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re: How does anyone else deal with pathetic in laws?

Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:13 pm to
Posted by summersausage
Member since Jul 2010
1809 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:13 pm to
Feel like I’m at Mud_Til_May family reunion
Posted by List Eater
Htown
Member since Apr 2005
23563 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:14 pm to
JB's, best steak night in town. RIP Mike's Place
Posted by footswitch
New Market
Member since Apr 2015
3891 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:14 pm to
Leaving Alabama and putting her close to in laws was your 1st mistake.
Posted by mattz1122
Member since Oct 2007
52746 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:18 pm to
Cy Creek > JV
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:20 pm to
quote:

My wife's aunt is getting a divorce. Shes only 13 years or so older than my wife.

I just saw a video of her on xnxx with a medical mask on to hide her face...

You see, shite like this is why I still read the OT.

Now, go on...
Posted by List Eater
Htown
Member since Apr 2005
23563 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:25 pm to
Selvin Young > BJ Symons
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110670 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:38 pm to
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Her mom keeps our son for three days a week to help us avoid paying out the arse for daycare, but we’re close to saying you’re fricking done until you get your shite together and grow up. I don’t want my son around an alcoholic grandma.
If her being an alcoholic isn't enough, you probably need that extra cash enough to keep putting up with it.

I would never let an alcoholic be alone in a room with my 5 month old, much less let that person be the actual caretaker 3 days a week.
Posted by Champagne
Already Conquered USA.
Member since Oct 2007
48270 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:46 pm to
Are you the guy whose MIL took an $18k loan out in her daughter's name then lost the money gambling? If not then his MIL may be worse than yours.
Posted by CatfishJohn
Member since Jun 2020
13337 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:48 pm to
My wife’s parents are the shite. Amazing folks.

Her siblings are bananas, but still nice people. I’m just not letting them take our kids if something happens to us
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 5/30/21 at 11:49 pm to
quote:

Her mom keeps our son for three days a week to help us avoid paying out the arse for daycare,
sounds trashy


Quit having kids you can’t afford and don’t marry into a trashy gene pool


Play stupid games win stupid prizes
Posted by jfw3535
South of Bunkie
Member since Mar 2008
4643 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 3:35 am to
Sorry you married into a trashy family.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47463 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 3:48 am to
Sounds like your wife is a bitch. She's brainwashed your cuck arse to agree with her.
Your MIL was having a good frickin time until your wife showed her arse. Then FIL rightfully took up for the love of his life and called his daughter the bitch she is.

Now she's mad which means yoh have to be mad too.

TLDR MIL wasn't black-out drunk and your wife sucks

This post was edited on 5/31/21 at 3:49 am
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47463 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 3:50 am to
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I'm never going to be able to look at this woman with a straight face again

Send me that link you motherfricker!
Posted by Tigerpaw123
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2007
17252 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 7:14 am to
Why would you let someone who “sucks arse” that you despise so much raise your child? Maybe you need to rethink your life
Posted by Lutcher Lad
South of the Mason-Dixon Line
Member since Sep 2009
5720 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 7:26 am to
You ever think that mother-in-law is drinking cause her daughter married a loser from Alabama? I'd drink if I was her. And if you're so concerned about your kid why let her alcoholic arse babysit for you? Oh, that's right...to save you an arse load of money.
Go back to Alabama where you can tell your folks what's wrong with them and they'll quickly adjust their ways to please your sorry arse.
Posted by squid_hunt
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2021
11272 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 7:29 am to
Not trying to be a dick, but your post seems like it's filled with apologies. You seem like you honestly feel guilty about telling the MIL that she was out of control and your in-laws are playing it up to win the argument.

You seem like you felt bad trying to keep your kid from a woman too drunk to hold him. You should never have to second guess yourself on that, just tell her straight up that she's had too much and she needs to sober up before she can hold the kid.

That they're babysitting your kid is giving them leverage. I would look for someone else to watch my kid and take away their power. When they ask why, be straight with them. (But calm and kind.)

You and your wife also seem like you're dealing with some co-dependency issues. Your in-laws have problems and they make you feel guilty calling them out. I would recommend you and the wife get some counseling so you can get some tools to deal with their crap. You shouldn't have to feel guilty protecting your kid.

And while it's hard to do, you have to set some rules for your house and be straight forward with them. They have a problem and they're never going to fix it if you constantly accommodate them.
This post was edited on 5/31/21 at 7:30 am
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 7:34 am to
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I haven't talked to an in law in over a year. Hell, if they want they can come pick up their offspring too.

Posted by ColdDuck
BR via da Parish
Member since Sep 2006
2759 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 8:08 am to
I'd drink too if I was an empty nester and my daughter married a loser who can't afford child care and I get stuck watching her rugrats three days a week.

Once you have had kids and they are older and leave, no one wants to do that shite again three times a week.
Posted by LSUdude3756
Member since Jun 2015
618 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 8:35 am to
Where's the aunt xnxx link?!
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259921 posts
Posted on 5/31/21 at 8:37 am to
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Nah, my father in law has a mullet and cigarette boat. He’s the fricking man. Sorry your family sucks


The OT is predictable.
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