to apply DNS restrictions on a device level for cell networks and other wifi networks you don’t control, but I know for sure Apple doesn’t lock this down in regular set up. There may be ways to set up phones from the start like a company controlled phone that will locked them down better.
You have to review logs to see if something is getting thru that service hasn’t marked as porn or a by-pass method and manually block. You also check to see if anything on device like screen time restrictions hasn’t been hacked by kids which happens all the time. You then have to find fix online or wait for Apple or google or whoever to fix it.
It’s an ongoing process, and It’s never going to be 100% or even close. You can maybe just hope to contain it a little which sadly doesn’t happen at all with some kids. There is more weird crap out there every day, and big tech and porn seem to want to push gay stuff, trans chicks, scat, and cuckold stuff now, so trying to limit it is better than ignoring.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:26 pm to pelicanpride
Twitter and Reddit are chocked full of porn fyi
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:26 pm to pelicanpride
I was able to get my hands on porn at 12 and that was before the internet.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:27 pm to dallastigers
Just sit him in front of a computer and watch it with him. Tell he can watch it, but you or your wife has to be there. Explain to him what all of the different categories are and make him rank them.
Or, you can just have a father/son conversation with him and explain why you don't want him to watch that stuff and the negative effects that watching it has on men.
Or, you can just have a father/son conversation with him and explain why you don't want him to watch that stuff and the negative effects that watching it has on men.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:27 pm to CarRamrod
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why is it bad? i need to know what to tell my 5yo in a few years
viewing women as only sex objects and something to get off to for a temporary fit of boredom and horniness will shift his view of sex within healthy relationships for the rest of his life.
this was posted earlier.
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Old pornography was much more erotic and sexier. Now it’s just violent hatefricking where the women are treated like dogs.
my last bit of porn i saw was a while ago, but at that point it was way too violent with her backside and forceful and at the end a dude finished on a girl's face.
even in my most horniest, awful, sinful moment, i don't want to do that to any woman.
*****ADMIN: the below is extremely graphic and my apologies to the admin if it is. please feel free to delete it if i'm crossing a line****
one dude on here got roasted during the abortion debate that "he wanted his daughter to be able to get an abortion because some dude she sleeps with might want to creampie her because he saw it on a porn video."
i had no idea what that meant, but looked it up. and it's just freaking gross.
i'm not saying the porn of yesteryear was better, but there was a bit more charm and romanticism than the director saying, "OK he's going to violently sodomize you for a while and then after that you're immediately going to do oral on him and then he's going to whack it till it comes on your face. then you need to eat it and pretend like you like it."
i'm not saying i've watched that garbage, but i'm aware of the internet to know it exists. that's an awful view of sex to have on a young mind when it doesn't actually exist.
what's worse, is that guys are going to tell girls they want that sort of thing and then girls are going to allow that sort of thing because they think they need that to win the guy's approval.
This post was edited on 1/26/24 at 2:30 pm
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:31 pm to pelicanpride
Has Covenant Eyes been mentioned? Be accountable to each other. There’s no amount of blocking that’s going to prevent access to porn.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:35 pm to pelicanpride
Online porn may be the least of your worries.
My first exposure to porn was a Penthouse magazine that our little league baseball coach passed to us to look at in the dugout waiting to bat during practice. My first thought was 'why do these women have a bullet wound between their legs?'.
While at a friends house as a 7th grader his older sister, who was a senior , would walk from the bathroom to her bedroom buck naked. My friend was embarrassed and shouted at her to put some clothes on. Real bare naked tits are a strong magnetic draw to teen boys. His dad had stack of Playboys next to his chair in the living room.
But what I call the real danger is drugs and alcohol . There were groups of boys at our public school that would abuse these chemicals daily. This in my opinion is the Real Danger. This is the talk that needs to happen between parents and pre teens everywhere.
