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re: Is a secksless marriage reason enough for divorce?

Posted on 3/9/26 at 9:07 am to
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
26313 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 9:07 am to
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Having been with several women, I can tell you this isn't true for many women. Some are wired for it and love it and some aren't. It depends a great deal on what happened in their youth and how they were raised.


It’s probably true for some women. Having been with a good many myself, talked with my own wife about it, having her relay the experiences some of her friends say they have…it could be that some, maybe many, married men don’t make time to ensure their spouse enjoys it too. They poke her for 5-10 minutes ( at best) and that’s that. No woman is gonna enjoy that all the time. Takes them longer, requires more, etc. jmho
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
79843 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 9:25 am to
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They poke her for 5-10 minutes ( at best) and that’s that. No woman is gonna enjoy that all the time
Agreed.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
25777 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 11:11 am to
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When my wife was going through perimenopause, I was jerking it a lot


You are on the other side, so not really directed towards you.

Building off the communicating, it a hard subject for men to have with their wives, but you need to lead them down the path to talk to their doctor about HRT.

There are a ton of options for women to keep their levels optimal, they have to commit to understanding and accepting they need help. It is a touchy subject for hormonal people
This post was edited on 3/9/26 at 12:41 pm
Posted by TopWaterTiger
Lake Charles, LA
Member since May 2006
12363 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 11:16 am to
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When my wife was going through perimenopause, I was jerking it a lot


You are on the other side, so not really directed towards you.

Building off the communicating, it a hard subject for men to have with their wives, but you need to lead them down the path to talk to their doctor about HRT.

Their are a ton of options for women to keep their levels optimal, they have to commit to understanding and accepting they need help. It is a touchy subject for hormonal people


Yep....perimenopause sucks. I can see why so many men got labeled "mid-life" crisis for leaving wives around this age.

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It is a touchy subject for hormonal people


I'm here now.... wife has agreed she needs it, but hasn't done shite aboute it yet.
Posted by Don Quixote
Member since May 2023
4965 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 11:34 am to
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I'm here now.... wife has agreed she needs it, but hasn't done shite aboute it yet.


from my own experience: when she does you'd better strap in and hang on, it's gonna get wild

we started off as a test by giving her microdoses of the testcyp I take and then she got her own presecription
This post was edited on 3/9/26 at 11:46 am
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
25777 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 1:38 pm to
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I'm here now.... wife has agreed she needs it, but hasn't done shite aboute it yet.


My wife got on voluntarily in her late 30s without even asking me. BC pills were keeping her down, so her and her doctor did TRT pellets to offset that.

Was a nice surprise, I did not ask for.

When she came off BC, after I got the evil snip, she decided she wanted to get off TRT. Now that she is in late 40s, I had to have that conversation with her, you did it before and let us do it again.

She got pissed, but I am like, you did it before when another guy suggested it .
Posted by boxcarbarney
Above all things, be a man
Member since Jul 2007
26634 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 1:47 pm to
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. Talk to her Ex's,


Should we get her to submit a resume with references?
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
37942 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 2:00 pm to
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Women who are fricked properly like sec as much as men. Don’t feel sorry for men who don’t know how to frick or treat their wives.


thats not even close to true and especially true if they have to get on certain medicines. known plenty that went from loving sex to nothing once they had to get on certain medicines

luckily baws....they make pt-141 Bremelanotide that if the old lady gets a script for will have her chasing you around the house. Specifically designed to help womens libido. works on men too, maybe a little too well.

so if you are struggling...get your old lady to ask about it. but be careful one poster on the H&F board said his friends wife got on it and ended up cheating on him cause he couldnt keep up.
Posted by loogaroo
Welsh
Member since Dec 2005
42022 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 2:03 pm to
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they make pt-141 Bremelanotide


The nasal spray or shot?
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
37942 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 2:05 pm to
sub q shot is the prescription. you can get it as a nasal spray just not from pharmacy and not sure how good that works or not.
Posted by dhuck20
SCLSU Fan
Member since Oct 2012
23208 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 4:23 pm to
I got a relatively healthy sex life but you baws got me ready to get some TRT for the wife
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
36423 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 4:35 pm to
Gotta wonder how some of yall would feel if your wives got breast cancer and were butchered and had to go on aromatase inhibitors and couldn’t take hormones.

I’ve heard some stories from the women’s side for sure.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
25777 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 5:45 pm to
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pt-141 Bremelanotide


It is not cheap




https://shamelesscare.com/
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
25777 posts
Posted on 3/9/26 at 5:48 pm to
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Gotta wonder how some of yall would feel if your wives got breast cancer


There is always that one fricker, trying to get us in sexless marriages



frick off arse hole!!!!
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
37942 posts
Posted on 3/10/26 at 7:25 am to
its not expensive on the gray market
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
34145 posts
Posted on 3/10/26 at 7:31 am to
for the women on TRT and/or estrogen, is that something you're on for life? If you just do estrogen or Progesterone can that help libido without TRT?
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
37942 posts
Posted on 3/10/26 at 7:36 am to
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for the women on TRT and/or estrogen, is that something you're on for life? If you just do estrogen or Progesterone can that help libido without TRT?



usually if a women is on it, its for life because they are peri-menopausal and do not produce any. they need so little though they can do the cream no problem
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
11132 posts
Posted on 3/10/26 at 7:40 am to
I do not understand why people are worried about being on TRT for life.

You can administer it subq. There are diabetics giving themselves subq injections daily.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39521 posts
Posted on 3/10/26 at 7:42 am to
Where did you copy and paste that from?
Posted by BOHICAMAN
Member since Feb 2026
1159 posts
Posted on 3/10/26 at 7:43 am to
Just cheat on her like a normal person
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