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re: How to deal with a family member who keep procreating well beyond their means?
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:00 pm to 13SaintTiger
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:00 pm to 13SaintTiger
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Their business becomes my business when the kids expect gifts and presents.
Tell them to expect in one hand and shite in the other and let you know which one fills up first.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:00 pm to Tigerpaw123
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Sounds like it is beyond your means, not theirs?
I’m not responsible for them. They are barely getting by, which is where my guilt comes into play
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:00 pm to 13SaintTiger
Seven, then you're right, he needs to stop.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:01 pm to 13SaintTiger
Sounds like it is your problem ( can’t afford gifts and can’t control ole lady)
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:02 pm to Tigerpaw123
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Sounds like it is your problem
Of course, that’s why I’ve come to the OT
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:03 pm to Philzilla2k
Are you retarded?
It literally is his family.
Do you know how families work? What the concept of a family is?
A decision by one of them impacts all of them to varying degrees.
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it’s not yours or your family’s
It literally is his family.
Do you know how families work? What the concept of a family is?
A decision by one of them impacts all of them to varying degrees.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:04 pm to Manzielathon
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A decision by one of them impacts all of them to varying degrees.
Sounds as though most of the OT grew up without a family
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:06 pm to 13SaintTiger
Poors procreating beyond their means is the biggest issue this country faces.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:07 pm to 13SaintTiger
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Sounds as though most of the OT grew up without a family
I mean.. if buying a gift is the biggest problem you have, its not really much of a problem. If it is that much of a financial burden for you to buy some toys, suggest the kids start drawing names.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:15 pm to 13SaintTiger
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Let’s see, 4 on his own, 3 more that he looks after.
should have stopped at 3 and 3. now it's more than he Brady brunch
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:16 pm to Loungefly85
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Poors procreating beyond their means is the biggest issue this country faces.
The fact it is a fundamental personal right makes meddling with it tricky.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:17 pm to 13SaintTiger
Are you paying for their food, shelter, and clothing, or do you just not want to buy gifts?
If their basic needs are being met by their parents and you are just mad about having a bunch of nieces and nephews to buy gifts for, you are the problem.
If their basic needs are being met by their parents and you are just mad about having a bunch of nieces and nephews to buy gifts for, you are the problem.
This post was edited on 11/24/19 at 4:17 pm
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:17 pm to 13SaintTiger
Just don’t buy them shite. Problem solved. Or put 100 bucks in each of their 529 accounts or some shite.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:18 pm to 13SaintTiger
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Obviously this is extremely selfish on their behalf when you look at things from a sibling perspective budgeting for birthdays, Christmas, and “new baby gifts”. This takes away from from my own family (spouse/child) and away from other siblings/parents of mine and my spouse. How would the OT deal with this?
Sounds like he’s procreating past your means not his
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:18 pm to 13SaintTiger
Castration is the only solution
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:18 pm to Obtuse1
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The fact it is a fundamental personal right makes meddling with it tricky.
It doesn’t have to be regulated and/or banned by the government, but it sure as shite shouldn’t be subsidized and rewarded with taxpayer $.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:26 pm to 13SaintTiger
My family has the opposite problem.
I’m one of three and I’m the only one with a child (one)
My wife is an only child with no kids and her only cousin is also childless. So her line is ending and mine rests with my daughter
I’m one of three and I’m the only one with a child (one)
My wife is an only child with no kids and her only cousin is also childless. So her line is ending and mine rests with my daughter
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:29 pm to 13SaintTiger
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How to deal with a family member who keep procreating well beyond 13SaintTiger's means?
I fixed the thread title for you.
Posted on 11/24/19 at 4:29 pm to Cosmo
I thought you were a baller? You don't give your nephews gifts you cheapskate?
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