As humans we are wired for sex in order to keep the species going. The trick is being able to control and throttle that drive. Don't let it run your life. You should control it.
Final thought: the porn back before the internet is way different from today. I call today's porn Heavy Industrial Porn. (Just who is paying for all this crap anyway?)
My first exposure to porn was a Penthouse magazine that our little league baseball coach passed to us to look at in the dugout waiting to bat during practice. My first thought was 'why do these women have a bullet wound between their legs?'.
While at a friends house as a 7th grader his older sister, who was a senior , would walk from the bathroom to her bedroom buck naked. My friend was embarrassed and shouted at her to put some clothes on. Real bare naked tits are a strong magnetic draw to teen boys. His dad had stack of Playboys next to his chair in the living room.
But what I call the real danger is drugs and alcohol . There were groups of boys at our public school that would abuse these chemicals daily. This in my opinion is the Real Danger. This is the talk that needs to happen between parents and pre teens everywhere.
As humans we are wired for sex in order to keep the species going. The trick is being able to control and throttle that drive. Don't let it run your life. You should control it.
Final thought: the porn back before the internet is way different from today. I call today's porn Heavy Industrial Porn. (Just who is paying for all this crap anyway?)
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:37 pm to SantaFe
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Just who is paying for all this crap anyway?
I too am amazed there are people that still pay for porn when there are a billion videos on the internet for free
Posted on 1/26/24 at 2:54 pm to yellowfin
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I too am amazed there are people that still pay for porn when there are a billion videos on the internet for free
I have said that about all the onlyfans stuff. Why in the world would someone pay someone for that shite. Just how long are they watching?
Posted on 1/26/24 at 3:09 pm to LanierSpots
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I have said that about all the onlyfans stuff. Why in the world would someone pay someone for that shite. Just how long are they watching?
a former friend of mine got blackmailed for sexcaming with a brazilian chick who he paid money to but then she filmed him during their interactions.
his wife stayed with him for a bit (despite him having affairs as well) and when my wife told me about this, i said "there is absolutely ANYTHING you want to see on a porn site. why would you pay.
then quickly threw TD under the bus for telling me about such things.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 3:22 pm to pelicanpride
There are free DNS services you can use that will block porn, at least on your home network.
Just change your DNS settings on your networked devices to one of these services:
AdGuard DNS: 176.103.130.132, 176.103.130.134
Open DNS (by Cisco): 208.67.222.123, 208.67.220.123
CleanBrowsing: 185.228.168.9, 185.228.169.9
Now, this will block it for anyone with those assigned DNS settings. You also will have to restrict your son's ability to make changes on your devices network settings to turn that setting off.
Its a tough situation, it can be done, but it takes work and staying on top of it. Eventually though, he will see it somewhere, but if you can eliminate it at home, that does help.
Just change your DNS settings on your networked devices to one of these services:
AdGuard DNS: 176.103.130.132, 176.103.130.134
Open DNS (by Cisco): 208.67.222.123, 208.67.220.123
CleanBrowsing: 185.228.168.9, 185.228.169.9
Now, this will block it for anyone with those assigned DNS settings. You also will have to restrict your son's ability to make changes on your devices network settings to turn that setting off.
Its a tough situation, it can be done, but it takes work and staying on top of it. Eventually though, he will see it somewhere, but if you can eliminate it at home, that does help.
Posted on 1/26/24 at 3:35 pm to Master of Sinanju
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OP's child is 11. When it comes to porn, I think you absolutely helecopter at that age. If he's 16 or 17, you give him a talk, then it's "don't ask/don't tell".
By age 10 or 11, the majority of straight guys in the U.S. had already seen a internet video that had explicit sexual content. It’s been like that since the mid to late 2000s when accessibility to Internet porn sites started to get insanely easy. Young kids simply have to search terms in Google that aren’t sexually explicit but suggestive enough to generate search results that include pornographic sites.
This post was edited on 1/26/24 at 3:43 pm
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