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re: I think schools confiscating a phone from a child is strange.

Posted on 12/6/23 at 1:38 pm to
Posted by moneyg
Member since Jun 2006
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Posted on 12/6/23 at 1:38 pm to
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He went to work out after ACT class night and my wife was a wreck until he got home at 9:30…that’s just day 1.


Your wife seems like a parent who has an extreme need to helicopter over her son. If that’s the case (not saying it’s bad) then the logical next step would be to prevent him from driving on his own without the phone. That would seem to be in line with the punishment.

Or, get him a second phone / device so she can track him.

It’s interesting that neither of these things came to mind. Instead you want the school to change its policies.
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13801 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 1:41 pm to
How is it legal to take someone's property for the week? I understand taking it during the school day, but that's odd
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
41015 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 2:31 pm to
9 pages but you may have addressed this already.

At our high school, first offense, kids get his phone back at end of class.

Second offense, phone gets turned into the school office, and the PARENT must come pick it up.

Third offense and later, parent must come pick up, and increasing discipline (detentions, suspension, etc) for the student.

The school keeping it for a week seems odd, if for no other reason than the school doesn't want the responsibility of possession of the phone for a week.

But...

quote:

It’s how we (my wife really) keep track of his location, how fast he drives, when he’s on the road…


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and my wife was a wreck until he got home at 9:30…that’s just day 1.



Your wife is the very definition of a helicopter parent, and your son must be a titty baby.

My goodness... let that kid be a kid. Yeah, he will F up at times... let him. That's how they learn.
Posted by CrawDude
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2019
5832 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 2:49 pm to
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I’ve got some Garmin tracking collars, do you want to borrow one?

Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
172239 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 2:51 pm to
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keep track of his location, how fast he drives


Geez louise
Posted by Pikes Peak Tiger
Colorado Springs
Member since Jun 2023
9797 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 2:53 pm to
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don’t care, but it’s odd to take something we pay for and utilize for ‘safety’ purpose


I’m guessing that if the school confiscated it, he wasn’t actually using it for “safety purposes”
Posted by hawkeye007
Member since Feb 2010
6297 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 3:01 pm to
how did you and your wife every survive your childhood with out a phone that way your parents could track you.
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
18843 posts
Posted on 12/6/23 at 3:07 pm to
you're soft and raising a soft kid. don't want him to lose his phone, then teach him accountability and to follow the fricking rules.

parents like you are why kids are so fricked up nowadays
Posted by Boudreauboudreaugoly
Land of the Rice n Son
Member since Oct 2017
2962 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 10:39 am to
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I think schools confiscating a phone from a child is strange.
IDK how a school can keep a kid’s phone for a week. It’s how we (my wife really) keep track of his location, how fast he drives, when he’s on the road…

He went to work out after ACT class night and my wife was a wreck until he got home at 9:30…that’s just day 1.

I guess they’re supposed to turn in their phone to the office each morning…and my son has not and does not…so yea, give him Saturday school or beat him, I don’t care, but it’s odd to take something we pay for and utilize for ‘safety’ purposes…to punish him.

Strange if something bad happened…and we couldn’t respond.

Great majority of the pre-cell phone/social media generation turned out fine without all that bullshite. And before ya’ll say but, but, but it’s a different world we live in now and because of that you need those things, I say it’s partially BECAUSE of these things that our world has gotten to a place where you think they are necessary and you would not be able to function without them.




Posted by GeauxTigers0107
We Coming
Member since Oct 2009
10989 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 11:24 am to
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How is it legal to take someone's property for the week?


It's not but 90% of the 'tards in here don't seem to have a problem with it. They also "assume" OP signed some kind of paper saying they could keep his phone indefinitely. That was never stated either...lol.

Posted by Quatrepot
Member since Jun 2023
4154 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 11:41 am to
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How is it legal to take someone's property for the week? I understand taking it during the school day, but that's odd
Peolel have property confiscated all the time.

As for school, kids can take pics of a test and share, pics in locker room, video fights and put online. MANY reasons to not have a phone at school.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41063 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 11:44 am to
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my wife was a wreck until he got home at 9:30…that’s just day 1.



Couldn’t imagine one second of being married to someone THAT soft.

My god that sounds miserable.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
6903 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 11:44 am to
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This has nothing to do with whether the government has a right to confiscate your property in the absence of a crime or legal issue.


He mentioned earlier somewhere in this thread that it was an all boys school, so I doubt it's government run. Probably church related.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41063 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 11:49 am to
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I bought him a new sports car,


Holy shite you kept this in until page 4?

Damn that’s some serious growth as a poster. Proud of you baw.
Posted by Basura Blanco
Member since Dec 2011
11743 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 11:55 am to
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He has a fricking iPad with cellular service that he uses in school,


You do realize an ipad with cellular is no different than an iphone right? You can literally do the same exact thing on one.
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36758 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 12:15 pm to
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I’m really glad I did not grow up in the cell phone era.



Yeah, think where else you would've posted that pic of Brett Favre's dick that you posted on the golf board
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
49664 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 12:20 pm to
Why did you let them take it? Now if he is on it when he is not supposed to be or doing something he shouldn’t, they can take it for the day and give it back when the school day is over. But take it and keep it for a week? bullshite that would not be happening. Grow a pair and go get it.
Posted by johnnyrocket
Ghetto once known as Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
9790 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 1:16 pm to
There was a time before cell phones you gave your kids .25 cents. They put it in a pay phone, and dialed you at work to let you know what they were up to.
Posted by Splackavellie
Bayou
Member since Oct 2017
12608 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 1:37 pm to
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I bought him a new sports car
quote:

Gaston


Probably the only reason OP started this thread.
Posted by UKWildcats
Lexington, KY
Member since Mar 2015
19938 posts
Posted on 12/7/23 at 2:16 pm to
This line of logic that the school doesnt have a right to confiscate personal property because OP paid for it is a crock of horseshite.

OF COURSE THEY HAVE THE RIGHT.

It's in the GD rules. If it was a knife instead of a phone, not a single one of you would be arguing he should be allowed to have it. Why? Because the school's rules say you can't have a fricking knife, that's why.

OP stated its an all boys school. Which means it's obviouslya private school. Which in turn means he chose to send him there. You signed up for it. Shut the frick up about the school and do your job as a fricking parent. OP and his wife are the problem here. shite this kind of stupidity fires me the frick up.
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