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I Took My White Husband's Last Name. I Didn't Realize It Would Affect The Rest Of My Life.

Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:53 pm
Posted by Jimmy2shoes
The South
Member since Mar 2014
11004 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:53 pm
This poor girl has some problems

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Growing up with the surname Shiozawa in a predominantly white community, I was “the Asian girl” wherever I went — sports, church, class, work. But I’ll never forget the first day of Algebra 2, when Haley Miyatake sat beside me, and we made eye contact. I felt a rush of relief with someone who, without a single word exchanged, understood my world.

White people like to comment on my eye shape, tugging at the corners of their own, critiquing mine as “not almond,” acting as self-appointed gatekeepers to my claim to Asian-ness. Others accuse me of mounting an attack on white people if I broach the subject of race. That I’m being oversensitive, choosing to be offended, or creating issues out of nothing. Or they ignore my experience altogether because they “don’t see color.”

A few years into my marriage, even my husband described me as being “raised white.” You know, yellow on the outside, white on the inside, like a banana. 


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Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113976 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:56 pm to
Like a banana..

That's pretty funny.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48621 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:57 pm to
Everyone loves to be a victim these days. It's so sad.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124349 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:57 pm to
Pretty sure that the only people that hate orientals nowadays are you know who
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32561 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:57 pm to
quote:

White people like to comment on my eye shape, tugging at the corners of their own, critiquing mine as “not almond,”


Is she still in elementary school? If not, everything she wrote is made up.
Posted by O P Walker
Birmingham
Member since Oct 2018
473 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:58 pm to
Imagine being married to that bat shite loon? Christ..
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90717 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:58 pm to
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yellow on the outside, white on the inside, like a banana.




I’m stealing this
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48621 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:58 pm to
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Is she still in elementary school? If not, everything she wrote is made up.

People are still putting pee in her coke
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
12529 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 4:58 pm to
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You know, yellow on the outside, white on the inside, like a banana.
Im pretty sure that’s stolen from King of the Hill.
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9704 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:06 pm to
I like bananas
Posted by upgrayedd
Lifting at Tobin's house
Member since Mar 2013
134865 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:07 pm to
It always cracks me up to see how Asians get to go back and forth between being "white adjacent" and "people of color"
Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
7865 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:08 pm to
She's a clear mental basket, in any case.
Posted by dakarx
Member since Sep 2018
6851 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:08 pm to
quote:

yellow on the outside, white on the inside, like a banana


Was in the movie Crazy Rich Asians, my wife wears it like badge of honor.
Posted by Pandy Fackler
Member since Jun 2018
14183 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:09 pm to
That's a whole lotta shite she made up.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
21262 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:10 pm to
Asians really have a hard life being smarter and wealthier than us white and black people.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
150773 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:12 pm to
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White people like to comment on my eye shape, tugging at the corners of their own, critiquing mine as “not almond,”

No, no they don’t. Not at all.
This post was edited on 4/22/22 at 5:12 pm
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15520 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:13 pm to
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But as a multiracial person, I found I was considered an outsider just like my white classmates. In Japan, introductions begin with family name first: Shiozawa Arison desu. The look on Japanese faces as they analyzed mine, their wheels turning, was a look that was all too familiar. It’s the same one I’ve seen on countless faces when meeting other Americans: eyes narrowed, brow furrowed, and some iteration of “What are you?” or “Where are you from?” If my response includes city and state, I’m met with an eye roll. “No, but where are you from?” In both situations, the confusion is similar. In both situations, the message is the same: You don’t belong here.


Her experience in Japan makes me laugh. The Japanese are pretty racist. She will not be accepted fully as one of them. I think she wants to be fully Asian and she hates the white part of herself. American culture in general is very welcoming and open compared to most of the world. If she is going to belong anywhere, it is going to be here. She is just lost in who she is and lashing out at the wrong culture that she doesn’t want to be part of.

The people that keep blabbing on about Asian American attacks refuse to look at who is doing a majority of these attacks and why they occur. They want to blame it on a certain segment of the population when it is a different segment.
This post was edited on 4/22/22 at 5:17 pm
Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
54421 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:14 pm to
That is a whole pile of bullshite right there.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124349 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:14 pm to
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No, no they don’t. Not at all


Reminds me of the Clarke Perkins bullshite.

They come up with these stories based on caricatures of what they think racists are like, because they can’t find real victimhood.


Although…




This dude is a straight up caricature
This post was edited on 4/22/22 at 5:20 pm
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63408 posts
Posted on 4/22/22 at 5:14 pm to
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