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re: How Would You Respond To This Email

Posted on 10/20/20 at 9:28 pm to
Posted by ibldprplgld
Member since Feb 2008
25008 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 9:28 pm to
Teacher.

In the time Karen typed out that email, she could have instead called the teacher to discuss why little Karen is failing rather than e-bitch at him for holding his students accountable. The AUDACITY.

Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 9:28 pm to
Teacher. Parents never take responsibility for the lazy little shits they raised.
Posted by td1
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2015
2837 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 9:34 pm to
Teacher. Pretty nice of the teacher to allow them to get in their late assignments before finalizing their grades. Unfortunately for those kids the real world doesn’t work that way, they are missing out on a valuable lesson.

If you don’t eat your meat, you can’t have any pudding. You can’t have any pudding, if you don’t eat your meat.

Posted by BoardReader
Arkansas
Member since Dec 2007
6932 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 9:41 pm to
The Teacher is so clearly in the right, that it is hard to imagine a genuine position of backing the parent here.

Get off your lazy, entitled, whiny, I have an excuse for everything in life arse, and do the work.


Posted by TDcline
American Gardens building 11th flor
Member since Aug 2015
9281 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 9:43 pm to
She didn’t even have to say “mother”. You can tell a woman wrote it from the dramatic capitalization.
Posted by Mad Dogg
LA
Member since Sep 2016
3771 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 9:50 pm to

I sure hope he/she isn’t an English teacher.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
51645 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:01 pm to
TL;DR:

Teacher: You kids are slacking, I expect better. Do better.

Parent:
Posted by fillmoregandt
OTM
Member since Nov 2009
14368 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:03 pm to
Teacher
Posted by Monday
Prairieville
Member since Mar 2013
5005 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:06 pm to
I have a couple thoughts on this. First, I need more context in the situation before I take a side. What grade level is this and is this the first time that this teacher is taking this line? I know a few teachers and they specifically are making the work easier for the students (and parents) because they too are frustrated.

Second, the parent should send their response in a more cordial manner. All this did was exacerbate the problem. The teacher may be willing to talk it out or come to a better solution that could benefit everyone. Now all anyone will do is point fingers and bitch until someone gets fired or it goes away.

Third, the children are responsible for their work and the grade is a direct reflection of their effort and participation. It might be a good time to teach them this lesson. The teacher may have come off as a tool but he isn't wrong. He is not required to accept late work or give the children a chance to turn in missed assignments.

This idea of remote learning isn't working well and this is a great example of it. I actually think I appreciate the teacher more for being direct and concise about the issues and his future actions.


ETA: If we are honest about it they aren't failing any students this year. Get over it and move on
This post was edited on 10/20/20 at 10:08 pm
Posted by rich4pres
Knoxville
Member since Dec 2016
9774 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:06 pm to
Teacher. The kids need to learn responsibility and discipline.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
25528 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:10 pm to
I am a teacher. I side with the teacher’s message, but his grammar sucks and he should have worded it differently.

If the parent is that outraged, she needs to schedule a formal conference with an administrator instead of fire off with the caps lock on. Most issues can be resolved with some healthy dialogue.
Posted by Jackie Chan
Japan?
Member since Sep 2012
4682 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:20 pm to
depends, we talking 2nd graders or high school?
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27419 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:23 pm to
Everything about her email makes me want to punch her in the face
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
19244 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:25 pm to
quote:

Let me just say this I don't have to see your face or even have you in my class to know who you are as a person. I know exactly who you are just by looking at your grades.

Just tell teach you are black and/or brown and you e been out protesting inequity and you won't stand for this blatant racism...



For real though, it's refreshing to see a person in academia tell the truth. The truth is...if you have shitty grades, you probably aren't trying very hard.



ETA I assumed this was a college prof email to students. Still applies to primary school as well. Do your work.
This post was edited on 10/20/20 at 10:28 pm
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
17068 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:27 pm to
Need pictures first.
Posted by UKWildcats
Lexington, KY
Member since Mar 2015
17187 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:27 pm to
quote:

Teacher. Do your work. Turn it in on time. Don’t give a frick what you’re going thru. Don’t turn your assignment in, F.
/thread.
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
64067 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 10:50 pm to
I’m not reading the parent email. The all caps and grammar says it all.

I’m team teacher 100%. Kids “DURING THIS TIME” need to learn some fricking accountability
Posted by Misnomer
Member since Apr 2020
3446 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 11:00 pm to
They both acted badly. The teacher was unprofessional.

If I received that letter I’d remove my kid from that class.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 11:05 pm to
Is the kid being a lazy arse? Is the kid running away from problems, making excuses or choosing not to do their work? If so, team teacher.

Teacher is doing her part to try to give this kid a kick in the arse. Everyone doesn't respond to sympathy. Some only respond to challenge.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 10/20/20 at 11:06 pm to
Always team teacher because kids are little shits. Little Jimmy Bob probably went crying to mommy that he's failing the class.
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