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re: I think I ruined my marriage
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:57 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:57 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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I refuse to talk to my wife and won’t allow her to speak to me because I know the conversation will lead there. My wife says I get defensive when the topic is even brought up
Sounds like she is right from the first sentence.
ETA: You're a moron if you truly think your wife is wrong on this one.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:02 am
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Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:57 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Fortunately you've come to the right place.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:58 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Your wife isn't crazy. There's no reason for you to be talking to your ex on FB.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 6:59 am to N2cars
Social media ruins lots of lives/families but folks cannot live without posting all their business for the world to see and it never goes away!! F that
Draw the line at the famous TD!
Draw the line at the famous TD!
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:00 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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Am I wrong for this?
Um... ya think?
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Is she just crazy?
Nahh, you are just a dumbass. A total and complete dumbass.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:00 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Classic Narcissist
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:02 am to lsusteve1
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Classic Narcissist
100% and its so funny he cant even see it and blames her.
typical low iq BAW
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:04 am to lsusteve1
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Classic Narcissist
Yup
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:06 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
A girl that I was "friends with benefits" over twenty years ago and lives like five states over tried adding me on Facebook and I noped on that one. My wife probably wouldn't have cared but I'm still not doing it.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:07 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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I called her some real harsh names and told her to grow up. Am I wrong for this?
You fricked up. Yes, you did ruin your marriage.
You told her to grow up for exhibiting an extremely normal adult human reaction to your intense stupidity? And you called her harsh names for that?
Your childish behavior in the way you treat your wife should be enough to tell her that she is better off without you and can do better.
You were reckless, careless, and selfish in your marriage. You ruined it. Stupid bastard.
Your wife is perfectly normal. You are scum.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:10 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
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fiancé from 34-35 years ago
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My current partner of 15 years found some messages and saw me commenting and keeping up with my ex on Facebook and it upset her.
Flip the script. How would you interpret this? Be honest. While not physical, emotional cheating is real.
You've broken her trust. The same trust that you earned over time, you managed to break it with her by keeping up with someone from your past.
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I refuse to talk to my wife and won’t allow her to speak to me because I know the conversation will lead there.
You are stonewalling. This is one of the biggest forms of control, and disrespect.
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My wife says I get defensive when the topic is even brought up but I’m really just tired of hearing it
She's right, based on what you have shared. If you truly value your relationship and respect your spouse, you would listen to understand, and not listen to appease or try to win an argument. Because no one truly wins an argument in a relationship.
Set aside your pride. Admit that you were wrong, and you will do better. The two of you need to figure out what better is.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:17 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:11 am to bengalman
Meh...Facebook is only the debbil if you let it be.
Ive got friends all over the country and FB is great for that. So far, I've only had 3 or 4 affairs so you can keep it in check if you try.
Ive got friends all over the country and FB is great for that. So far, I've only had 3 or 4 affairs so you can keep it in check if you try.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:11 am to LSUGrrrl
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So your friendship with your ex is more important to you than your wife and marriage?
He's failing to see this perspective. He's being selfish, without knowing he is being selfish.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:11 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
It sounds like there are other issues afoot, this is just the one she feels morally superior on.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:12 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
You are a frickin dumasshat. Keep the dead buried.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:13 am to lsu777
OP is an idiot for sure, not only for reaching out to an ex and basically behind his wife's back, but for continuing to do so knowing it upsets her.
But shite like this:
Mature people can be friends with anybody. I have female friends that I talk to here and there, and it's totally fine (and my wife doesn't give a shite). I also text/talk to friends' wives on occasion as well, as I am friends with them too.
The difference is that there's literally nothing shady about it at all, and no reason for anybody involved to be mad/jealous/etc. Because everyone involved trusts their significant others,
Some of you are so stupid with the "men can't be friends with women, and vice versa" bullshite.
To answer the OP:
Yes, probably a little of both. But this one is mostly on you.
But shite like this:
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Can you be friends with your friends wife.....yea but you dont need to be messaging them in private and having full convo
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in fact....dont need to be having conversations with any female really other than your wife.
Mature people can be friends with anybody. I have female friends that I talk to here and there, and it's totally fine (and my wife doesn't give a shite). I also text/talk to friends' wives on occasion as well, as I am friends with them too.
The difference is that there's literally nothing shady about it at all, and no reason for anybody involved to be mad/jealous/etc. Because everyone involved trusts their significant others,
Some of you are so stupid with the "men can't be friends with women, and vice versa" bullshite.
To answer the OP:
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What you all think am I scum or is my wife crazy
Yes, probably a little of both. But this one is mostly on you.
This post was edited on 12/27/24 at 7:15 am
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:14 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
So to condense your post. You are going to divorce your wife and leave your kids so you can message your ex.
I agree with your wife.
If you love your wife and kids grow up and get off of Facebook.
I agree with your wife.
If you love your wife and kids grow up and get off of Facebook.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:14 am to CocomoLSU
You’re not a smart man, are you?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:14 am to Kickadawgitfeelsgood
How old are yall? Over 70?
Posted on 12/27/24 at 7:15 am to SECSolomonGrundy
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That old pussy wont be half as good as you remember, dummy.
Don;t be so sure. Older women have lost all their inhibitions and really know how to put it on you.
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