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Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:06 pm to
Posted by Tri City Tigers
Member since Oct 2018
2343 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:06 pm to
Probably doing a white guy or just annoyed that her bf is paranoid every time she travels.
Posted by nes2010
Member since Jun 2014
8031 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:06 pm to
You should probably stop posting this cringy relationship stuff on here. But I can see why you are gunshy. But the multiple threads you did way back when was bad enough.

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Posted by JOHNN
Prairieville
Member since Nov 2008
4513 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:06 pm to
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Ive stressed communicating with her OVER and OVER!

Im in my 30s and she's in her upper 40's. SHe is set in her ways.

Ive had this talk way too many times. Last time she did do this she was on a hook up app. I busted her on it and she initially lied about it up until i threatened to leave her if she didnt come clean.


You mentioned earlier she had a past history of cheating and now you say youve caught her getting nudes, being on a hook up app, etc. so why do you stay with her? She racking up checkmarks on the “should I leave this relationship” board, but you just keep making more room on it to find a reason to stay. The sex cant be so mindblowing that you cant find another freak that will actually treat you with respect. Its almost like she is trying hard to force you to do the breakup so she isnt the bad person.
Posted by t00f
Not where you think I am
Member since Jul 2016
102351 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:07 pm to
mission accomplished.
Posted by DuckManiak
Member since Nov 2011
3856 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:09 pm to
I used to live with a bag packed and next to the front door. Work would call and I would have to be wherever they needed me for however long.

The girl I was in a relationship with couldn’t handle it and we split up.

I feel like this shouldn’t bother the person who wears the pants in a relationship, but to each their own.
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
48420 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:10 pm to
quote:

Im starting to think it may be time to find a side piece




Evidently, she beat you to it
Posted by RJL2
Bruno's Tavern
Member since Apr 2015
1934 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:12 pm to
How about tell her when she is going out of town last minute it upsets you and have a conversation about it like an adult instead of running to the OT
Posted by Hogwarts
Arkansas, USA
Member since Sep 2015
18395 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:14 pm to
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I would be happy to get a few nights alone to fap and play Fortnite
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22509 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:17 pm to
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You mentioned earlier she had a past history of cheating and now you say youve caught her getting nudes, being on a hook up app, etc. so why do you stay with her? She racking up checkmarks on the “should I leave this relationship” board, but you just keep making more room on it to find a reason to stay. The sex cant be so mindblowing that you cant find another freak that will actually treat you with respect. Its almost like she is trying hard to force you to do the breakup so she isnt the bad person.



Maybe so.. But the few times i attempted to leave her she started crying and pleading for me not to and said she is tired of dating.
Posted by RJL2
Bruno's Tavern
Member since Apr 2015
1934 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:17 pm to
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My gut tells me she only does this so i cant make any plans in advance with someone else (which i do anyway)


So you cheat on her? Why is it even an issue if she's cheating on you then? You both seem like shite people. Why even be in a relationship if you're gonna be a scumbag
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22509 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:18 pm to
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How about tell her when she is going out of town last minute it upsets you and have a conversation about it like an adult instead of running to the OT



I did. And she acted as if nothing was wrong with it. That's a lack of respect right there.

I hate having these type of convos over the phone and i told her we would talk about it when she returns but she insisted on doing it now. She has a problem with being held accountable for her actions when it comes to non business stuff.

This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 2:20 pm
Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
37023 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:20 pm to
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But the few times i attempted to leave her she started crying and pleading for me not to and said she is tired of dating.


She obviously wears the pants.

She's tired of dating but obviously not tired of playing games. Cut her loose and cut the cord.

She doesn't respect you. Too late to get any. Only 2 moves, deal with it (frick NO!!!) or break it off.
Posted by MsGarrison
Steele Town LOL
Member since Nov 2009
22509 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:20 pm to
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So you cheat on her? Why is it even an issue if she's cheating on you then? You both seem like shite people. Why even be in a relationship if you're gonna be a scumbag


Im not cheating.. It's like she doesnt want me to hang out with my friends. And she knows that it takes a few days or more just to arrange something
Posted by RJL2
Bruno's Tavern
Member since Apr 2015
1934 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:20 pm to
You need to get out of the relationship dude. If she's gonna be emotional and freak out about it, pack her shite while she's gone
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11637 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:21 pm to
Dude. You left out a ton of relevant information, like the fact that you’ve caught her cheating.

This will never get better. I don’t care if she cries; why are you staying with her?
Posted by BuckyCheese
Member since Jan 2015
57778 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:21 pm to
Dating a whore that is 10 years older than yourself?

Jesus, get some self respect.

And some younger arse.
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:22 pm to
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I did. And she acted as if nothing was wrong with it. That's a lack of respect right there.


You cheat on her, shut the frick up about lack of respect.
Posted by theicebox
Member since Oct 2017
710 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:23 pm to
A buddy of mine, suspected his girl was running around.

His solution, He placed a tracking device on her car.

When he found out the location, he went and confronted her with a friend so he could prove in the court she was running around on him, which she was.

They "worked" it out and now seem enjoyable. He didnt go torched earth on her and burn everything down either.

I dont know if I could handle a wife or partner get porked by other men. But he moved past it. It showed me that when these things happen, in some cases you can move past things that happen in relationships..
Posted by Cousin Key
Member since Dec 2017
995 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:25 pm to
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She had an ex sending her nude pics of himself to her on her birthday and she ended up emailing them to herself. Then, the 21-25 yo guys she calls "friends" she always starts the convo up as, "I was just thinking of you..." shite like that...


quote:

she's in her upper 40's.


Why does a woman that's almost 50 years old have college-aged male "friends"? I'm being 100% sincere when I say that is really, really weird.
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 2:26 pm
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72193 posts
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:26 pm to
dude. You had a thread on the sec rant about your gf cheating on you. This the same girl? I ask for obvious fricking reasons.
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 2:27 pm
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