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re: How did you cope with putting your dog down?

Posted on 4/19/23 at 3:51 pm to
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
37016 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 3:51 pm to
get another one. Seriously. Nothing will replace the one you lost, but another pup will help you through your grief.
Posted by nitwit
Member since Oct 2007
12849 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 3:52 pm to
It is really hard, my friend.
Sorry you are going thru this.
But a new dog is not for everybody and certainly not immediately.
Circumstances change and this may not be a good time for a puppy.
Give it some time...
Posted by NEALCD
Member since Feb 2019
239 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 3:56 pm to
I had to put my 9 year old lab down about a month ago and it sucked. Best dog I ever owned. She would just chill out all day around the house and wait for us to get home. Starting having heart issues and finally got to the point where there was nothing else to do.

Had a get away weekend with the family and was going to put her up at the vet but I knew the vet was going to recommend putting her down. Sucked leaving her and I didn’t tell the family till we got home because I didn’t want it to ruin the weekend especially my 5 year old. She was crushed when I finally told her.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
117864 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 3:57 pm to
Got a new one a few days later.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
172330 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 3:57 pm to
very subtle "i can afford vet bills" brag thread.
Posted by LordSnow
Your Mom's House
Member since May 2011
5833 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:00 pm to
I teared up just from reading this as its only been a few weeks since we put one of our bulldogs to sleep.
I will say, we had unrelatedly gotten a puppy about 2 weeks prior, and seeing her run around and play being derpy has helped.
Posted by LSURoss
Dragon Believer
Member since Dec 2007
16154 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:00 pm to
We drank 2 beers and ate a whole pack of beef jerky in our favorite chair on the porch, then went for a ride. It was one of the most peaceful/hardest things I have ever done.
Posted by bpinson
Ms
Member since May 2010
2670 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:01 pm to
Sorry to hear about your loss. I had to put one of mine yesterday as well. We had Rufus for 11 years. My two younger sons brought him home one night. They found him in town and he was emancipated, mangey and full of heartworms. After we got him all fixed up he lived a good life. Rufus was the ultimate guard dog of his domain, he would kill any critter that entered our yard. RIP Rufus.
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
85688 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:02 pm to
For me, I grow very much attached, so the experience was very difficult. I can't tell you a time period, but I missed each one a great deal at first, one was like losing a family member. I still think about him and miss him and it's probably been 10 years.

But I can tell you this, it gets easier with time. It really does. The painful times diminish, and you start remembering the good stuff more. But I think every person is different.

Hell, I have a brother that can put a dog down, and it barely phases him, and he'll go out and get another one. Not like that for me. But during the hard time, I try to just think about how good his life was compared to what it could have been, and how much he loved me.
Posted by WB Davis
Member since May 2018
2327 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:02 pm to
quote:

Sucked leaving her
As morbid as this sounds, it helps me to be with the dog when they euthanize.

That kick-in-the-teeth gives me some closure.

Posted by vistajay
Member since Oct 2012
2682 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:02 pm to
I will be going through it soon enough, as my mutt is 16.5 years old. Having not lost a dog since childhood, I am not sure how I will react. I know I plan to have him cremated and spread his ashes over his favorite spot in the yard, when that time comes. Will probably take a break from dogs after that for a while, as we've just entered our empty nest years and are traveling too much to train a new puppy.

Think I will go home early now and spend some time with my ole dog on the porch.
Posted by ibldprplgld
Member since Feb 2008
26136 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:04 pm to
It took me a couple of years after my guy died before I got another. It sounds selfish, but I enjoyed being able to pick up and leave for a weekend without worrying about boarding a dog.

I still miss him a lot, but taking my time to process the loss before getting another meant I was better prepared to adopt again.

And if you do, you will love the new pup just as much as you did the one that passed.

Very sorry for your loss. But it sounds like your pup struck gold when you adopted him. He was with you for 17 years, so you obviously did a great job by him.
Posted by Bridget O
Kilgarvan
Member since Dec 2020
377 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:06 pm to
It never goes away. It subsides, but there is always some pain. I’ve done it 3x. We still have one to go. She’s 15.
Posted by WaltTeevens
Santa Barbara, CA
Member since Dec 2013
11331 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:06 pm to
My bros always told me "Best way to get over your old dog is to get under a new one"
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
38873 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:07 pm to
Sorry to hear that baw, going thru it right now too. fricking blows
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3902 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:07 pm to
Terribly. A chapter of our lives is gone. It was the most peaceful of goodbyes but we will miss him for the rest of our days.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
83602 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:08 pm to
quote:

As morbid as this sounds, it helps me to be with the dog when they euthanize.



Dogs are there with us when we're going through it, gotta gut it out to the end holding their paw IMO.
Posted by OU812ME2
Earth
Member since Jun 2021
1171 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:11 pm to
Well, I'll be honest. My dog got hit by a car around 1am and there was no way she could make it to the vet since she was 80 lbs and she had been completely run over meaning her whole back and legs didn't work at all. We sat with her and comforted her but I knew I would have to finish her myself. So I had to put a 9mm through her skull as I sat and held on to her. It was the first time I've had to do something like that and it was very traumatic to me. But I knew it was my job as her master and as the head of the household to do it.

I just got over it. Sometimes you have to just do things you don't want to do. As a man, you just get through it. It also helped to get another dog a few months later.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
9935 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:13 pm to
I read Old Yeller as a kid. Man up, shed a tear and do it.
This post was edited on 4/19/23 at 4:23 pm
Posted by Raoul Stimulato
Hale Bopp Comet
Member since Sep 2022
1725 posts
Posted on 4/19/23 at 4:17 pm to
Mines I found when she was skin and bones by the veterans bridge in vacherie/Wallace.

Poor thing was almost dead and now she’s a sweet, happy dog.

Gonna hurt real bad when she goes.
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