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Posted on 5/2/18 at 11:51 am to MWP
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Guys that have weddings from Sept-Jan have no pimp hand.
I was married in Sept 20 years ago and my hand works just fine.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:01 pm to BillBrosky
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I was married in Sept 20 years ago and my hand works just fine.
Must not hunt or know any baws that do. If you are a Bama fan, was it a day we were playing a cream puff? Sept gets some slack for football Saturday plans, so really Oct-Jan.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:04 pm to MWP
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Must not hunt or know any baws that do.
I hunt and fish, was in the woods last weekend. Bama was playing Arkansas that day, and lost.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:04 pm to Slagathor
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NYE, get new friends
Wrong. Free NYE party.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:04 pm to lsupride87
quote:It makes me a guy who doesn't sweat the small stuff or really have much tolerance for people who do.
By definition I think that makes you inconsiderate/selfish
I'll put it this way, if someone is the type of person to be offended or upset that I didn't go to their wedding, they're probably not the type of person I'd be friends with to begin with.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:06 pm to Slagathor
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NYE, get new friends.
Really? If I'm going to get dressed up and go out anyway on NYE, might as well go to a wedding and get free booze.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:08 pm to FearTheFish
People who complain about when people choose to have their wedding are the worst. It's their goddamn wedding, let them have it whenever they want. If you are that much of a shite friend or family, don't go.
Agree with this way too, if you want to complain about people not showing up. Do it on a weekend that doesn't typically impact others, even then you shouldn't expect everyone to show.
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I'll put it this way, if someone is the type of person to be offended or upset that I didn't go to their wedding, they're probably not the type of person I'd be friends with to begin with.
Agree with this way too, if you want to complain about people not showing up. Do it on a weekend that doesn't typically impact others, even then you shouldn't expect everyone to show.
This post was edited on 5/2/18 at 12:13 pm
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:12 pm to Dam Guide
quote:Yea, that's my thing. I have no issues with anyone having their wedding whenever they please. I also have no issue with anyone skipping my wedding for any reason they please. It's a very simple way to live life and not worry about meaningless shite.
Agree with this way too, if you want to complain about people not showing up. Do it on a weekend that doesn't typically impact others, even then you shouldn't expect everyone to show.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:13 pm to Slagathor
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Memorial Day/Labor Day, ok
hell no...people usually make plans for those weekends
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:21 pm to shel311
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It's a very simple way to live
Well, you are correct, selfishness is simple.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:22 pm to BillBrosky
quote:Not sweating stuff that have no tangible affect on your life, give it a shot.
Well, you are correct, selfishness is simple.
You sound high maintenance, as I said, I do a good job of filtering out the type of dudes who would get mad if I didn't attend their wedding, so it works for me.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:27 pm to shel311
quote:That isnt my point in this thread
It makes me a guy who doesn't sweat the small stuff or really have much tolerance for people who do.
I'll put it this way, if someone is the type of person to be offended or upset that I didn't go to their wedding, they're probably not the type of person I'd be friends with to begin with.
I have absolutely skipped weddings to do shite I want to do instead
I also dont think it is a big deal
My point is, I own it and say it is because I wanted to do my own thing. I dont try and turn it around on the person that got married and blame them for "putting it on that weekend".....
This post was edited on 5/2/18 at 12:28 pm
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:27 pm to shel311
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You sound high maintenance
Far from it bro, very far.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:29 pm to lsupride87
quote:That wasn't your point on page 1 when you said it was trashy, so you're now essentially calling yourself trashy?
My point is, I own it and say it is because I wanted to do my own thing. I dont try and turn it around on the person that got married and blame them for "putting it on that weekend"....
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:30 pm to BillBrosky
quote:A dude that would be upset with his buddy for missing his wedding...yea I think it's fair to say that's a high maintenance friend.
Far from it bro, very far.
Dudes caring that deeply about their bros at their wedding is pretty weird, to be honest.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:30 pm to shel311
quote:I 100% make trashy decisions, yes
That wasn't your point on page 1 when you said it was trashy, so you're now essentially calling yourself trashy?
But I think it is trashier to miss a wedding to cheer on your tide, than to say go to punta cana on a schedule vacation
This post was edited on 5/2/18 at 12:31 pm
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:34 pm to shel311
quote:Thats weird take
A dude that would be upset with his buddy for missing his wedding...yea I think it's fair to say that's a high maintenance friend.
Dudes caring that deeply about their bros at their wedding is pretty weird, to be honest.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:37 pm to al_cajun
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Whats the OT thoughts on scheduling a wedding during a holiday weekend?
Which one?
I have been to NYE weddings, also been to one the Saturday after Thanksgiving... didn't bother me at all.
Was in a wedding Easter weekend this year, it was a really good time.
I wouldn't have a problem with going to one on Memorial Day weekend either, or Labor Day weekend even.
Christmas wedding, that would be a dick move.
Posted on 5/2/18 at 12:40 pm to shel311
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A dude that would be upset with his buddy for missing his wedding...yea I think it's fair to say that's a high maintenance friend.
Dudes caring that deeply about their bros at their wedding is pretty weird, to be honest.
Nah, I couldn't tell you who all missed mine. My point is the way I personally would feel if I were to miss a good friend's wedding because I wanted to watch a ballgame instead, one, which in these days, you can record. It would make me feel selfish.
Look, at 55 I just seem to have a lot more care in me these days than in my youth. Maybe it's a growing older thing in which you realize the more important things in life.
To each his own.
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