re: Is a secksless marriage reason enough for divorce?

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You sound pent up. How long has it been man?

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Why defect from your childish behavior??

No but if there’s no physical debilitating reason for lack thereof, I believe it can be sinful…

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I've also known of a couple friends who had issues with pellet insertion where the site was irritated for quite a while afterward and ultimately switched to injections.

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Wife did pellets for a few years, but really hated the process. Some pellets would be no issue and others would just hurt. The TRT was to help her while on birth control, but once she got off that, she really started hating the pellets and got off.

She is at the point a couple years later to entertaining TRT again now in her late 40s. She is going to try testosterone troches, which is a daily pill that dissolves in the mouth. Her T level came in at 10 ng/dL this week, my last one was at 930

Doctor wants her to hover around 100. 10x increase

That took a set of balls to post that, and to fix the problem.

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I know its suppose to be till death and whatnot but I can't help but feel sorry for some baws who say they get it once a year or some shite like that.

Assuming you're not old as hell and still have some frick left in you, 5,10,20 years of basically not utilizing a major part of your body and soul seems insane.

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most of the time the sackless marriage is caused by 1 of 5 things or a combo of the below in my expierence

1) guy lets himself go and looks like this, the women doesnt want to frick

2) women lets herself go and has zero confidence, takes it out on him

3) guy treats the women like shite( this is actually less common because most women for some reason like being treated like shite)

4) medical issue that causes the women to be on medicine which absolutely kills libido. Or could be got fat and is on a GLP1 that kills the libido. Common with women after having children to develop an auto-immune and many times the class of medicine they have to take absolutely destroys libido

5) most common 1 I see, especially in women after 35....they have fricked up hormones. I would say 75% of the time...this is the fricking issue, especially if they have had multiple kids and are 40ish...almost always...Testosterone test as non detectable. thats the reason many women that age are moody bitches too. they need testosterone too




as far as answering the question....its real simple in my house, I signed up to be Monogamy, I did not sign up for Celibacy. Its as simple as that. imo any less than 2x per month at any age short of 75 qualifies as Celibacy. its not that difficult to have sex at a minimum once per week assuming 1 person in the relationship wants it more than that

so solution most of the time is pretty simple, both of the fat fricks need to get their asses in the gym, get on TRT, start looking good for each other, get those hormones optimal and start treating each other well.

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Women who are fricked properly like sec as much as men. Don’t feel sorry for men who don’t know how to frick or treat their wives.

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not even close to true and shows how little you understand hormones. if hormones in the women are optimized like they are teen and early 20s sure. but thats bullshite otherwise

now i do agree many men, especially married men suck arse in pleasing their partners but you can make her cum every single time you frick and if hormones are not there...she still is not going to have a real libido.

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Assuming you're not old as hell and still have some frick left in you,

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Finally… a fellow student of the “Queen’s English”

Strange how sexless marriages are common (if not the norm), but sexless engagements are non-existent

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Thank you for saying this. It's hard to explain how much women feel like completely different people in their late 40's and how important it is to balance hormones. Some of y'all need to know what it feels like to have your testosterone come back as a whopping 3. Hint, a cardboard box has more energy. It is the most amazing feeling to just feel normal again.

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yep....so best way to show that to your husband is put it in your mouth then PiYB

joking...kind of. but yes, imo, female hormones are the #1 reason sex stops and #1 reason for divorce in the 40-55 range.

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I can put up with a lot of BS if I'm getting it regularly

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We men are dumb, simple creatures.