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Posted on 1/16/19 at 4:54 am to AMac
I’m “only” 37. Just had my 4th kid in 2018. 2 girls followed by 1 boy and now a new baby girl. I wouldn’t change anything, but at this point , I’m all the way done . I’m 100% positive. No regrets , but I do not EVER want to go through this again. Especially in my forties.
Best of luck if you choose to, but I personally plan to take corrective action to specifically prevent that or any more...
Best of luck if you choose to, but I personally plan to take corrective action to specifically prevent that or any more...
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:31 am to Lithium
Mildly Trashy but intelligent. Congrats on the good decision making, especially on your part
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:42 am to Oilfieldbiology
I'm 45, have a 3 year old and my wife (30) wants another. I can't imagine depriving her that but man itll be tough to start over with diapers and terrible 2's etc.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:44 am to AMac
Yes. You are too damn old. Don’t do it.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:46 am to AMac
I had my last kid at 43.
I mostly don’t regret it.
My dad had me at 43.
We had a lot of fun together.
I mostly don’t regret it.
My dad had me at 43.
We had a lot of fun together.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:52 am to AMac
Nikki Sixx is 60 and his 15 yr old bride is preggoes
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:56 am to AMac
Honestly it really depends on what your health and activity level is. There are plenty of people in their mid-40s that are healthier and more active than those in their mid-20s.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 5:58 am to AMac
Every one is different. I was almost 35 when our second kid was born. I don’t think I’d have the energy to do the lack of sleep thing again. It was a big part of why we stopped at 2. I know first time parents in their late 30s and they would say it is worth it. If you or your wife really want a kid, the trade offs are worth it.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:04 am to Tigerbait357
Had my first one at 41 and second one at 44. I just need to get into shape to keep up with these little turds.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:11 am to tigerbutt
I would not intentionally do it. My last one is 16, I am in my early 50s. Looking forward to all of them be adults, legally speaking.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:15 am to AMac
My youngest is 6 months, and I’m 43. No it’s not to old. I think it’s more of an adjustment to my lifestyle than it is to me physically. If you and your wife are open to it, go for it.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:17 am to TakeAGander
Props to the old dudes cranking out kids.
I'm 37 can't imagine going back to the sleepless nights, diapers etc.
I'm 37 can't imagine going back to the sleepless nights, diapers etc.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:23 am to AMac
I think it's a great thing to have a kid at any older age. You're more established and financially set to give him/her a great life. I'm 41 with a 16 yr old and I couldn't imagine having one at this age. But I've been a single dad for 15 yrs now and having the best times with my son.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:28 am to AMac
I'm about to be 44 and will have my first in April
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:33 am to Chuker
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Please don't ruin his best years because his dad is fighting cancer.
What the frick is wrong with you?
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:36 am to AMac
Yes for sure, you will be doing the Danny Glover in Lethal Weapon when you get to be my age. I don’t regret it, but it’s not gonna be a party
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:36 am to AMac
Can you do it, sure. It will bring you loads of happiness. Should you, not imho. The fact that you are asking opinions here suggests to me that your heart isn't in it. I fell kids are tons of work, worth it it...yes, but tons of work. It sounds as though your wife wants kids and you are unsure. I guess this is one way to explore. Good luck.
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:38 am to TopFlightSecurity
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Props to the old dudes cranking out kids.
I'm 37 can't imagine going back to the sleepless nights, diapers etc.
I’m your age and I have a 7 month old. The nights were not bad at all. But I can fall back asleep fast. He is already sleeping through the night. Trying for another one now. Glad to see there are older dads here too. Kids are awesome. For me it gives meaning to life.
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