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re: I'm Going To Break A Girl's Heart Tonight
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:15 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:15 pm to lsuwontonwrap
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Be that as it may...he won't get it back. I doubt OP would bother taking her to court.
He should let her sell the ring as payment for wasting her youthful years on him. Now her pool to pick from is much smaller than it would have been if he had ended things earlier.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:15 pm to CocomoLSU
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To be fair, I've experienced a LOT of shite over the years that have been extraordinary wastes of time.
me, too...but not one of them has been a 10 year relationships
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This thread, for example.
ha...getting me thru the afternoon
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:15 pm to LSUBoo
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So is this one big troll thread?
It appears so.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:18 pm to Indfanfromcol
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She has to give him the ring back, or equal value monetary wise I believe?
Only way it is fair to keep the ring is if she has paid money towards deposits for the wedding.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:19 pm to HoustonChick86
How does it appear that way? Bc he hasn't posted again?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:20 pm to TxTiger82
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Its not a waste of time. How can experience be a waste? I'm sure they had some great times together. But those times have clearly past now.
I really don't understand this kind of mentality. Suggesting that the past is a waste indicates that you don't know how to live in the present.
I'm telling you how she will look at it. She spent 10 years basically building a life with this guy. Being that they were engaged that means she planed on starting a family with this guy, be that just them or with kids. Now he's walking away and leaving her with nothing. Sure you can try to talk to her about "experience" and "memories" but I'd bet my last dollar that this woman in her mid-30's who's now having to start over from scratch will look back and be pissed off about how she wasted all those years on him and now has nothing to show for it.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:20 pm to Dr. Shultz
obvivously
why wouldn't he follow up?
why wouldn't he follow up?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:20 pm to LuckyTiger
If you're not trolling then you wasted 10 years of this girls life. You should have figured it out sooner.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:20 pm to LuckyTiger
If you're sure, do it respectively and don't waver.
And by waver, I mean being available to her after the break-up.
And by waver, I mean being available to her after the break-up.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:21 pm to HoustonChick86
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Only way it is fair to keep the ring is if she has paid money towards deposits for the wedding.
That was just his case study in law school this year
If OP is anywhere near true, he should let her pawn it. If it was a valuable ring, she can get a boob job to get her looking 10 years younger (the amount of time she wasted on him).
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:21 pm to CocomoLSU
I was just going to read the responses and remain silent but there seems to be a lot of people assuming I didn't want to marry her when I became engaged to her. Of course i wanted to marry her when I became engaged to her.
Sometimes people get engaged but it doesn't work out just like sometimes people get married and it doesn't work out.
I realize the age range of posters can be 12-75. Hopefully this clears up all those "why did you get engaged if you didn't want to get married" responses.
Sometimes people get engaged but it doesn't work out just like sometimes people get married and it doesn't work out.
I realize the age range of posters can be 12-75. Hopefully this clears up all those "why did you get engaged if you didn't want to get married" responses.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:21 pm to Darth_Vader
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has nothing to show for it.
except a ring that she is going to probably keep
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:21 pm to Darth_Vader
On the Op's side, I can't help but think that after ten years and no wedding, the news that he doesn't want to marry her can't be that big of shock.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:22 pm to LuckyTiger
Well, umm, damn. Good luck and God speed.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:22 pm to LuckyTiger
so what changed your mind?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:22 pm to LuckyTiger
If you didn't want to marry her, why did you ask?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:23 pm to LuckyTiger
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I was just going to read the responses and remain silent but there seems to be a lot of people assuming I didn't want to marry her when I became engaged to her. Of course i wanted to marry her when I became engaged to her.
Sometimes people get engaged but it doesn't work out just like sometimes people get married and it doesn't work out.
I realize the age range of posters can be 12-75. Hopefully this clears up all those "why did you get engaged if you didn't want to get married" responses
SabiDojo: 1
O-T: 0
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:23 pm to LuckyTiger
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10-year relationship
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Engaged
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married
quote:lol
have a baby
all cringe-worthy social norms - be glad youre getting out now OP.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 2:23 pm to LuckyTiger
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I was just going to read the responses and remain silent but there seems to be a lot of people assuming I didn't want to marry her when I became engaged to her. Of course i wanted to marry her when I became engaged to her.
Sometimes people get engaged but it doesn't work out just like sometimes people get married and it doesn't work out.
I realize the age range of posters can be 12-75. Hopefully this clears up all those "why did you get engaged if you didn't want to get married" responses.
Fantastic use of a response now that the thread had slowed down and died a bit.
What is it about her that makes you not want to be married to her? Clearly there is a lot about her that you like, yet what changed (if you know what it was) that caused you to choose to break things off?
Also, how long have you been engaged?
This post was edited on 11/12/14 at 2:24 pm
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