Have women bitten off more than they can chew w/(family courts/marriage/divorce)

I know about 5+ women either through friends or family right now, in their 20s or 30s, in long term relationships who have been waiting on a proposal, even in some circumstances begging to get it, but it's not coming.

In one case, the girl (my wife's friend-no pics sorry) I know is nearing the end of her biological clock, which has now been shortened due to some medical reasons she needs to address in about 5 years, that will keave her infertile. Yet she keeps getting strung along by some dude, about getting engaged, and it's pretty obvious he just isn't interested in taking that step.

Then I still have a number of friends (men) still in their 30s without the slightest interest in marriage or starting a family.

I understand all the reasons. But it still sad to me that our government and court systems seem to almost be encouraging young people from having families. And scaring men away from marriage due to the "rigged" nature of how divorce turns out.

As for the girls, many of them are putting this stage off and focusing on their careers. But their biological instincts start kicking in sometime in their 30s, and become depressed when they can't get a man to their standards who wants to marry them.

i'm not saying avoiding getting married/starting a family is the way to go, BUT there has never been fewer pros and more cons to that life than right now. 3/4 of these broads under 35 can't clean or cook and half of them have tattoos and vape.

Anecdotal story time, a local man recently committed suicide in my area after he lost badly in a child custody case and was being forced to pay an ungodly amount for child support.

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3/4 of these broads under 35 can't clean or cook

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Right. Alot of them must thing men want a "career woman". And are completely out of touch. Men want a woman who is going to take care of the house and the kids, give them respect, not get fat, and have regular sex. That's pretty much it.

Unless you are just a guy that is dead set on having children it's not worth it. Way too big of a risk long term for just companionship and the potentially have kids.

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3/4 of these broads under 35 can't clean or cook

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You must be around losers: I don’t see this in my world.

I don’t think a woman knowing how to cook matters this day in age. But everyone, regardless of gender, needs to know how to clean. Don’t even get me started on grown men who don’t even know how to do their own laundry.

EDIT: I’m a 35 year old woman, and a real good cook. Definitely not why I’m a good wife, however.

Because the only things that make women a good partner are cooking and cleaning?

Never change, OT. Jesus

More guys are waking up and realizing that in most cases, marriage is financial suicide from a statistical perspective.

Plus, who wants to marry a mid 30s former ho bag that slept her way through life in her 20s?

Good for these guys avoiding modern day slavery produced by the divorce courts.

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waiting a long time while most of the “good” men are either in serious relationships or already married by the time they wake up

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Someone on Reddit made a comment very similar to this the other day that seemed to ring true more often than not. "...all the people who had good childhoods with loving role models (who set good examples) found each other pretty early and got to settle down while everyone else is out here trying to frick their trauma away."

Obviously not universally true. I know several late 30s/early 40s folks that really great people and are single purely from not putting themselves out there.

But I think a lot of the reason both men and women can't find good partners when dating as adults is because the good partners.. have good partners. Mature, reasonable people found other mature, reasonable people when they were younger and they still remain married.

Why do the courts stop at divorce raping men? A woman should get half if she dates a man too