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Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:35 pm to
Posted by Jcorye1
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Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:35 pm to
Is it really that out there to think you can turn down sex?

I've done it before, and will do it again. Sometimes the baggage that comes with it isn't worth it. Also, sex just for sex's sake doesn't really satisfy me.
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
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Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:36 pm to
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It's just pee


Make it stop, please.
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:38 pm to
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I haven't had sex with a different woman since 1993.



This is the problem. I haven't been monogamous for quite that long, but it has been a while now (married several years). While we know exactly what each other likes and can be as efficient or drawn out as we need/want depending on the occasion and both get off every time and it's good and regular, if we are being honest there is no way it is as exciting as it was the first 100 times or so. So it's "perfect" in the sense defined in article, but being honest it isn't always as good as it was a few years ago. If you do ANYTHING 500+ times, it's going to start losing some appeal, sex with the same person included.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:39 pm to
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I hope to have that level of self control one day.

Serious question, if they were 23 years old and hot as shite, could you have said no then?

Probably. None of them were unattractive that is for sure.

And one is probably the single most attractive person I know. granted most of you wouldn't find her attractive, but to me she is 9.9/10. when she was leaving for the airport, she told me she loved me and hugged me for a LONG time (wiht no bra on). And she had it set up to have an hour or two before she needed to leave for her flight. Then another time, we got drunk at my hotel and there was a similar moment.

I might have been more tempted if she wasn't one of my wife's best friends.

eta: I feel confident that I could go out and get laid any night of the week. While I am not the hottest guy in the room, I am attractive enough. And I am really funny. Woman dig funny.
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 2:40 pm
Posted by fr33manator
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Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:39 pm to
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Make it stop, please.


He just can't make a woman squirt.


Posted by BamaScoop
Panama City Beach, Florida
Member since May 2007
56828 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:40 pm to
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I hate the way Hollywood glamorizes sex so much. The truth is it's a tedious necessity of adult life that no one really enjoys.



…and the closet door just opened. Speak for yourself there cowboy on not enjoying sex,
Posted by poochie
Houma, la
Member since Apr 2007
6765 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:40 pm to
Do people actually not get off/get your woman off during sex?
What's the point?

And if she's faking, she's faking multiple times...
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:41 pm to
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This is the problem. I haven't been monogamous for quite that long, but it has been a while now (married several years). While we know exactly what each other likes and can be as efficient or drawn out as we need/want depending on the occasion and both get off every time and it's good and regular, if we are being honest there is no way it is as exciting as it was the first 100 times or so. So it's "perfect" in the sense defined in article, but being honest it isn't always as good as it was a few years ago. If you do ANYTHING 500+ times, it's going to start losing some appeal, sex with the same person included.


I would say our sex just keeps getting better. Yeah, sometimes we get stuck in a rut. But its pretty easy to try something new.

eta: I have found for me going to nudist resorts with her gets us both really hot and horny.
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 2:42 pm
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:43 pm to
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I might have been more tempted if she wasn't one of my wife's best friends.

Man I wish my old lady had a bunch of desperate whores for friends. I can keep a secret.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135055 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:43 pm to
I have no problem getting them off (and I'm talking tangible evidence, none of this faking bullshite. It's the "we need to change the sheets" kind.) It's me. I can go way too long riding right on the cusp and never quite get there, especially if I've overindulged. Sometimes I'll get a cramp. Sometimes I'll try to fake it. Because it really is an ego blow to them if you don't get off, especially if they've gotten there more than once.


One of the pleasant discoveries of divorced life.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:46 pm to
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I have found for me going to nudist resorts with her gets us both really hot and horny.



Dude this thread was gross enough when people were talking about sex and fluids and stuff, then you have to bring up naked old people?
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
38452 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:46 pm to
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Is it really that out there to think you can turn down sex?


I just wonder if the people that say they are turning it down have good offers. Yea I can turn down a fat chick but when a hot 23 year old with a bubble butt wants the D its much harder to say no.
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 2:47 pm
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:47 pm to
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I just wonder if the people that say they are turning it down have good offers.


How old are you?
Posted by saint amant steve
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2008
5695 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:49 pm to
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That's why I laugh when guys say they get women off every single time.

She faked it bro.



Sorry you're a shitty lay, Bro.
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
26752 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:50 pm to
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Yea I can turn down a fat chick but when a hot 23 year old with a bubble butt wants the D its much harder to say no.


Agreed. If you get married and don't want to cheat, you have to stop these situations from happening before the opportunity presents itself. This can be done for the most part unless you are out looking for it.

Once the opportunity is right in front of you, it's going to be difficult to hit the brakes at that point.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:51 pm to
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I just wonder if the people that say they are turning it down have good offers. Yea I can turn down a fat chick but when a hot 23 year old with a bubble butt wants the D its much harder to say no.


well its never been a hot 23 year old. I don't really run in circles with hot 23 year olds. But all of the woman I have found attractive.

Just the cost of doing so, losing my wife, is much higher than one night of fun.
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
26752 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:52 pm to
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I have found for me going to nudist resorts with her gets us both really hot and horny.


Aren't these just full of old fat hippies (except you and yours of course)?
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:53 pm to
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Aren't these just full of old fat hippies (except you and yours of course)?


I mean, yeah, there are lots of them. I think its not the other people being naked that does it, I think its being naked with her that does it. I mean, if you were around your wife naked all day wouldn't you get get turned on?

eta: my wife is almost always the hottest female there. I am not the hottest male. Some of those gay men put a lot of time in the gym and love to show off their bodies.
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 2:55 pm
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80844 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:54 pm to
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The truth is it's a tedious necessity of adult life that no one really enjoys.


Maybe in your sad pathetic existence. I love sex.
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
38452 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 2:55 pm to
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so, losing my wife, is much higher than one night of fun.
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