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re: How Did Your Parents Meet?

Posted on 8/31/24 at 7:33 am to
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
21274 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 7:33 am to
Mine met at Hueytown High School in the 1950s. They have been married for almost 60 years.
Posted by pdubya76
Sw Ms
Member since Mar 2012
6390 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 7:36 am to
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mom and dad lived on the same street in Crowley. My mom grew up there and my dad had just moved from Lawtel


My mom is from Lawtell. Not much happening over there .
Posted by Sidicous
NELA
Member since Aug 2015
18725 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 7:39 am to
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at a poker game


Is your mom Brooke Shields and your father Peter Fonda?



Wanda Nevada
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Set in 1950s Arizona, the story follows a drifter and gambler named Beaudray Demerille. In a card game, he wins the movie's title character, Wanda Nevada, a 13-year-old orphan with dreams of singing at the Grand Ole Opry.
Posted by ldts
Member since Aug 2015
2790 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:04 am to
They met at a bar. My dad died of alzhiemers a few years back. Last year mama gave me a lot of his things.

In his last few years before he got too bad off, he would write out things like that trying to make sure he remembered. There were a few papers of that in there, and he wrote about how they met quite a bit.
Posted by JimmyMcGoo
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
608 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:23 am to
My father was introduced to my mother by her older brother.
Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
7001 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:26 am to
Blind date to Mardi Gras 1950. They were juniors in high school.
This post was edited on 8/31/24 at 8:31 am
Posted by Shanegolang
Denham Springs, La
Member since Sep 2015
4367 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:37 am to
Dad was a guitarist in a band. Mom was listening to them and met him while he took a break. Back around 1964 or so.
Posted by TN Tygah
Member since Nov 2023
6650 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:38 am to
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AA


I was always curious, isn’t it playing with fire to go after someone in your home group? I’m not single, so it doesn’t matter to me at the moment, but I have always been curious about that. I go to meetings regularly, I see the same people, always felt like those who meet in AA are shitting where they eat.

How did they navigate that?
This post was edited on 8/31/24 at 8:40 am
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
25697 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:40 am to
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my dad rizzed her up

bruh, you way too old, like most of us here, to be using the term "rizz", in any capacity....
Posted by msudawg1200
Central Mississippi
Member since Jun 2014
10409 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:45 am to
High school sweethearts in the early 60's. Dad was a pretty good high school football and baseball player. Got scouted by the Indians and probably could've went somewhere to play, but like many of that generation they got married at 18 right out of high school. Were married 48 years, until my father's death from colon cancer 10 years ago.
Posted by zuluboudreaux
God’s country USA
Member since Jan 2008
894 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:51 am to
Mom was a junior in HS and dad was a senior.
Blind date set up by classmates who later married and remained life long friends as in see / talk every week and vacation together.
Mom & dad married while she was a senior. Was no longer allowed to be a majorette because she was married.
Her dad, my grandfather, said ‘it was a marriage that would never last.”
My dad never forgot that and often mentioned it.
Married lasted 68 1/2 years when my mom passed away.
After her death, he never missed a day talking about my mom.
He passed 5 years later.
Had a great set of parents and miss them dearly.
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
25697 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 8:56 am to
you say this:
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I go to meetings regularly,

then you say this:
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isn’t it playing with fire to go after someone in your home group

if you do go to meetings, you know about the 13th step and how it's very much frowned upon...

granted, we all adults and there will likely be attraction in any group of people, much more so when people are baring their souls to each other, but you gotta think beyond the edge of your dick.... there could be serious consequences, in terms of long term sobriety for one of the parties of the relationship, if it doesn't work out...

i'm not saying it's a cardinal sin, i'm just saying it's likely not the best idea
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
30561 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:05 am to
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Their meeting was totally by chance,



Well that was anticlimactic
Posted by Gifman
Member since Jan 2021
14971 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:09 am to
Have no idea .. never asked
Posted by LSUBFA83
Member since May 2012
3844 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:09 am to
Mom and Dad both were born and raised in New Orleans. Back in the 50s, kids would get together at each other's houses and set up a record player in the living room or garage. They'd dance and drink root beer. Apparently my Dad had seen Mom at one of these parties. He found out she was going to be at an upcoming party and got himself invited. Once there he proceeded to "impress" her by opening Coke bottles with his teeth. She was 16, he was 19. Five years later they married and stayed married for 54 years until he passed.
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
30561 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:12 am to
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I was always curious, isn’t it playing with fire to go after someone in your home group? I’m not single, so it doesn’t matter to me at the moment, but I have always been curious about that. I go to meetings regularly, I see the same people, always felt like those who meet in AA are shitting where they eat.



Doesn't matter if it's a home group or not. Id say there's definitely been many meaningful long-term relationships formed in the rooms but likewise many very destructive ones as well. And when you really get ingrained in recovery those are your friends, your crowd, so it shouldn't be a big surprise people meet there. And id say there's not anything wrong with it, but you have to know yourself and respect where the other party is at in their sobriety. I wouldn't get into a relationship either in or out of the rooms early on
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
22787 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:24 am to
Moms from Vacherie and my dads from Chauvin, they met at the College Inn in Thibodaux in about 1971. My dad's buddy was dating my mom's friend and he introduced them.
Posted by JustDooIt
Steeelwood
Member since Jun 2006
885 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:25 am to
My Dad was a hot prospect coming to Southern assn team right before WWII. My Mom a photo-journalist for newspaper went to interview him. He joined Marines shortly after. They married in NC while he was in basic. Together for 65 years til she passed away. Miss 'em both.
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
17190 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:26 am to
My dad grew up 800 miles away from my mom on a farm. He was in the military and was stateside in Alabama for a few weeks.

He went looking for work (to make some extra spending money) while he was off.

He met my maternal grandfather who was in construction and worked for him for 10 days. To hear my grandfather tell the story, my dad was the first guy to the worksite and last to leave. He ate out of a black metal pail and read his Bible at lunch.

At the end of the week, my grandfather took him home to meet his daughter.

They wrote each other every week while he was away until he came back and asked for her hand in marriage.

They were married for 56 years until my mom passed away.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
282536 posts
Posted on 8/31/24 at 9:31 am to
Mom was captain of her HS basketball team and an academic all star, Dad was a rebel.

Mom had the responsibility of watching the farm and helping raise her kids when her dad died at 11. Her mom had to work two shifts, while my mom ran the farm and took care of the kids.

The day after she graduated HS, they eloped. They were from different towns, met at a basketball game.
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