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How Ben got his penis
Posted on 5/13/22 at 12:51 pm
Posted on 5/13/22 at 12:51 pm
If you want the full article open the link in incognito mode.
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Phalloplasty — the surgery to make a penis — has grown more popular among trans men. But with a steep rate of complications, it remains a controversial procedure.
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Ben arrived at college in 2009. There, he started calling himself a “queer lesbian,” a term he used in an attempt to reconcile his attraction to women with his interest in men’s bodies. He joined a campus L.G.B.T. group and met people who seemed to know who they were, who called themselves things like “gender-fluid” or used “ze”/“zir” pronouns. Ben did not feel that these words applied to him, but for the first time he had community and language to help him disentangle himself. This was a stressful and exciting interlude. He went out in outfits from across the gender spectrum, in clothes he wouldn’t dream of putting on today. He had long debates over terms: What was the difference between a butch lesbian and a transgender man? What was the reason to use these words at all?
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In the spring of 2015, Ben got happy hour drinks with two friends at a Midtown barbecue spot. The setup was the usual — sitting at the bar, dissecting sex and gender, putting the pieces together again. They had done this many times before, but this time something clicked, and suddenly Ben understood he was a man. He stood up from the bar and told his friends: “[Expletive]! I’m trans! I gotta go!” Out in the street, he took off his heels and ran five sobbing blocks to the train. That night, he began the bureaucratic work of transition: texting his mother, posting a Facebook status, scheduling a doctor’s appointment to start testosterone.
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There he began his life as a man, working at a hotel, wearing a uniform and smiling when Southern types called him “son.” The state’s so-called bathroom bill drove him back to his hometown; in North Carolina, neither restroom felt safe.
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but Ben was confident — and had to go. He walked past a guy using the urinal and quickly unzipped to sit on the toilet. The man kept his eyes to himself (the men’s room code), but as he left, he told the people waiting: “It’s going to be a while. That guy just sat down.”
This was hardly an incitement to anti-trans harassment — he just thought Ben was taking a dump.
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he pictured a more hostile group of drunken men and how they might react to the absence of his penis. Bathroom bills were on the rise, and every day for the rest of his life, taking a leak would mean managing risk.
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Having a penis would help him feel safe, even if he still had to sit down in a stall.
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According to the most recent prepandemic data from the American Society of Plastic Surgeons, some 1,100 people in the United States had gender-affirming phalloplasty in 2019. This number is probably low, considering the modular nature of the procedure and inconsistencies in how data is reported. Surgeons at all four programs I spoke with confirmed that phalloplasty is on the rise. All claimed wait lists of over a year. This increase in surgery has set off a frenzied cycle: better access, new techniques and more doctors, but also an influx of less-experienced doctors and urgent calls for better analysis of outcomes to help bring down the complication rate. This narrative unfolds within a mass cultural one, in which America, at a larger scale than ever, tries to come to terms with what defines a man or a woman. In this context, phalloplasty occupies an impossible position, seemingly upholding both the malleability of sex and the essentialist claim that the penis makes the man.
This post was edited on 5/13/22 at 12:53 pm
Posted on 5/13/22 at 12:53 pm to tiggerthetooth
What are you people searching to get these news articles to pop up for you? Algorithms don't show me these.
This post was edited on 5/13/22 at 12:55 pm
Posted on 5/13/22 at 12:53 pm to tiggerthetooth
FFS. Quit giving these psycho's clicks.
Posted on 5/13/22 at 12:54 pm to tiggerthetooth
transitioned straight to hipster
Posted on 5/13/22 at 12:54 pm to tiggerthetooth
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In the spring of 2015, Ben got happy hour drinks with two friends at a Midtown barbecue spot. The setup was the usual — sitting at the bar, dissecting sex and gender, putting the pieces together again. They had done this many times before, but this time something clicked, and suddenly Ben understood he was a man. He stood up from the bar and told his friends: “[Expletive]! I’m trans! I gotta go!” Out in the street, he took off his heels and ran five sobbing blocks to the train. That night, he began the bureaucratic work of transition: texting his mother, posting a Facebook status, scheduling a doctor’s appointment to start testosterone.
Posted on 5/13/22 at 12:56 pm to jbgleason
Why did you click on the topic?
Posted on 5/13/22 at 12:59 pm to tiggerthetooth
I can’t imagine any high quality surgeon opting to do this kind of work…
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:00 pm to tiggerthetooth
That chick grows a better beard than I do
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:01 pm to tiggerthetooth
Ben has mental health issues that she needs help with. Jesus still loves Ben though.
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:01 pm to NATidefan
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What are you people searching to get these news articles to pop up for you? Algorithms don't show me these.
It's the NY Times and it's an insane article normalizing an insane act of self mutilation under the guise of "healthcare".
Insurance companies will cover some of these procedures, your government has made laws to enable these procedures as well.
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:01 pm to tiggerthetooth
God, these poor girls get their heads filled with this gobbledygook and start mutilating themselves.
Human beings cannot change their sex. Full stop. There is no such thing as trans, any more than you can become an airplane or a starfish or a Barney dinosaur.
Best you can be is a costume
Human beings cannot change their sex. Full stop. There is no such thing as trans, any more than you can become an airplane or a starfish or a Barney dinosaur.
Best you can be is a costume
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:01 pm to tiggerthetooth
quote:It is a contradiction that cannot be fixed.
This narrative unfolds within a mass cultural one, in which America, at a larger scale than ever, tries to come to terms with what defines a man or a woman. In this context, phalloplasty occupies an impossible position, seemingly upholding both the malleability of sex and the essentialist claim that the penis makes the man.
These progressives seemingly hold two competing views.
1. It is all malleable.
2. Basic norms that define each sex are what make each sex what it is.
You cannot hold both as truth at the same time.
This post was edited on 5/13/22 at 1:03 pm
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:02 pm to tiggerthetooth
Ben looks like a big pussy.
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:03 pm to Scruffy
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These progressives seemingly hold two competing views. 1. It is all malleable. 2. Basic norms that define each sex are what make each sex what it is.
Succinct and precise.
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:04 pm to tiggerthetooth
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It's the NY Times and it's an insane article normalizing an insane act of self mutilation under the guise of "healthcare".
Insurance companies will cover some of these procedures, your government has made laws to enable these procedures as well.
That doesn't explain why it's popping up in your news feed.
Mine has articles about things like Putin, F-16s, Football, Reef Aquariums, etc.
This post was edited on 5/13/22 at 1:06 pm
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:04 pm to tiggerthetooth
quote:that word again. 'safety.' they put that shite on everything, like granny's hot sauce.
Having a penis would help him feel safe,
'i won't feel safe if i don't have a frankenpenis.'
that's the clown level we're at right now.
Posted on 5/13/22 at 1:06 pm to tiggerthetooth
They can't build a prostate....
Sorry, ole baw won't know what it's like to shoot a load...
Sorry, ole baw won't know what it's like to shoot a load...
This post was edited on 5/13/22 at 1:07 pm
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