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re: Is it acceptable to invite someone to a party you are not hosting?

Posted on 2/11/24 at 11:52 am to
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 11:52 am to
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Is it acceptable to invite someone to a party you are not hosting?


no, not unless its an outdoor gathering with a lot of people and not just close friends.

and you still have to ask at least a few days in advance, not hours before you go. and its a question they really cant say no to, so you dont want to put them in that position or YOU wont be asked back to their SB party ever again.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 11:54 am to
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The guy is okay, but he’s a cop

Pass. It's a trap.

Posted by jbird7
Central FL
Member since Jul 2020
5606 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 11:54 am to
You are.

I’m sure if she was hosting a party she wouldn’t want her guests bringing random people with them. That’s rude.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 11:56 am to
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Yeah my wife wasn’t saying to bring them uninvited but she wanted me to ask the hosts if these other people could come basically(sorry for the confusion). To me that was weird and rude because now you’re putting them in a spot where they’ll probably say yes to not be dickheads but now people they don’t know are coming over to their house. It just seemed too weird to me



I agree. I would not even ask because I wouldn't want to put the hosts in this awkward situation. It's simply rude more than it is weird. I'd be too embarrassed to even think of asking.

What if your wife is not the only rude person asking to bring other guests? The hosts likely have planned food etc... for the number of folks who accepted the invitation to come. Your wife must know it's not proper or she wouldn't be asking you to do the dirty work.
Posted by farad
Member since Dec 2013
12500 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:06 pm to
as long as she tells them to bring drugs, alcohol and food for 30 it would probably be ok...
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
77240 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:11 pm to
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Their party, their guests. Don’t even ask. Asking infers you have an expectation that it might be acceptable.


Implies*
Posted by SloaneRanger
Upper Hurstville
Member since Jan 2014
13777 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:16 pm to
Guests of guests may not invite guests.
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
58182 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:17 pm to
It's rude.
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
13973 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:20 pm to
You put the host on the spot by asking. Whole thing is wierd.
Posted by Billy Blanks
Member since Dec 2021
5088 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:21 pm to
We stayed staying in and just taking in the game with my family. Best decision we've ever made really. Way more enjoyable. Same for NYE.
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
61475 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:22 pm to
You could maybe grow a pair and ask the hosts if it’s cool….
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
22302 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:24 pm to
That’s rude AF
Posted by jbird7
Central FL
Member since Jul 2020
5606 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 12:45 pm to
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You could maybe grow a pair and ask the hosts if it’s cool….


It’s a Super Bowl party, not a faggie orgy.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
18523 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 1:07 pm to
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You could maybe grow a pair and ask the hosts if it’s cool….
that’s putting them in. Spot where they might feel rude to say no so that’s not very nice of me
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
73608 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 1:09 pm to
As long as you clear it with the host first, then it’s fine. To invite someone to a party you’re not hosting without clearing it with the host, is rude.
Posted by Hopeful Doc
Member since Sep 2010
15388 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 1:18 pm to
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Why doesn’t she just check with the hosts first?


Why are you suggesting they act like adults instead of being petulant and posting online about it instead?
Posted by novabill
Crossville, TN
Member since Sep 2005
10796 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 1:33 pm to
She and her friend already talked about it.
She is mad because she told her friend she could get an invite for them.

IMHO
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
61475 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 1:52 pm to
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that’s putting them in. Spot where they might feel rude to say no so that’s not very nice of me


Oh no! They might say no to something!?!?! The HORROR!!!!
Posted by This GUN for HIRE
Member since May 2022
6070 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 1:53 pm to
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She and her friend already talked about it.


Yep, which is what most women do, instead of discussing with their husband first, as God intended.

Now she's pissed off she can't come thru for her free loading friend.

Women are singlehandedly the down fall of our society.

Hopefully this is not the norm for your wife. If it is, you've got bigger problems. Good luck.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
6810 posts
Posted on 2/11/24 at 2:01 pm to
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Is it acceptable to invite someone to a party you are not hosting?


Sure if you are ok with being trashy/tacky...
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