re: How to deal with a family member who keep procreating well beyond their means?

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Btw they do get food stamps

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Wow, your a self anointed OT baller and let family survive on food stamps, shame

What a beautiful thing — children. I wish God would bless me with some. Perhaps one day. Be grateful because when all is said and done you won’t regret the money you spent on others. Love and cherish your children and your family!

Already told my lil bro he only gets 3. Any more and they all get cut off from gifts.

Holy shite, those testimonies

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Their business becomes my business when the kids expect gifts and presents. Not only that but I feel guilty if I don’t give. They are nephews and nieces

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Set a budget. Fun gifts do not have to be expensive.
Buy cheap stuff on sale out of season.

Make gifts. Regift stuff your kids never opened.

Get them used books.

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This takes away from from my own family (spouse/child) and away from other siblings/parents of mine and my spouse. How would the OT deal with this?

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Think about it from a tribal perspective, these are potential warriors and breeders of future warriors for your clan or tribe.

Stop acting like a self entitled individual, support your tribe.

Stop using my thread as a plug and adopt one of those blessings your ever so yearning for

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I need a number, less than four and you're schmuck greater than six and I'm with you.


Let’s see, 4 on his own, 3 more that he looks after.

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This is King level trashiness

If crafts aren’t your thing you could look at Walmart for inexpensive gifts. TulaneLSU’s Top 10 Beautiful Christmas Ornaments will give you some ideas.

Lighten up Francis, just buy them a motor home.