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re: In need of prayers
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:44 am to RandySavage
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:44 am to RandySavage
RandySavage -
You are starting this from the right mindset. You are not a victim but you have to be willing to turn 180 degrees from your prior self. Everything about your character will not come into question - and it should.
Do not react in anger but be repeatedly apologetic and speak the entire truth from day one.
It’s the only path to restoration and healing. Don’t let little bits of truth come out over the next 5 years - no one will trust you and your kids will hate you.
I will be happy to pray for you.
You are starting this from the right mindset. You are not a victim but you have to be willing to turn 180 degrees from your prior self. Everything about your character will not come into question - and it should.
Do not react in anger but be repeatedly apologetic and speak the entire truth from day one.
It’s the only path to restoration and healing. Don’t let little bits of truth come out over the next 5 years - no one will trust you and your kids will hate you.
I will be happy to pray for you.
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Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:45 am to stout
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He's not doing this for them. This is still all about him and how he feels. Even telling his wife to relieve his conscious was about him and not his wife and kids.
And posting on a couple TD boards seems to show a theme here.
Still, how did this affect your job?
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:46 am to DaBeerz
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It is never too late for forgiveness
You'll never get forgiveness. You might get some tolerance but you will constantly be on edge.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:47 am to RandySavage
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with one of her good friends
Apparently not.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:49 am to RandySavage
Give Jesus a try
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:49 am to RandySavage
So Randy, walk us through how and what happened so we can better serve you.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:50 am to jpainter6174
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Why?
I'd think if this is real, he's fricking someone at the office and it has come out. HR will be involved.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:52 am to RandySavage
Well you broke the trust your wife had for you. Unfortunately there’s no way it will ever be fully regained. Your wife may forgive you but she’ll never forget. Hopefully y’all can manage this reconciliation in the best manner for the kids. Your marriage will never be the same but hopefully it continues and with no further damage being caused by you.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:52 am to RandySavage
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Also we never had sex
That's not an affair is it?
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:52 am to RandySavage
Praying for your wife and kids that you will earn their forgiveness and to help them with strength to guide them through this and for you for wisdom and understanding.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:53 am to RogerTheShrubber
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You'll never get forgiveness. You might get some tolerance but you will constantly be on edge.
Wrong forgiver. Forgive himself and let God forgive him. We cannot control others actions and feelings, only our own.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:54 am to RandySavage
So did you ruin everyone's vacation??? Last sentence is mildly ironic as well.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:54 am to RandySavage
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guess that was a boundary i felt if i didn't cross it made it not so bad somehow
This seems right
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:55 am to RandySavage
I always thought you came off as a complete pos, and here you are.
My brothers wife cheated on him, blew up his and their 3 boys’ lives.
He got the happy ending though, as he’s already remarried to an amazing new woman while she continues to spiral dating the loser she had an affair with.
Praying for your wife and kids.
My brothers wife cheated on him, blew up his and their 3 boys’ lives.
He got the happy ending though, as he’s already remarried to an amazing new woman while she continues to spiral dating the loser she had an affair with.
Praying for your wife and kids.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:55 am to WhoGeaux
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Well you broke the trust your wife had for you. Unfortunately there’s no way it will ever be fully regained. Your wife may forgive you but she’ll never forget.
Correct.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:56 am to RandySavage
quote:News?
Oddly enough affirmation that i was a good person, all while doing an incomprehensibly terrible thing
Not hardly.
We’ve been telling Aubies they were odd and did goofy things (like needing four mascots?) here for years.
Thanks for validating what we all already knew.
Seriously, you fricked around (albeit only conceptually) and now you fount out brah.
The odds are less than 50/50 your marriage survives and if it does, it’ll be a different relationship going forward for the duration.
Our lives turn on decisions, you chose poorly. Why should she ever trust you going forward.
Good luck (seriously) with convincing her that you have changed.
This post was edited on 7/3/23 at 7:57 am
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:56 am to RandySavage
To recap…
old gal was cool with the affair
lasted 8 months
had zero sex
you told your spouse, but were not caught
gonna lose your job over it as well
old gal was cool with the affair
lasted 8 months
had zero sex
you told your spouse, but were not caught
gonna lose your job over it as well
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:57 am to thelawnwranglers
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quote:
Also we never had sex
That's not an affair is it?
Yeah, I’m so fricking confused.
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:58 am to RIPMachoMan
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RandySavage
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RIPMachoMan
Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:59 am to RandySavage
My man, you are a legend
This post was edited on 7/3/23 at 8:00 am
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