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re: How would you deal with this...
Posted on 10/29/18 at 3:35 pm to MsGarrison
Posted on 10/29/18 at 3:35 pm to MsGarrison
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But there is a lack of sex or anything sexual. But im in my lower-mid 30s and she's in her upper 40s. She has sown her wild oats and I think anything with sex she looks as a chore.
Now this is where you lost me. Ive bedded many women in their 40’s and they were all sex starved vixens who knew exactly what they wanted and had an uncontrollable appetite for non-stop sex. She is definitely getting her lovin from another source.
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Posted on 10/29/18 at 3:36 pm to MsGarrison
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She's not an OT 10 but I would say a 6/7. She can be very nice and that's how she reels other guys in. Maybe thats how she got me.
Still need a bit more. Send me a pic of her and her number and I'll let you know for sure.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 3:53 pm to jbraua
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Send me a pic of her and her number and I'll let you know for sure.
good idea... we can try to set her up, let it all unfold on the OT and then OP can bust her out by sending her a link to the thread
Posted on 10/29/18 at 4:25 pm to MsGarrison
It’s over - you’ll never trust her again.
Go to her and say that you want to take the relationship to the next level but you can’t do that as long as she’s traveling so much. Tell her that if she is serious too, she’ll quit and find a job with less travel.
If she doesn’t quit, walk away and say that she can freely sleep with her boss without having to sneak around behind your back.
If she agrees and quits her job, point at her, laugh, and say “Who would seriously want to marry a whore like you? Not me, whore!” and just walk away with your dignity intact.
Go to her and say that you want to take the relationship to the next level but you can’t do that as long as she’s traveling so much. Tell her that if she is serious too, she’ll quit and find a job with less travel.
If she doesn’t quit, walk away and say that she can freely sleep with her boss without having to sneak around behind your back.
If she agrees and quits her job, point at her, laugh, and say “Who would seriously want to marry a whore like you? Not me, whore!” and just walk away with your dignity intact.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 4:32 pm to MsGarrison
I was going to suggest you're being ridiculous, but getting a hotel when it's only a ninety minute drive from home sounds like she's wanting to be away from you.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 4:37 pm to Aspercel
quote:oh for fricks sake
Jesus Christ, this is why I’m glad I’m retired. I’m not attractive so I don’t have that going for me, but I definitely feel like I’m completely washed up at this point.
Thanks ot.
Yes you chose a shite husband, but everything after that is on you.
Build a bridge and fricking get over it
And OP, just end that shite now. Truth does not even matter. You think she is stepping out and that shite ain't gonna change.
Time to start anew.
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 4:39 pm
Posted on 10/29/18 at 4:42 pm to Rouge
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Build a bridge and fricking get over it
Just that simple huh?
You or no one else has walked in her shoes. She's certainly not the type to come here and put her personal info out there so you or no one else knows what she's been through. She’ll get there but she does not need judgement or advice here telling her to get over it when they have zero clue what happened.
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 5:02 pm
Posted on 10/29/18 at 4:43 pm to MsGarrison
pics, so we can make the proper call
Posted on 10/29/18 at 4:44 pm to MsGarrison
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Im in my 30s and she's in her upper 40's.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 4:46 pm to Cousin Key
quote:Why does a thirty something year old guy date an almost fifty year old woman unless she's wealthy?
Why does a woman that's almost 50 years old have college-aged male "friends"? I'm being 100% sincere when I say that is really, really weird
Posted on 10/29/18 at 4:52 pm to JOHNN
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Now this is where you lost me. Ive bedded many women in their 40’s and they were all sex starved vixens who knew exactly what they wanted and had an uncontrollable appetite for non-stop sex. She is definitely getting her lovin from another source.
Yep. When on the road hotel bars are the worlds easiest pickup spot. Have banged out innumerable 40 somethings looking for some strange.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 5:20 pm to MsGarrison
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Im in my 30s and she's in her upper 40's. SHe is set in her ways.
Ive had this talk way too many times. Last time she did do this she was on a hook up app. I busted her on it and she initially lied about it up until i threatened to leave her if she didnt come clean.
Oh yeah. Y’all are lesbians.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 6:11 pm to MsGarrison
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Then she talks about trying to rack up mileage to keep a company car and instead of driving back to this location tomorrow she is going to spend the night (1 hr and 30 min drive from meeting to our home).
Yea, that doesn't sound good
Posted on 10/29/18 at 6:25 pm to theicebox
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I dont know if I could handle a wife or partner get porked by other men. But he moved past it. It showed me that when these things happen, in some cases you can move past things that happen in relationships..
Posted on 10/29/18 at 6:32 pm to MsGarrison
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I have a past and so does she.
This mentality baffles me. As a guy I dont want a girl with a "past" anything like mine. If she's not lived a better life than me she's not marriage material imo.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 6:35 pm to MsGarrison
Your poor girlfriend sounds scared to break up with you. Have you hurt yourself before?
Posted on 10/29/18 at 6:36 pm to MsGarrison
this site likes the "how should I live my life" posts, but you don't deserve their loser advice.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 6:37 pm to TOSOV
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If she's not lived a better life than me she's not marriage material imo.
Maybe it's being overly judgemental but I feel the same but I guess the other person could feel thAt way too.
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 6:48 pm
Posted on 10/29/18 at 6:44 pm to phutureisyic
quote:Disappointed it got this far down on the first page before this was asked for. OT is slipping big time.
Pics of GF?
Posted on 10/29/18 at 6:48 pm to Jake88
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I was going to suggest you're being ridiculous, but getting a hotel when it's only a ninety minute drive from home sounds like she's wanting to be away from you.
She works in the hotel industry. Her reasoning was she had a meeting at 9am and didn’t want to wake up at 5am and then get dressed and make the commute.
It’s all good though. If I’m not important enough for her to tell me in advance when she is leaving she is gonna be single again like she normally has been. I don’t think she has ever had a meaningful relationship. I’ve slowly been detaching, it sucks but it is what it is
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