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re: How would you deal with this...
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:27 pm to MsGarrison
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:27 pm to MsGarrison
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Then she talks about trying to rack up mileage to keep a company car and instead of driving back to this location tomorrow she is going to spend the night (1 hr and 30 min drive from meeting to our home).
yea, she's cheating on you. Again.
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Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:31 pm to Cousin Key
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Why does a woman that's almost 50 years old have college-aged male "friends"? I'm being 100% sincere when I say that is really, really weird.
She tried to fool me with that bull saying those were her friends, yeah they were FWB!
On top of that, she has a lifetime restraining order on a guy who she said she was never dating but the restraining order clearly states dating. Reason why other dude with torched Earth on her was because she used him as a rebound and got back with her ex, which was the same one who sent her the nude pictures on her birthday that i mentioned before.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:34 pm to Evil Little Thing
Im trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.. But im down right just tired. I love her but it's just not a match.
So many other things are issues, her health, sex, etc...
I think she is happy in the relationship, she is getting what she wants out of it. On the other hand, im happy some days but mostly just numb to most of it now. She has a hard time putting herself in my shoes.
When I came into the picture she wanted to start building and doing what she wanted to do now that she has someone to share it with. I enjoy what we have done together but when we address an issue she always says she will try change it.. In the end, nothing really changes.
So many other things are issues, her health, sex, etc...
I think she is happy in the relationship, she is getting what she wants out of it. On the other hand, im happy some days but mostly just numb to most of it now. She has a hard time putting herself in my shoes.
When I came into the picture she wanted to start building and doing what she wanted to do now that she has someone to share it with. I enjoy what we have done together but when we address an issue she always says she will try change it.. In the end, nothing really changes.
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 2:36 pm
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:35 pm to MsGarrison
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she has a lifetime restraining order on a guy
No such thing
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the restraining order clearly states dating.
WTF?
More holes in this story than in a 50 year old Swiss cheese.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:37 pm to HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
The judge granted the restraining order or whatever the correct term may be for life (it had years on it) because he threatened to kill himself and her.
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 2:38 pm
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:37 pm to MsGarrison
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gf travels for work and doesnt tell you up until 12 hrs prior to leaving
That thing will be so sore when she gets home you won't be able to touch it with a Q-Tip.
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 2:39 pm
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:38 pm to MsGarrison
It all really depends on how good looking she is and how good looking you are.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:38 pm to MsGarrison
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Then she talks about trying to rack up mileage to keep a company car and instead of driving back to this location tomorrow she is going to spend the night (1 hr and 30 min drive from meeting to our home).
Sound like you should make a drive and check shite out. Maybe surprise her and spend the night.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:39 pm to MsGarrison
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Im trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.. But im down right just tired. I love her but it's just not a match.
This has to stop. She’s proven she is a liar and incapable of changing or letting go of the attention from other men. If it hasn’t gone away by late 40s, it never will.
10 years from now, do you really want to be running behind a cheating senior citizen?
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:39 pm to jbraua
She's not an OT 10 but I would say a 6/7. She can be very nice and that's how she reels other guys in. Maybe thats how she got me.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:40 pm to MsGarrison
I have no advice to offer, but after reading the OP, it reminded to tell my wife about plans i have for this week and next weekend. thanks! 
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:40 pm to DLauw
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:42 pm to MsGarrison
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She can be very nice and that's how she reels other guys in. Maybe thats how she got me.
Considering how many red flags you ignored and continue to ignore...
She could have emailed you pretending to be a Nigerian princess needing you to help her get millions of dollars.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:42 pm to MsGarrison
Best way to get over one is to get into another one.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:44 pm to Slagathor
Nah, no one is perfect. I have a past and so does she. I try to look past it but, when it keeps popping up in the present that's when the issues arise. Most of the guy stuff has stopped for the most part (at least from what i know). I dont have time to chase her around trying to figure out what what or who she is doing. All I asked for is being upfront, that's it.
When she comes back home, we will still have this convo-again.
When she comes back home, we will still have this convo-again.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:45 pm to MsGarrison
Dude, dump it like a bag of coke in the toilet and the FEDS are coming in.
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:45 pm to MsGarrison
She's definitely getting it on the side ...
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:50 pm to MsGarrison
quote:Bro, come on. You have to look at this without rose colored glasses. B/c it's very easy for me (someone not involved in the situation) to see that she's cheating on you. Probably with several dudes.
In the beginning, she was very dishonest about other guys. Her past reeks of being dishonest in relationships and cheating. High school buds of mine have told me stories about her. And I have verified most. She got better and tries but a leopard cant change its spots. She had an ex sending her nude pics of himself to her on her birthday and she ended up emailing them to herself. Then, the 21-25 yo guys she calls "friends" she always starts the convo up as, "I was just thinking of you..." shite like that...
This post was edited on 10/29/18 at 3:03 pm
Posted on 10/29/18 at 2:51 pm to MsGarrison
By the way, this has nothing to do with her not giving you a heads up on her work trip but everything to do with you thinking she’s cheating.
FWIW, she probably is. It’s clear you haven’t trusted her in the past and are not going to start (not saying you’re wrong on that). Therefore, you need to end it.
FWIW, she probably is. It’s clear you haven’t trusted her in the past and are not going to start (not saying you’re wrong on that). Therefore, you need to end it.
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