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re: Is mid 40s too old to have another kid?

Posted on 1/16/19 at 4:46 am to
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
9007 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 4:46 am to
I’m in the same boat at you bro. Got a 9 year old and. 9 month old. Harder than when I was 30 but maybe I just drank all those memories away.
Posted by habz007
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2007
5015 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 4:54 am to
I’m “only” 37. Just had my 4th kid in 2018. 2 girls followed by 1 boy and now a new baby girl. I wouldn’t change anything, but at this point , I’m all the way done . I’m 100% positive. No regrets , but I do not EVER want to go through this again. Especially in my forties.

Best of luck if you choose to, but I personally plan to take corrective action to specifically prevent that or any more...
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42714 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:31 am to
Mildly Trashy but intelligent. Congrats on the good decision making, especially on your part
Posted by birdieman
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2012
1647 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:42 am to
I'm 45, have a 3 year old and my wife (30) wants another. I can't imagine depriving her that but man itll be tough to start over with diapers and terrible 2's etc.
Posted by Dawgholio
Bugtussle
Member since Oct 2015
13047 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:44 am to
Yes. You are too damn old. Don’t do it.
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:46 am to
I had my last kid at 43.
I mostly don’t regret it.

My dad had me at 43.
We had a lot of fun together.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68603 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:52 am to
Nikki Sixx is 60 and his 15 yr old bride is preggoes
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2005
17242 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:56 am to
Honestly it really depends on what your health and activity level is. There are plenty of people in their mid-40s that are healthier and more active than those in their mid-20s.
Posted by CunningLinguist
Dallas, TX
Member since Mar 2006
19252 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:58 am to
Every one is different. I was almost 35 when our second kid was born. I don’t think I’d have the energy to do the lack of sleep thing again. It was a big part of why we stopped at 2. I know first time parents in their late 30s and they would say it is worth it. If you or your wife really want a kid, the trade offs are worth it.
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
14458 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:00 am to
My dad was 45. No prob
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
26441 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:04 am to
Had my first one at 41 and second one at 44. I just need to get into shape to keep up with these little turds.
Posted by LeroyBrown
South Side Of Chicago
Member since Jul 2017
588 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:11 am to
I would not intentionally do it. My last one is 16, I am in my early 50s. Looking forward to all of them be adults, legally speaking.
Posted by TakeAGander
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
584 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:15 am to
My youngest is 6 months, and I’m 43. No it’s not to old. I think it’s more of an adjustment to my lifestyle than it is to me physically. If you and your wife are open to it, go for it.
Posted by TopFlightSecurity
Watertown, NY
Member since Dec 2018
1318 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:17 am to
Props to the old dudes cranking out kids.

I'm 37 can't imagine going back to the sleepless nights, diapers etc.
Posted by phutureisyic
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2016
3618 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:23 am to
I think it's a great thing to have a kid at any older age. You're more established and financially set to give him/her a great life. I'm 41 with a 16 yr old and I couldn't imagine having one at this age. But I've been a single dad for 15 yrs now and having the best times with my son.
Posted by Choctaw
Pumpin' Sunshine
Member since Jul 2007
77774 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:28 am to
I'm about to be 44 and will have my first in April
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
102347 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:33 am to
quote:

Please don't ruin his best years because his dad is fighting cancer.



What the frick is wrong with you?
Posted by Polycarp
Texas
Member since Feb 2009
5757 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:36 am to
Yes for sure, you will be doing the Danny Glover in Lethal Weapon when you get to be my age. I don’t regret it, but it’s not gonna be a party
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
45301 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:36 am to
Can you do it, sure. It will bring you loads of happiness. Should you, not imho. The fact that you are asking opinions here suggests to me that your heart isn't in it. I fell kids are tons of work, worth it it...yes, but tons of work. It sounds as though your wife wants kids and you are unsure. I guess this is one way to explore. Good luck.
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
31030 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:38 am to
quote:

Props to the old dudes cranking out kids.

I'm 37 can't imagine going back to the sleepless nights, diapers etc.


I’m your age and I have a 7 month old. The nights were not bad at all. But I can fall back asleep fast. He is already sleeping through the night. Trying for another one now. Glad to see there are older dads here too. Kids are awesome. For me it gives meaning to life.
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