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How would you react if your son told you he wanted to be a priest?

Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:22 am
Posted by Slippy
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Member since Aug 2005
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:22 am
Serious question.

I'm mostly asking Catholics, I suppose, but I would be interested in how the irreligious would deal with it.
Posted by Gorilla Fingers
Member since Jul 2011
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:24 am to
Make sure his computer is clean if he's still under my roof.
Posted by The Baker
This is fine.
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:24 am to
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Posted by LSUTigersVCURams
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:25 am to
I would be thrilled, as would any Catholic I think.

Posted by WG_Dawg
Member since Jun 2004
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:26 am to
why would it matter? I'd support him to be the best he could be, he's my friggin son.
Posted by Phil A Sheo
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Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:26 am to
Supportive of his decision.. If a parent is anything other than that...Then they're a shitty parent
Posted by Rickety Cricket
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:28 am to
quote:

How would you react if your son told you he wanted to be a priest

I'd be sad that he would choose to forego a life full of potential.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:28 am to
quote:

Supportive of his decision


This.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34334 posts
Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:30 am to
The descision to become a priest is an honorable one. I would tell him I understand, but want him to do his due diligence on the situation and understand the depth of this decision. Many men make snap decisions to become a priest, and live to regret it, because they spend the prime of their lives huddled away. He can still go to college and then entered the siminary. Then, he can get a Master's in theology which makes him eligible to be a bishop later.
ETA: I am a Catholic FWIW

If he does his homework on becoming a priest and still honestly believes that God is calling him, then I would be happy for him.
This post was edited on 11/24/15 at 11:31 am
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:32 am to
I'd support my kids in whatever made them happy in life
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:33 am to
I'd be happy for him.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:33 am to
quote:


I'd be sad that he would choose to forego a life full of potential.


You'd prefer that he be a cubicle monkey?
Posted by Chad504boy
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:34 am to
i'd be skeptical most likely.
Posted by Palmetto08
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:35 am to
Great question. I would try to steer him in another direction but would ultimately support I guess.

Have any of you known anyone to want to be a priest then decide it wasn't for them due to the lifestyles of those involved with the priesthood? The only two people I know who wanted to be priests changed their minds when they encountered a lot of homosexual activity.

I don't care to argue this and I'm not trying to make anything out of this just what I was told.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:35 am to
My advice would be that he should wait until he's in his mid to late 20s to enter the seminary. That way he has some experience in the secular world. You can be a good priest without taking that route but the experience will help you relate better to your flock.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
20650 posts
Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:38 am to
I thought this recently. Is the priesthood for young men. For people who haven't lived and lost and had years of temptation? A lot of the historical figures I've read about who joined the church did so later in life. I don't know. I'm not catholic but that's my thought.
Posted by iSpy
Member since Sep 2015
274 posts
Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:39 am to
I had a friend whose brother was going to be a priest and left because it wasn't for him. He is now married to a guy .
Posted by Martini
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:39 am to


I really like the taste of those communion wafers father.
Posted by dnm3305
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:43 am to
I would be incredibly disappointed, but would allow him to make his own decision.
Posted by Jcorye1
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Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 11/24/15 at 11:44 am to
Be the best damn priest he can be, which would be my response to pretty much anything my son would want to be.
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