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re: Just Came Across a Fellow Professional Who Discounted Greek Life in College

Posted on 11/3/16 at 12:00 pm to
Posted by lsu2006
BR
Member since Feb 2004
40148 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 12:00 pm to
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You want a brotherhood and lifelong bonds join the military and if you are lucky when you are 50-60 years old you will get to meet up with your buddy's at cemetery and hoist a drink to honor your brother that didn't make it.


Military people just can't help but make it about themselves, can they?
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 12:01 pm to
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My roommate freshman year dropped his bid because he refused to do the elephant walk

Sorry but most frats make you do gay shite to get in


, Yeah sure. It's more likely that your roommate dropped because he didn't get to do the elephant walk. He was probably really looking forward to that.

Sorry, but all your hopes and dreams about how terrible fraternities can be are just untrue. Some are douches, some are not. Some are preppy, some are country. Some couldn't change a tire and would use daddy's credit card, some can rebuild an engine. Some play golf, some hunt and fish. Pretty much hit all those type of people in the organization I was in. Same as you would any cross section. Yes, they tend to have more family money, but only reason to get pissy about that is jealousy.
Posted by WinnPtiger
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2011
25123 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 12:21 pm to
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Why do I bother to read these Frat threads? When I see the reference to "brotherhood and lifelong bonds" it is at the same time laughable and disgusting. You were in a college social club, you got drunk with your buddy's and banged a few coeds. If you are over 25 years old and still think that was some kind of life altering experience you really need to re-evaluate your life. You want a brotherhood and lifelong bonds join the military and if you are lucky when you are 50-60 years old you will get to meet up with your buddy's at cemetery and hoist a drink to honor your brother that didn't make it.



what a ringing endorsement
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87726 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 12:35 pm to
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What does this even mean? You're so ate up with it bro.



I'm implying that a dude trolling this thread (and trolling this board generally) is obsessed and would do homosexual things with a political candidate, and how ridiculous it is that his troll-self is nonetheless accusing others of engaging in homosexual things.

Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87726 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 12:37 pm to
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Why do I bother to read these Frat threads? When I see the reference to "brotherhood and lifelong bonds" it is at the same time laughable and disgusting. You were in a college social club, you got drunk with your buddy's and banged a few coeds. If you are over 25 years old and still think that was some kind of life altering experience you really need to re-evaluate your life. You want a brotherhood and lifelong bonds join the military and if you are lucky when you are 50-60 years old you will get to meet up with your buddy's at cemetery and hoist a drink to honor your brother that didn't make it.



I respect the military a lot, but to be fair, this sounds less enjoyable. Bunch of Marines in my fraternity too, they gayed out more than the rest of us FWIW
Posted by Cowboyfan89
Member since Sep 2015
13055 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 12:59 pm to
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Cost is purely based off of what you get out of it.


Uh, no. It's based on what they decide to charge. You don't get to say "I didn't get shite out of this, so I'm not paying for it".

I did all the same things that you would do in a frat for $15 a semester.

And we owned their frat boy asses in intramurals.

Wasn't talking about hazing either. Was talking about the drunk arse parties they would have all the time. Self-respect doesn't have you passed out on the lawn of your frat mansion at 3 AM.

Sorry I triggered you by saying I got as much out of college for a fraction of the cost.
Posted by lsu2006
BR
Member since Feb 2004
40148 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:00 pm to
You sound triggered fwiw
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86377 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:02 pm to
yeah, but you still went to McNeese. No one is arguing the McNeese Greek scene is worth a shite.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87726 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:05 pm to
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Uh, no. It's based on what they decide to charge. You don't get to say "I didn't get shite out of this, so I'm not paying for it".



People act like there is some secret cabal of assholes dictating how much it costs for everyone else.

Who the frick do you think makes the budget and decides what it gets spent on? Which, mind you, is another benefit of getting involved in a fraternity. Running a six figure social budget is pretty good experience.

I learned to lobby in greek life. Shaking hands and making backroom deals at 19-20 when trying to get a new sub zero fridge, tv, etc. It's great preparation for how to be an a-hole in the real world.
Posted by Cowboyfan89
Member since Sep 2015
13055 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:11 pm to
Trust me, I know. I'm not either. I think the greek system is overrated. You can have fun in college without being greek, and the networking benefits from all the brothers (or sisters, for sororities) don't exist everywhere or in every profession.

Fwiw, I had rushed one frat, decided it wasn't for me, and had the chance to jump on and found another one when it started on campus. Just wasn't for me. I was already friends with all the guys anyway.
Posted by Cowboyfan89
Member since Sep 2015
13055 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:12 pm to
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Who the frick do you think makes the budget and decides what it gets spent on? Which, mind you, is another benefit of getting involved in a fraternity. Running a six figure social budget is pretty good experience.


Did that in my first job out of college. Big deal.

This post was edited on 11/3/16 at 1:13 pm
Posted by pointdog33
Member since Jan 2012
2765 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:18 pm to
Bunch of dudes in cutoff jorts splashing each other....nothing gay at all about that.

Posted by ManBearTiger
BRLA
Member since Jun 2007
22670 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:20 pm to
Please accept my apology, I misunderstood your post
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87726 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:21 pm to
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Did that in my first job out of college. Big deal.



Uh, that's my point. It's good experience for a 20 or 21 year old, and they get to see the very practical outcomes of their decision making and face the scorn of their peers for frick ups. I'm not one of these "you have to go greek" people. Nor do I take it very seriously now.

But like most social establishments that persist for 150+ years, there are plenty of beneficial, healthy and constructive things you can get out of greek organizations.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72192 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:22 pm to
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I am a proud member of the Legion of Honor. What fraternity were you in?


I was a Sigma Nu too brah
Posted by ragincajun03
Member since Nov 2007
29826 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:26 pm to
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Had a coworker say something similar to our boss... our boss was the president of his fraternity. Needless to say my coworker didn't get the promotion he was supposed to get.


Sounds like your boss is too damn sensitive about trivial comments and might need his own safe space.
Posted by OSqueal
Member since Jan 2011
5996 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:27 pm to
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I am a proud member of the Legion of Honor. What fraternity were you in?



I'm a proud member of Veterans of Foreign Wars. Your fraternity is cute.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122522 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:27 pm to
This is what I think. If it is for you, then good for you. If it is not, then good for you.. There is no reason to judge someone based on whether or not they participated in Greek life.
Posted by UnderCoverHog
South Tangi
Member since May 2012
1680 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:30 pm to
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I always feel like the anti-frat crowd is way more passionate than the pro-frat crowd.


Isn't this the truth, I ran in to a multitude of GDI's that hated me simply because I was Greek and I truly didn't care about them one bit. It was borderline obsessive with a handful of them.
Posted by Cowboyfan89
Member since Sep 2015
13055 posts
Posted on 11/3/16 at 1:38 pm to
What is a "GDI"?
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