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Is Perfect Sex Possible? (Article)
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:00 pm
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:00 pm
Psychology Today Article
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I tell my clients if they have "Hollywood" sex once a month, they're beating 95% of American couples. Now a new model—"Good Enough Sex"—helps us diffuse misconceptions, and improve couples' overall experience.
It is intimidating to expect that anything other than "perfect" sexual performance—arousal, intercourse, and orgasm for the man, and orgasm, preferably during intercourse, for the woman—means there is something "wrong" with you or your relationship. By that definition, there is something sexually wrong with most men, women, and couples.
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Although the valued scenario is a mutual, synchronous experience, we know that fewer than 50% of all sexual encounters will achieve that goal. While 85% of sexual encounters are in fact positive for participants, most are still asynchronous; that is, better for one partner than the other. (For couples under 40, sex is typically better for the male; for couples over 60, it tends to be better for the female.)
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Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:02 pm to SlowFlowPro
I hate the way Hollywood glamorizes sex so much. The truth is it's a tedious necessity of adult life that no one really enjoys.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:02 pm to SlowFlowPro
That's why I laugh when guys say they get women off every single time.
She faked it bro.
She faked it bro.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:03 pm to SlowFlowPro
Even if it ain't "perfect" it's still pretty damn good.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:04 pm to Jcorye1
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That's why I laugh when guys say they get women off every single time.
She faked it bro.
There are some things you can't fake. Tangible evidence. My fave.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:05 pm to SlowFlowPro
I've never had sex that I would say is bad. As long as I get mine I'm happy. I did have to pass on a chick once. She smelt horrible.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:06 pm to SlowFlowPro
That sounds about right
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:06 pm to winston318
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I've never had sex that I would say is bad. As long as I get mine I'm happy. I did have to pass on a chick once. She smelt horrible.
Amateur.
You've gotta get in there and rub that scent all over your face. People won't frick with a man that smells like he just face fricked a shark.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:07 pm to Jcorye1
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That's why I laugh when guys say they get women off every single time.
It's not every time, but it's pretty close for my wife. I'd say we have mind blowing sex at least once every week or two.
I don't know how you describe "perfect sex." I don't think Hollywood sex is the way to do it. There are times where we can't really talk after and just lay there for a while because it was so intense. That's about as good as it gets IMO.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:08 pm to SlowFlowPro
As long as i get off its perfect
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:09 pm to winston318
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 2:17 pm
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:09 pm to fr33manator
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:09 pm to SlowFlowPro
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Although the valued scenario is a mutual, synchronous experience, we know that fewer than 50% of all sexual encounters will achieve that goal. While 85% of sexual encounters are in fact positive for participants, most are still asynchronous; that is, better for one partner than the other. (For couples under 40, sex is typically better for the male; for couples over 60, it tends to be better for the female.)
wtf? 50%? We must be having hollywood sex, cause I would say we both orgasm 75% of the time. And one of us orgasms 90%+ of the time (usually her).
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:10 pm to LNCHBOX
Put a Les Miles cutout in the corner that you can look at while you get at it ?
Make her wear a hat like his ?
Make her wear a hat like his ?
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:10 pm to SlowFlowPro
A lot of guys get their vision of sex from pornos
That's an automatic set up for disappointment
That's an automatic set up for disappointment
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:11 pm to LucasP
Sometimes I fake it.
Like if it's enough already and I just wanna get some sleep.
Like if it's enough already and I just wanna get some sleep.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:11 pm to Hawkeye95
quote:Yeah I refuse to let it rip until she goes
We must be having hollywood sex, cause I would say we both orgasm 75% of the time. And one of us orgasms 90%+ of the time (usually her).
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:12 pm to ForeverLSU02
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Yeah I refuse to let it rip until she goes
I orgasm when I orgasm, if its before her so be it. But most of the time its not.
frick boys, foreplay. get her worked up enough and she will orgasm after 30 seconds. Or mine does. I haven't had sex with a different woman since 1993.
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:12 pm to fr33manator
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:13 pm to SlowFlowPro
Women can have orgasms? This is news to me!
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